15 Things You Need To Know About Cheating In Relationships

1. People say men can’t cheat, but they can if they are doing it sneakily

A man can only take on other lovers if his current lover is willing to turn a blind eye or even encourages it. Sneakily doing it is cheating.

2. The MAIN reason Men will cheat is for more sex

Men almost never cheat for love and are instead craving more or better intimacy in the bedroom. They need more stimulation.

A guy can totally love a woman and want to spend the rest of his life with her and still have sex with other women he doesn’t view like that.

3. Women cheat to find a better partner

Some women do cheat for purely sexual reasons but it is rare. They are instead looking for a better lover and don’t want to leave their current relationship too soon.

4. Men will cheat with most types of women

When men cheat they will cheat with almost any kind of woman who is up for it, because they aren't cheating for love.

All he needs is 15 minutes

#WhamBamThankYouMa’am

5. Women will only cheat with a “better man” than her current lover

When women cheat, it has to be with a man who is in some way more appealing than her current lover.

A better man could be more physically attractive

A better man could be more charismatic

A better man could be more funny

Etc…

It’s not always about a man who has more money. He probably has a bigger dick and is more charming.

6. Men aren’t as threatened by “emotional cheating”

Men will tolerate no forms of cheating, but they would rather have to deal with some light flirting or social media interactions than catching her in bed with someone else.

7. Women aren’t as threatened by sexual cheating

Women quite often forgive physical infidelity but really struggle when they feel they have been replaced emotionally by another woman.

8. Men are more impulsive cheaters

Men are much more likely to cheat within 1 or 2 days of meeting the woman they will cheat with. Sometimes within hours.

Again, all he needs is 15 minutes.

9. Women plan out their cheating a little more

Women tread with more caution when finding a man to cheat with as they need to make sure he is “better” than her current man.

10. Men can easily brush off being labelled a cheater

Men can even get praise for being a player when they are caught cheating and others find out. It’s just a slap on the wrist for men.

11. Women are labelled as a cheater for life

Women who are caught cheating in a very obvious way where there is no denying it are left tarred and feathered (metaphorically). But that used to happen for real.

This is because getting sex for women is VERY easy, whilst it’s not so easy for men and what’s hard to get is always celebrated when achieved.

12. Men don’t want a cheating lover for paternity reasons.

A man’s biggest worry is raising children who aren’t his own, when it comes to cheating.

13. Women don’t want a cheating man for resource reasons

A woman’s biggest worry is being left out in the cold by her man if he gets a new lover and moves on.

Especially if she has invested so much into him.

14. Men don’t cheat when they have a submissive lover

If a woman will do whatever her man wants without limits, she’ll keep him very faithful to her.

15. Women don’t cheat when they have their ideal man

If a man puts himself first and has a big life goal to work on, she will feel respect for him and the need to “chase” him, which keeps the polarity very strong.

This is why as a man you should never be with a chick you can tell has settled for you.

That doubt and insecurity of her doing better will always be lingering around your mind.

Always aim to be your woman’s best possible option.

What would you add to this list?