A Short Story About The Guy With OPTIONS

A woman can go for a month without contacting you because she only has to post a selfie, shake her ass and tits as she walks and she’ll have a dozen men around her already.

But women cannot do that to a man who has options.

A man with options will love a woman. If she flirts and has fun with someone else, it won’t phase him.

Doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her or is not attracted to her.

It means his reality is far greater than what most worry or become abusive towards her about. It’s not that he’s better than her. He still loves and cares for her dearly.

Here’s what men with options do..

• If a woman flakes. He has options.
• If woman calls to say she is too tired to date. He has options.
• If a woman is so busy with life, drama, family crisis. He has options.
• If a woman says she doesn’t like sex anymore. He has options.
• If a woman doesn’t text for a week/month, whatever. He has options.
• If she plays hard to get. He has options.
• If she listens to her friends, mum, dad, religion. He has options.
• If she’s an attention seeker. He has options.

• If she isn’t ready for whatever reason, whether it is because she just got out of a relationship, or her shoe is the wrong colour, or the family is in chaos, or the world is about to go down, or the sky green, or pigs are flying. The same women who know they not into a guy and yet still mess guys around when they know, they won’t follow through…

He…has…options.

I have my lovers thanking me for having options.

There is no drama. 

There is no pressure. 

There is none of what they have gone through with men they dated.

They feel happy that a man they love doesn’t go all nuts when she disappears for a week, a month, whatever. They will say their life just went crazy and they wish they can give me what they so want to but can’t at moment.

They know I got options. I love them. It’s fine.

Life happens. They need to sort whatever it is.

I am the calm while out there is a whole lot of mess, games, storms and just a lot of craziness, but when with me, it is calm.

When you are outcome dependant you are living, approaching women with scarcity mode, dating women who are not romantically into you, making friends with people for nothing but approval, applying for jobs that don’t pay well, being in a job you hate, servicing clients who you’d never have as clients if you have…options.

But since you don’t and haven’t focused in creating options, you behave in a passive manner.

Your mindset and behaviour is on scarcity mode:

“Will she like me?”
“Will she text me?”
“How do I impress her?”
“Do I wait for a day to call her or when?”
“Has she lost interest?”

That’s fear of loss. That’s scarcity.

That’s a man who is outcome dependent.

If a woman plays any game, waits, disappears, whatever…she is not to blame. She never is. She is a woman with a storm of emotions.

“No problem,” he replies lovingly because he has options. She can take care of her shit no matter how long it takes. He’s living life, got greater purpose and he has options where he is seeing and having sex and relationships with other women.

When a company says to him, they got so many applicants, he is laughing. He has applied to more than one company.

He has many interviews lined up.

He has options.

When friends says they can’t go out today. He’s ok. He’s got options.

When one prospect doesn’t like the price, he has other packages and if still the prospect won’t take any of the offers…he has many other paying clients.

He has options.

When a girl doesn’t show up. It’s fine. He has options. He calls, another woman who says she would love to see him, he meets her and they have sex.

 He as options.

You see, when I am talking to a women, they know one thing. They know it so well. They know without a shadow of a doubt..

I have options.

I am completely outcome independent.

That should then have every woman on this planet women running away when they find this out. Right?

Wrong.

When you sit down with a woman and you got options, your behaviour will be so different, she will know she cannot…dangle…sex…like a carrot. She will see without you pretending that you are a man she cannot play that game on you.

So you sit there and you don’t try to impress her.

She will feel the difference.

She will know you got it going on and if she behaves in an inappropriate manner,  you will smile, and and pay for the date, then say your goodbye, and walk away.

Because…you…got…options.

Almost every woman who left me later comes back. You know why that happens?

Because of this...

“With the guys out there I can get away with anything but with you, I can’t get you angry and you won’t take my bullshit. I can’t do anything I want with you and walk all over you. I can with those guys…”

In other words…I am not the guy who says..

“Why won’t you call me for a week? What’s fucking going on? Who is the guy?”

“Yes baby, I will not see those friends of mine again. 🥺👉👈”

“I have text you and you haven’t replied for a week....?”

So create options and do so for everything in your life when it comes to people, specifically…women ;)

Create options and don’t apologise for doing so.

Till next time.