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11 Best Ways To Meet Women In 2023

Meeting new people can be challenging, but here are 11 potential ways to meet attractive women.


These are in no particular order.


1. Instagram

Instagram is the biggest dating / networking app in 2023, if you are not using then wyd? Especially if you are a young guy. 

That's where ALL the girls are and it only requires a little bit of effort. 

You need to work on your profile and then follow and then dm all the girls who follow you back. 

Don't post shit pics. Look at how girls put in effort with their instagram to highlight all of their best features, you need to be doing the same.

You don't need lots of followers, as long as you are not following MORE than you're getting followed!

You don't need a blue tick, it helps but not as much as you think. I actually know women who've shown me blue tick guys still in their requested section.

You just need around 10-15 good photos with good lighting that showcase what you look like and a little bit of your lifestyle. (hobbies, travels, friends etc...) 

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When you have a nice instagram or social presence, it gives people a slight insight into your life making it feel like they already know you, this makes a woman more comfortable in meeting you.

This is why celebrity type of guys have it easy. They have big online and social presences which makes women feel as if they already have a connection.

I'm not saying you have to post everything about your life online, just post a little more. 

Now think of it, you've built a decent page... It will get to a point where you don't even have to go out to meet girls. 

You can be in bed, at work, school or wherever and just dm girls.

When you have barely anything up on your profile, it can still work but you will not get good or consistent results...even if you are an attractive multimillionaire six figures bla bla bla 

You will look like a creep, a fake or spam account.

Think about it. even you as a guy, who are you most likely to follow back / respond to.

The guy with barely any pics of him or the guy who has a fair amount of pics of himself which shows him and a bit of his life. 

Yes, you can still post whilst remaining a mystery. 

This point absolutely trumps EVERY OTHER POINT on this list but if you are someone who doesn't want to be online, keep on reading.


2. University / College

If I went to university, it would be a problem. 

I swear bro - it would've been a problem 😂😂😂


The average university in the UK has around 20,000 students.

That is soooo many women to choose from.

University is an environment full of young, smart, hot and horny girls walking around and most of them ARE sexually active!

Universities are packed with gorgeous and single women just waiting to be noticed.

It's truly one of the best places to meet women or even form new friendships.

Your jobs as a man is putting yourself in situations where you can approach them. 

I know a beautiful Persian girl who is THICK (in the right areas) and she's one of them type of girls where heads turn everywhere she goes.

She met her boyfriend at her university gaming club. She is a professional PC gamer (counterstrike)

So stop sleeping on university and the events these universities are holding.

Go to the nerdy events and clubs too, sometimes these undercover baddies be at them ones, trust me. 

If you are in university and struggle to meet women, then you are gonna be doomed when you leave because when you are living a life OUTSIDE of uni, the only way to meet new women is by making an effort to actually go out and socialise at different events whereas in university, you can be on a lunch break and see 8 hot girls in the cafeteria. 


3. Social events or gatherings with friends where you can meet new people of BOTH genders

YES, there are only two genders!

If you are someone who doesn’t want to meet girls online then your next best option is any type of social event. 

so this includes the following locations: 


4. Clubs and Lounges

Clubbing gets a bad reputation but it can be a great way to meet new people including new women. Just make sure all of your important priorities are done before you go clubbing and do NOT get drunk. 

Clubbing is cool if done correctly.

Dress nice, go with a friend and enjoy your night out. 

Women dress up sexy on PURPOSE to go to these places. 

And they are much more likely open to meeting and talking to someone new when they are in these environments as opposed to meeting them on the street on their way home from after a long shit day at work.


5. Birthday parties:

Whether it's a friend's birthday celebration or a larger gathering, birthday parties provide a relaxed and fun environment where you can meet new people, including attractive women.


6. Wedding events:

Wedding events can be a great place to meet attractive women. Whether you're going as a guest or part of the wedding party, there are plenty of opportunities to connect with new people and potentially find someone special.


7. Fashion and beauty events:

These type of places are usually 98% women

If you're looking for attractive women, fashion and beauty events are good.

These events are filled with stunning women who are not only fashionable but also passionate about beauty, health and style. 

Whether it's a runway show or a product launch, these events offer an amazing opportunity to meet new women.

Don't be afraid to strike up a conversation and ask for their thoughts on the latest trends and products.

The only men who typically go to these events are homosexual. 

