(ARTICLE) Understanding How To Properly Screen Women & How To Avoid Women Who Will Waste Your Time

Today I will be writing about screening.

How to thoroughly screen women so you don’t have your time wasted when you are dating.

I will also be pointing out high interest indicators to look out for which let you know what to look out for in women you are dating

I will also point out how to spot women who only wana use you for free attention without the intentions of ever doing anything with you.

And I will also point out how to screen for women who are going through a hoe phase.

One of the most important factors to dating is knowing what to do so you don’t have your time wasted.

A lot of guys often ask what are the magic tricks they should be doing, but what they don’t understand is that the key to success within dating, is the things you DONT do and who you DON'T deal with and also, the people who you choose to not entertain.

Thats the key to success within dating.

Because when you waste your time on meaningless dates this usually leads to guys feeling disappointed and extremely frustrated which makes them want to even quit dating all together due to the amount of amount of bullshit women they keep running into.

And what tends to happen a lot is when a guy is frustrated with his dating life, he will wife up the first chick he runs into that treats him alright

Even if she’s not his ideal type, he will wife her up because she’s the only one thats acting right

So a man being frustrated in his dating life can lead to a man picking the wrong person simply out of desperation.

So the key to this not happening to you is by learning how to properly screen women out, which is why I chose to make this article today.

It’s very important for you to understand who TO deal with………..and who not to deal with.

The first part of understanding how to screen women is to learn how to spot women who have a high interest in you.

A lot of guys be wasting their time with women who do not have any interest in them.

As a man you need to respect yourself and have value towards your own time. Why would you waste time trying to raise the interests levels of someone who isn't into you?

To me, it doesn't make sense …

I’m going to go over some high interest indicators to look out for in a chick

And remember, the higher level of interest a girl has in you, the easier she will make things for you.

Also, the higher level of interest a woman has in you, the more bullshit you can get away with.

I recommend you guys to only deal with women who have moderate to high interest in you………because not every girl you meet will not be dripping wet for you in the beginning.

And the reason I’m saying moderate to high interest is simply because raising the interest levels of a woman who’s not into you can be very time consuming

I myself only deal with chicks who have a high level of interest in me.

I just don't have the time to be raising interest levels, I have a lot going on in my life.

Note: 80% of girls you meet probably wont have a high level of interest in you from the beginning. They will have moderate to high. So just because she's not going crazy over you, doesn't mean she isn't into you

I just don't deal with anything other than high interest because I'm very busy and have A LOT going on in my life which means I don't date a high volume of women.

I had to repeat that because most guys will read past it and think just because a woman isn't going crazy over them that she's not open to seeing where things go.

Moderate to high is okay. 

anything below a moderate level of interest, is a waste of time in my opinion. Even for an average guy.

High Interest Indicators

1. She contacts you to wish you a good day

This is when a woman will: 

- send you good morning texts

- Texts you to see what you up to

- or remind you to eat

You guys gotta understand that when a woman reaches out to you randomly like that, it means that they are thinking about you.

And there’s a reason to why they're thinking about you ….which makes them wana hear from you or wana see you.

And this is why its so important to give women their space sometimes…….you need to give them space so they can wonder and think about you……they need to miss you.

Thats how attraction is built. Too many guys wana be texting girls 24/7 365

If you’re constantly available without EVER giving her space…..you become boring predictable

So pay attention from women who randomly initiate contact with you to check up and see how you’re doing.

Women make it very easy for guys they like.

2. She asks to see you / or when she will get to see you again

If a woman asks to see you and be around you then thats a strong sign that she has a high level of interest in you.

If a woman has moderate to low interest, then she won’t really ask you questions about meeting up or being around you like that.

But when a woman has high interest in you, she will be the one who’s reaching out occasionally asking when to see you or even slyly hinting at things you and her can be doing together.

3. She will double text you

Anyone who double texts is so interested in you that they’re willing to put their pride to side just to hear from you again.

Double texting is a sign of VERY HIGH interest, which is rare.

A double text isn’t her texting you a bunch of back to back questions.

It’s when she sent you a message that you didn’t respond to for whatever reason and then she follows up a few hours later with another question or statement.

4. She asks engaging questions

When a woman asks engaging questions that make you think and get you open up, it shows high interest because she wants to know more about you.

She’s trying to figure you out, she’s trying to see how you think and what makes you move the way you do.

Women who have moderate to low interest won’t care to get to know you that much outside of what you ca provide for them.

