The 28 Laws Of Seduction: Part 23 - 28

Law 23: Only say sorry when necessary

Anytime you apologise to a woman you are giving your power away and she will
not hesitate to use it against you. 

Have you noticed that the times you have apologised for something, she brings it back up to use whatever you apologised for in a future fight?

Apologies are ammo in her gun. You are falling into her frame every time you do this.

You cannot allow her to believe you are wrong about anything. She will start to view you as incapable. Some women will even try to get you to apologise even when they know you did nothing wrong to test if you are a pushover.

Never allow her to believe that she is smarter than you. She may wish she was
right for certain arguments but deep down she wants the man who is always right because this means he will be a good leader and possibly even a father.

Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of
submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. 

Apologising increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your submission, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes.

Instead, if you have done something wrong, you should acknowledge your guilt in a glancing way without resorting to the actual words “I’m sorry.” 

Say “Mistakes were made” or tell her you “feel bad” about what you did.

Law 24: Take irrational amounts of action

What you must understand is that I can only give you the mindset for
success with women but you must be the one to put it into practice. 

No amount of knowledge is going to overpower your self doubt. 

Confidence equals comfort and comfort only comes after doing something so many times that you no longer fear it. 

You must take what you learn from this guide or anything else on this Patreon and put it into action. 

This is the only way you will be able to no longer be controlled by your emotions.

Some men will wonder “where are all the pickup lines, tactics and strategies to get girls in this Patreon”. 

What they fail to realise is that there is no such thing as game. 

In reality you will just stop giving a fuck less and less the more you talk to girls. 

After this they will feel your emotional detachment, making them see you as a man with a lot of options. You will realise that all you've ever needed to do is be the best version of yourself. 

Women don't desire men that are only alpha, you must be funny, genuine, and loving as well.

Men are brainwashed into this idea of being alpha when no one really even knows what that means. 

To me, bing an Alpha male means being yourself unapologetically no matter what others think of you. 

Women don't care what you say, they care how you say it. 

You can be a complete nerd but as long as you own it, you are proud of it, women will respect you for it.

Men get so caught up in trying to say all the right things that they forget that they
are talking to another human being. Not a robot, and this stops them from taking action.

They become stuck within analysis paralysis. The girl is either going to like you or she isn't. 

The men who pretend to be someone they are not may attract her for a while but
eventually it will fall apart the more she realises you've been pretending to be someone you are not.

Deep down women just want a man they are comfortable being themselves
around. 

The more you come out of your shell, the more you allow her to do the same.

You cannot wait for her to express herself, she will only do this after you do. She follows your lead. So I ask you to go take massive amounts of action so you can realise that you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not to get girls. 

Law 25: Never be afraid to lose her

This will be one of the hardest thing to do one for most of you men who are reading this.

Women are like cats, the more you chase them the more they run away. 

But when you just sit there calmly they come up and see you. 

The more you show her that you're afraid of losing her the more she will start to think you're unhappy and desperate. 

She desires the man who needs no one to be happy. 

If you aren't willing to show her the door when she misbehaves then you are programming her to walk all over you. 

You must set boundaries from the beginning and not hesitate to enforce them.

Women are like children, they will test to see how much they can get away with.
The more you allow her to disrespect you the more she will. Eventually she will realise you are a pushover and leave you. 

Never bend your knee to please her. Love forms from respect so before you seek love from her you must make her respect you. 

I see so many men avoid disciplining their girl or threatening to leave her simply because they want to avoid an argument. 

All they are doing is giving their power away. 

Stop making excuses for her actions and show her that she will not be in your life unless she meets these standards. 

Deep down all women want to be treated like a little girl who gets told what to do
by a dominant figure. This is why FEMININE women like to call their boyfriends “daddy”. 

She wants you to replace the role of her father, not be her equal. 

She must know you are a man who will just go find another girl if she doesn't listen. 

Men think they will push her away if they do this and sometimes they will but that just means she was never that serious about you in the first place. 

This saves you time and heartbreak. 

The faster you convey the rules to being with you, the faster she will either leave you or submit to them. 

You have to train the women you deal with, they will not just come perfect to you from get go. 

Train her NOT change her.

Reward good behaviour, discipline bad behaviour.

Otherwise she will never love you or be loyal. Why would she? A feminine woman wants a man, not an equal. She will only respect you if she looks up to you.

You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you
will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. 

She who can destroy you, controls you.

Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.

Law 26: Golden ratio

A woman can't really be into you unless she has invested into you. whether its financially or emotionally.

Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. 

For every three calls or texts, give her two back. 

Three declarations of love from her, earn two in return from you.