Most guys won't go.

Your average "bro" will look at you weird if you told him about going to a fashion & beauty event. 


8. Festivals & Concerts

Women love music, so attending a concert or music festival can potentially help you meet someone.

The events are usually jam packed with girls and their friends looking to have a fun night out. 

Attending concerts or music festivals is a great way to meet attractive women who share your love for music. 

Women tend to be highly attracted to men who appreciate music and have a good taste in it. 

So, if you're looking to expand your social circle and potentially find someone special, consider attending some concerts or festivals.

Music events offer a casual and laid-back environment where you can connect with new people and have a great time.

Attending concerts or festivals can be an excellent way to connect with attractive women who share your taste in music.


9. Dog Parks

Women love dogs, especially the cute and small ones which don't look threatening.

Dogs can be great conversation starters, and they often help to break the ice between strangers. 

When you're at the dog park, it's easy to strike up a conversation with other dog owners about your pets. 

You can ask about their dogs' breeds, how old they are, and even share some funny stories about your dogs. 

If you hit it off with someone, you can suggest taking your dogs for a walk or getting together for a playdate.

Even if you don't have a dog, you can still visit the dog park and interact with other dogs and their owners. 

Just be sure to ask for permission before petting someone else's dog and respect the rules of the park.


10. Gyms

The gym is a shared space where you can interact with other people who share your interests in health and fitness. 

You can start by saying hello to people you see frequently.

This can help break the ice and create a relaxed atmosphere where you can connect with other gym-goers.

One important thing to keep in mind when approaching women at the gym is to respect their space and privacy. 

Many women go to the gym to focus on their fitness goals and may not want to be bothered while they're working out. So, be respectful and gauge her interest before trying to strike up a conversation.

Don't go for the kill straight away. Strike up a conversation with a her a few times before doing so.

The gym is a place where you will keep on seeing each other, aim to build familiarity and comfortability between you and her.

Smile and say hello when you see her

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This will eventually turn into short conversations.

Also if she see's you talking to OTHER gym members (especially the staff) it will work in your favour greatly.

So don't just be social with women, but with everyone you come across with in the gym.

Some people won't want to be bothered and that's perfectly okay.

Another great way to meet women at the gym is to join fitness classes the gym provides.

Group fitness classes offer a social and fun environment where you can meet like-minded people who share your passion for fitness. 

You can also attend events hosted by the gym or participate in challenges or competitions to meet new people.

Overall, going to the gym is a good way to meet attractive women who share your fitness goals. 

Just be respectful, approach people in a friendly and non-intrusive manner.


11. Approaching on the street

This is still good but it's not as good as all the others on this list. 

Mainly because when people are outside (not at an event) they are usually in their own world and don't want to bothered by anyone.

While it may be intimidating, don't be afraid to approach women you find attractive in public places. 

It's important to be respectful and not come off as too aggressive or pushy.

If she seems hesitant or uninterested, respect her boundaries and move on. 

Remember, rejection is a natural part of dating and shouldn't deter you from approaching other women in the future.

Just be respectful and don't come off as creepy.

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Summary

Those are the best ways of meeting women in 2023.

In my opinion the best ones are Instagram, university and gym (fitness clubs) 

It's also important to realise that dating requires EFFORT... 

even if you are 6'5 super handsome and famous multi-millioanire, you may have it easier but it will still require EFFORT!

You cannot be a guy who doesn't want to put in any work into building an online profile or a guy who doesn't want to make any effort to put himself in social environments of both genders and then be confused to why you are not getting any play.

If you don't like social events, then build a decent IG page with 10-15 nice pics that show you and your lifestyle (doesn’t have to be anything spectacular) and then stay home and dm girls. 

Building the profile may require some what? EFFORT! 

But once that's done, you can stay home and dm hella chicks and update your pics (maybe) once every 6 months.

If you don't want to have an online presence, then you need to leave the house and GO OUT!!

Go to social clubs, events, parties, gyms etc... and interact with the women you see there.

If you do none, you will have 0 results and you will be stuck scratching your head wondering why lesser men are having a better dating life than you.

Are you expecting a woman to break into your house and throw herself on your dick or something?

I hope not because if that's the case, you better go get a reup on your box of tissues...


- Till Next time G 🌹 


Comments

Never knew dog parks and festivals are place you could find women… interesting 🤔


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