The 28 Laws Of Seduction: Part 18 - 22

Disclaimer : This Patreon is NOT a woman hating environment.

The things I speak about when it comes to men and women are simply presented to help people understand the opposite gender better so they can avoid people who will bring negativity and misery into their life. 

This is done to promote healthy relationships.

Also, most things I speak about when it comes to women apply mostly to women who live in westernised societies. 

I have yet to experience women who haven’t  been westernised, so they could be different.

LAW 18: Energy speaks before you do

I am going to ask you to expand your mind for this law as it is not for the low IQ.

We learned in school that everything is made of matter. That matter is made of atoms that have a positive and negative charge. 

We call this energy and all human beings have a certain level of energy to them. You could call this presence. 

Point is that women can feel your energy before you even say a word.

In the pickup community they use the word “frame” constantly. 

The idea that you must fake your confidence and personality to fit what women want. This may work at times but it does not last because women are empathetic creatures who can pick up on energy easier than men. 

You cannot fake something you are not with women, they will see through it. This is why you must actually think and act like a playboy to get playboy-like results. 

If just faking it worked then more men would be getting laid but this is just not the case.

Have you ever just had this gut feeling about a girl? 

You don't know for sure that something about her is true but some part of you can just feel it? 

For example your girl is cheating or lying to you but you have no proof. Yet your intuition just keeps telling you that she is. 

This is because you are picking up on her energy. 

Think of two magnets, there is this invisible force that either repels or attracts them together. Humans work the same way. 

When a girl is not right for you, you will start feeling this repulsion. Women feel the
same thing when a man is trying to fake his level of confidence and masculinity.

What you must take from this law is that there are no shortcuts. 

You have to put in the work to become confident and it comes from results. 

You need evidence that you are the man you say you are to truly believe. Go out make something out of yourself in this world.

And once you do, women will start to gravitate towards you.

You cannot fake value, you must actually go out and obtain it.

Money and status are the two biggest contributors to most men's level of confidence. 

LAW 19: Body language tells all

The easiest way to judge someone is by what they like, the car they drive, the
music they listen to etc. 

It is the way they symbolise their personality through external attributes.

Likewise, women decorate their bodies in the ways they think and act. 

The body is a physical representation of the mind.

Her thoughts manifest through body language as well. 

When she is nervous she will fidget a lot and play with her hair a lot.

There are a million ways to read a girl's mind when you realise that she
expresses her thoughts physically. 

Her body language will tell you everything you need to know the more you pay attention and become familiar with these patterns of expression

LAW 20: NEVER EVER be the one to push her for a relationship or say "I love you" first

One of the biggest mistakes men make is not allowing the girl to chase after them.

Women desire the chase more than the catch. 

Men love sports but to women, men are her sport. 

It is no fun for her if you give yourself to her before she has to earn it. 

She wants the man that allows her to submit but she cannot do this if you submit first. 

The idea of falling in love is the FALLING part. She can't get lost in her emotions when she knows for certain that she has you on lock. 

There has to be some mystery to the way you feel about her - for her to stay chasing. 

Imagine if you were going to make an offer to buy a home and before you even make the offer, the seller says yes. In your mind you'd wonder why they are so desperate to sell this house. You'd think that maybe no one else wants to
buy it or something is wrong with it. 

Men who push for the relationship and say "I love you" first make her feel this way.

She is the feminine one, the one who is supposed to submit first. This is how love forms so you are only hurting yourself when you vomit out all your feelings and emotions towards her. 

Yes you may love her but don't tell her this first. 

Wait for her to beg for it, wait for her to beg to be your girlfriend. This is the only way she will submit to you.

**When I say beg, I don't mean she literally has to be on her knees begging. I mean as in she should be the one doing her efforts to try and lock you down. she should be consistently throwing hints about you guys being in a relationship etc...**

Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart.

The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. 

You may be in love with her, don’t say it before she has said it. Show compassionate restraint for her need to struggle toward your fulfilment. 

Law 20: Never make her your top priority 

Women cannot respect a man who wants to spend all his time laying in bed with
her. 

She will enjoy it during the honeymoon phase but after a while she will start to see
that you don't do shit with your life. 

Honeymoon phase = The first 6 months of dating or being in a relationship. This is also the time where everything seems carefree and happy. 

That you hang out with her more than you work on making money or building your value. She loses respect for you the more you disrespect how you use your time.

Women want to live through the man they are with and they can not do that if you
have a boring life. 

She wants the man who puts his goals before any girl as he is not a simp. 

He can go find a new girl but he can't just replace years of his life and opportunities to make money. 

No girl will last long with the guy who looks forward to leaving work to
spend time with her. 

You're supposed to be the provider and all you're doing is chilling.
How can she respect that? She cannot love a man she doesnt respect.

Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love
for the woman who completes him. 

Good women do not want to be “The One” or the centre of a man’s existence. 

Keyword: GOOD WOMEN not trash women. Unfortunately there are some women out there who will seek a man at his weakest so they can have control over him and the entire relationship. 

Good women want to embed themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. 

You must respect a woman’s integrity and not lie to her that she is “your everything”. 

She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.

LAW 22: Don't play by her rules

This does not mean a woman can't have a say so or an opinion in a relationship. 

However, if you allow a woman to make most of the rules she will resent you. 

Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. 

Women are not meant to lead and when men allow them to, they lose their
femininity and become masculine. Women are often irrational creatures powered by emotion, not logic. 

So anytime you allow her to make decisions for the relationship you are
basically handing a child a bomb. 

Men represent order, women represent chaos. 

All societies that allowed women to make laws or be in charge fell fast and they fell hard. 

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In the next part, I will finish this series off by explaining laws 23 - 28 

- Till next time