Three gifts; two nights out. 

Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more.

When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. 

The idea behind the golden ratio is this — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. 

Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. 

What you must understand is that relationships are a power struggle. 

One person will always want or need the other more than the other. 

Women cannot love a man that loves them more than she loves him. 

It is simply not within her nature. You will notice that the more you text a girl the shorter her replies get. 

The more you show a girl you love her the more she retracts her love. 

It is an ego thing, all humans desire what is rare as rarity is parallel with value.

This doesn't mean to be a robot and never show emotions or talk.

It means to not fall into the feminine frame of caring about love more than she does. 

As a man it is your duty to fall in love with your life missions. As a woman it is her duty to fall in love with her man. 

You reckon Alexandra the great was chasing love when he was leading the front lines to war? I didn’t think so either.

Women don't have hobbies like men do. Men are their hobby. 

To become a leader, a man of value. You need to stop simping and realise women won't make you happy.

Only challenge and conquest make men happy. We are builders, we are creators, we are thinkers.

If you do not desire to find your true purpose in life you will always fail with
women. 

As you are living within the feminine frame, not the masculine.

Law 27: Do you REALLY want to be a Playboy?

Men think being a playboy and getting a ton of women is all sunshine and
rainbows. 

You see women will not make you happy or confident, they can add to it but they're not the cure. 

You will realise this only after you have experienced abundance with women because you will reach a point where you realise none of it is
making you happy. 

I teach all of this not so you can fuck hoes but so you can decipher a
hoe from a wife. 

You will never know the difference between love and lust until you have
been with enough women to tell the difference and become aware of certain truths to female nature.

Second, being a playboy brings out the dark side of women. When a woman is
obsessed with you she will go crazy. 

We have all heard of a girl slashing their mans cars tires etc. but some women will create fake sexual assault accusations against you when
they feel like you just used them for sex. Or that you wouldn't date them after having sex. 

Watch this video: https://youtu.be/ZkZETT73MQI

You have to be aware of how crazy women are. When they are in love with
you and you refuse to date them, some of them will have no end to how far they will go to seek revenge. 

If you are not careful you may just ruin your life just because you wanted some pussy.

Third sex is spirtual in nature, it literally creates life. It is not something to be
taken lightly. 

S = Sexual 

E = Energy 

X = exchange. 

When you sleep with a girl, your soul's energies SWAP. If you have sex with depressed women, you are taking in all that depressive energy. 

You will then become depressed. Her emotions are transmitted to you
through sex. 

This is why sometimes when you have sex with a girl, you feel drained after
and other times you feel great. 

You must be aware that demons use beautiful women to attack you. Just like in the movie the matrix, the woman in the red dress is really an
agent/demon. Using beauty to distract Neo.

Watch the first 50 seconds to this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgJ5ZEn67tk&ab_channel=FlashbackFM

The devil will send a low quality beautiful women into your life just to lower your vibration and to lower your state of consciousness. 

This may sound crazy to men who don't understand frequency and vibration but if you are not careful...sex can used to attack you spiritually.

I'm not trying to speak you out of having sex with women, just practice safe sex and be aware of who you are doing it with, that's all.

Law 28 : The cure for simps

This law piggybacks off of the last. 

You do not want too many sexual partners but at the same time you don't want too little. 

We've all seen the guy who falls in love with a hoe because she is the only girl he's ever slept with. 

Also when you have little experience with women you are more desperate. 

Men will date any girl they can get because it's better than being alone. 

So they will fall in love with hoes and low value women.

Experience is the cure to codependency. You become more selective when you
understand the difference between love and lust and high vs low value women. 

The man who has little experience can't tell the difference yet as he has no way of comparing low value women to high value women. 

If this is you, you should not feel bad though because most men start here. 

No man is born a playboy with charm and confidence. 

These are skills that have to be developed. Most men get heartbroken once and then they judge themselves which stops them from growing. 

They start to compare themselves to other men while they fail to realise these men were once simps too. 

The difference between playboys and simps is that playboys never gave up. They kept putting themselves out there and after a while they gained social and speaking skills.

They gained confidence and respect from themselves by never talking negatively about themselves. 

They understood that if they keep learning and working at it that eventually
they would obtain the life they desire. 

You're on your way brother. I am proud of you, I just hope YOU are
proud of yourself.

Conclusion

Many dark truths were expressed in this guide, some of which are hard to digest.
This is the curse that comes with knowledge. 

Truth is often darker than it appears but there is always light at the end of the tunnel. 

Understand the truths expressed in this guide so you can take back power over your mind and your life. 

Till next time.