(ARTICLE) 10 Quick Lessons On Girls Every Man NEEDS To Know

1. Things get better

A young man's life isn't supposed to be easy. 

Stop comparing your life to that of an attractive 21 year old female. You are on two different timelines.

An attractive 21 year old has far more sexual market value than 21 year old guy. 

2. Do not put women on a pedestal 

This is perhaps the single most important lesson any young man can learn.

Many men become fixated on a particular girl, then instead of taking action, they would wait for something to happen.

This is a terrible strategy. And as nothing happens, they would become more and more obsessed with the girl. 

This would raise her perceived value to goddess-like status in their eyes, and so the pain of not having her would become even sharper.

By putting these girls on pedestals you will not only store up a lot of emotional discomfort,
but you'll also make it far less likely that you would actually get them. 

Desperation is palpable: women can tell, as though by a sixth sense, when a guy is interested. It's like how people automatically walk away when 'homeless' people come begging for money on the street.

If a guy then doesn’t have the balls to follow through and be honest about what he wants
then she’ll quickly despise him for it.

"Being honest about what you want"  👇

Telling her you want to have sex with her as soon as you first meet 👎

Displaying romantic interest - Arranging dates, making a move on her when she's comfortable and the opportunity presents itself 👍 

3. Pick women who are actually interested in you too

Another consequence of putting girls on pedestals (or oneitis) is that guys would
overlook the girls who are actually interested in them.

Remember, when you get indictors of interest from women you find attractive, you should always respond to them—failure to do so means you’re leaving pussy on the table.

4. Do NOT try to be Mr Perfect

Don’t strive for perfection. Don’t second guess what her ‘perfect man’ is like and try
to fit the bill. 

Don’t waste your time on all of that stuff.

Look at the guys who actually get laid in school and college—the assholes. 

You think they waste time trying to be ‘her perfect man’? Of course they don’t. 

They are simply honest, upfront and put themselves on the line, come what may.

Not saying you should quit working on yourself. Just quit trying to demonstrate to her how well you've got your life together. Let them find out naturally because theres guys out here without all that stuff and are getting laid left right and centre.

5. Sexual attraction comes first and you can’t negotiate your way
into her underwear

A lot of guys strategy to getting girls centred around negotiation.

They believe that if they could communicate to her all of the reasons why she should like him then she would realise how perfect he is and choose him over other men. 

What they don't see is that sexual attraction always trumps appeals to logic.

This means that you actually need to work on your image.

- Rock a nice hairstyle that suits your face and head shape

- Go to the gym and lift weights

- Take care of your teeth

- Stay well groomed if you are actively dating

- Wear clothes that fit you well

- Smell nice

If there’s a choice between igniting raw sexual attraction or negotiating intimacy,
always go for the former and never the latter.

6. Put yourself first

It is imperative that you put yourself first.

Do not second guess what you think the girl wants. In fact, don’t waste any time
thinking of her at all. 

The more you seek to please yourself rather than her, the more you are on your own
path, the better you will ultimately do, since no woman wants to replace a man’s
mission.

Don't confuse this for being selfish because in all relationships, eventually at some point you will have to compromise and do things that make your partner happy as well.

E.g. Watching a movie you ain’t really into because you barely spend anytime together with her 👍

Quitting your job to satisfy her because she all of a sudden wants to travel the world 👎

You should not sacrifice your happiness or your mission in the hopes of making her happy.

7. Rejection is not the end of the world

Men of today are absolutely terrified of rejection.

They think that if I they get rejected just once the skies would fall down and the world will end.

You have to get over the fear or rejection or you will have a very miserable dating life.

I see it happen when I'm outside all the time. A guy will be staring at a woman from the corner of his eye but won't actually have the courage to approach her.

The fact is that rejection is unavoidable in all areas of life, whether you want to publish a book, get a job or interest investors in your business idea. 

Why should it be any different with dating?

Getting rejected by a woman is better than going home with regret thinking to yourself 'If only I had approached her'

As I've gotten older I learned not only to accept rejection but to embrace it. In time rejection
became a badge of pride. At least I am doing something that intimidates a huge
percentage of guys. For that alone, I am ahead of the pack.

8. Not all women are the same.

Following on from the previous point, just because you get rejected by one girl it
doesn’t mean that the next will automatically turn you down as well. 

This is yet another fundamental misconception of many men.They truly believe that girls all think the same as one another, and that if you were deemed unsexworthy by one then the
next would think the same thing too.

You have to understand the complexities of the sexual marketplace, and realise that male value is not static. 

Some women ONLY like tall white men with dark hair and coloured eyes

Some women ONLY like average looking white men

Some women ONLY like black men

Some women ONLY like OTHER WOMEN

Some women ONLY like men who look like they make a lot of money

Some women ONLY like men who are in very good physical shape

Some women ONLY like mixed raced men 

Some women don't really have physical preference but are into men who are very charismatic with a high level of self confidence

The same way YOU have a preference of women - is the same way women have a preference in men too.

Your Sexual Market Value is very much subjective and in the eye of the beholder.

9.  A relationship is not the answer to your life problems and issues.

And finally, another fantasy that needs to be quashed. 

Even if you do get that girl that you’ve wanted for so long, do not for one moment think it will make your life wonderful and you’ll never have any problems again. 

Quite the contrary. 

The unfortunate truth is that - it is when a relationship with a girl begins that the really
hard work starts. 

Till next time.