My 5 Boundaries When Dealing With Women

Boundaries are essential because, without them, you are going to struggle to find peace and happiness in your life.

Boundaries are not just important for protecting your physical and emotional well-being, but they are also necessary for establishing healthy relationships with others. 

When you have clear boundaries, you communicate to others what is and is not acceptable behaviour towards you. 

This can prevent misunderstandings, conflicts, and even abuse.

Having boundaries means that you have a sense of self-worth and respect for yourself, which is essential for building healthy relationships. 

It also allows you to prioritise your needs and desires, rather than constantly prioritising the needs of others at the expense of your own well-being. This can help you to avoid feelings of resentment, frustration, and burnout.

Setting and enforcing boundaries can be difficult, especially when it comes to intimate relationships. 

However, it is crucial to establish and maintain boundaries to ensure that you are being treated with the respect and dignity. 

It's important to recognise that setting boundaries doesn't mean that you are being selfish or unloving, but rather that you are taking care of yourself and your needs.

Women love and respect boundaries because it gives them comfort as well as security. 

Your boundaries should be KNOWN once you start the process of getting to know each other and they shall be UNDERSTOOD and ACCEPTED before you move forward with anything serious.

In order to establish boundaries effectively, it's important to communicate them early on in the relationship. This can prevent misunderstandings or conflicts down the road. 

It's also important that your boundaries are understood and accepted by your girl/guy before moving forward with anything serious.

Good women appreciate clear and healthy boundaries in relationships as it helps them feel more secure and comfortable. 

When boundaries are communicated early on, understood, and respected by both parties, it can lead to a deeper level of intimacy and a more fulfilling relationship.

1. RESPECT 

Respecting me is not a suggestion or an option.

If a woman is to date or be in a relationship with me then respecting me is a   
NON-NEGOTIABLE.

• My Time 
• My mind 
• My emotions
• My decisions
• My space
• My name
• And my property WILL be respected

This is a Non-negotiable for me. 

If she is not willing to show respect like I am with her, then it's better we go our separate ways.

ME compromising my respect, me trying to negotiate respect is me compromising on my integrity. 

Compromising on respect means going against your own values and principles, which is never a good thing. 

In fact, it's a sign of self-betrayal and can have long-lasting negative effects on your mental and emotional well-being.

Respect is the foundation of any successful relationship. If respect is not given, then the relationship is bound to fail.

2. DRAMA AND CONFLICT

No public or social media drama. Whatsoever. 

My personal business/shortcomings/setbacks/mistakes should never be broadcasted for another person's entertainment. 

Fighting with other women is a NO. 

Stirring up drama and deliberately running her mouth and trying to piss off other men so I can come and save her is a NO.

Going back and forth with other women on social media is a NO.

A relationships should be a source of joy, peace and fulfilment, not a source of drama and conflict. 

I will accept absolutely NO trash hoe scumbag ratchet bitch type of behaviour.

By setting clear boundaries and avoiding drama and conflict, you will create a healthy and positive environment/

Drama & conflict leads to stress.

Stress is bad for your health.

Anything that's bad for your health will lead you to an early grave.

Avoid women who need drama to feel alive. Those women are damaged and will ruin your life.

3. ADVERTISING 

If I am casually dating a woman then this is not something I would personally care about. She can do whatever she wants.

However If I'm to be in a serious relationship with a woman then her PROACTIVELY advertising her sexuality is a NO! 

• Posting extremely sexual photos and videos 
• ALWAYS goes out dressing in very sexually revealing clothes
• Dancing sexually, like twerking in public events such as clubs, carnivals and festivals.

Doing all of these sorts of things can bring unwanted attention.

I’m NOT investing in, protecting, providing for, or taking care of any woman who’s for sale. 

Her sexuality is reserved for me because I have to work hard to have access to it. 

A woman's sexuality is a precious and intimate aspect of life, and it should be reserved for those who have earned her trust and respect.

When you invest your time, energy, and resources into a relationship, you want to make sure that your she is committed to you and not for sale to the highest bidder.

4. BEING PUBLICLY BLACKOUT DRUNK

Being wasted and blackout drunk in public is trashy and embarrassing. 

It would make her, I, and the relationship look bad. 

Way too many things can and often do go wrong, like life-altering things when someone is blackout drunk. 

It's not classy behaviour. 

5. ENTERTAINING OTHER MEN

If I'm dating and casually seeing a woman, I don't care who and how many other guys she speaks to.

However if I was in relationship and I catch ANY flirting or sexual encounters whatsoever is an automatic dismissal or demotion. 

Flirting, “work husbands”, accepting phone numbers, back and forth in DMs, texts, etc. 

To me, if she is doing any of that, they might as well be fucking. 

This is a NON-negotiable.

Conclusion

Boundaries are important in a healthy relationship because they establish a framework for how partners treat each other and what behaviour is acceptable or not. 

They create a sense of safety, security, and trust between partners. 

Without these pillars, a relationship will NOT work.

Without clear boundaries, you or the person you are in a relationship with may feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even resentful, leading to a breakdown in the relationship. 

Establishing boundaries requires open communication and vulnerability, but doing so can lead to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship where both of you will feel respected, understood, heard, and valued.

- Till Next Time