So if a woman is showing a deeper interest in deeper things about you, then thats a good sign of high interest.

5. She will compliment you

Women will not compliment you if they don’t like you

Note: Just because a woman compliments you doesn’t mean she’s ready to have sex, settle down and start a family with you.

Women don’t compliment guys they don’t like because guys tend to get too excited and start pursuing them. Women don’t want to be pursued by guys they’re not into. So if a woman compliments you, it’s a green light.

6. She sends unwarranted pictures of herself to you

When a woman sends you random pictures of herself It means she was thinking about you and she hopes the pictures get your attention.

If a woman sends you a cute picture of herself, don’t just sit there sexting back and forth, organise to meet up with her ASAP

“Omg you’re so beautiful baby 🥺”  ❌

“I’d love to see the pretty face on Friday” ✅

A few other things women will do when they have high interest in you

• Good morning texts
• Sending random funny memes
• Random texts to check up on you

High interest Indicators DURING the date

1. She won’t require a formal date

She won’t require you to take her out to dinner first.

She will be down to hang out anywhere

• Your house
• Her house
• The park
• Your car

This is a sign of VERY VERY high interest

2. She shows up early

Women are terrible at time management with things and people they have moderate to low interest in.

If a woman has moderate to low interest in you, her time management will be terrible.

When a woman is into you, she will go out of her way to impress and not to offend you by being late.

Note: JUST BECAUSE a woman doesn’t show up on time doesn’t mean she doesn’t have high interest. A woman can show up late and still like you a lot.

However if a woman makes a conscious decision to show up before you do, thats a strong sign of very high interest.

3. She pays

Women are VERY stingy with their money.

So if a woman is investing her money in you, thats a sign she really likes you.

4. Hyper-feminine behaviour

When a woman becomes hyper feminine around you, she’s attracted to your energy.

This is like how guys start acting more masculine as soon as an attractive female presence steps into their environment.

The same is true with women when they’re around certain type of guys with a certain kind of energy about him that she’s very attracted to.

She will become hyper feminine:

• Her voice gets softer
• Her body language opens up a lot more
• Her eyes will be like ' 🥺'

She will become soft and sweet when she’s in the presence of a masculine man that she finds very attractive

5. She dresses sexy / Easy access

When women are Dressed provocatively, it means they’re looking for sexual attention.

Dont mistake dressing sexy with dressing slutty.

Women who tend to dress slutty are usually doing for attention which won’t lead to anything.

But if she’s dressed sexy where her cleavage is showing, wearing skirts, showing up to your house in no underwear or bra, you can see her nipple piercings, thats a strong sign of high interest.

Note: Just because a woman DOESN’T dress provocatively, it don’t mean she’s not interested.

If she doesn’t dress sexy, you should look out for the other indicators.

6. When she says “You seem like a player” or "You seem like trouble"

You seem like a player

Translation:

“You are very attractive and I Know for sure, other women are into you too”

How to respond:

“I can be a player if I need to be” followed by a cheeky smirk 😏

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Her: “You seem like trouble”

You: “Well you seem like you to get into trouble” followed by a cheeky smirk 😏

7. She initiates physical contact

When women initiate physical contact thats a sign that she likes you and she would like it to be reciprocated.

Women are VERY socially in tune, they will make sure to have distance from you if they ain’t into u like that.

8. Dreamy eyes 🥺

If you catch her in this moment, she is completely vulnerable

She is very very attracted and turned on by you and will find it very hard to say no when she’s in this state

9. Talkative

When a woman is talkative, she is giving

And if she’s giving, she’s highly attracted

Talkative women can be annoying, but if you can sit and listen, you will eventually score.

Women love a guy who’s a good listener because it allows them to feel free when they’re around you

Let women do 80% of the talking and you talk 20% of the time.

Time Wasters, Attention Seekers And Professional Daters

Professional daters are women who go on dates with guys without any intentions on being intimate or romantic. They’re just out for the free attention and the free meal.

There’s a lot of women like this.

This is where most guys go wrong by not being able to spot the signs which leaves them in a hamster wheel of dating and pursuing women who are not into them like that.

And when you fail to recognise these things you’ll get caught in the hamster wheel trying to chase your return on investment which is chasing women who have no intentions on getting intimate with you.

1. She messages you “Hi” followed by one word responses

Women like this will reach out to you.

They’ll send a hi message followed by 1 word or dry replies. This is usually done out of boredom and when you communicate back to her, her replies will be dy.

If a woman does this to you on a consistent basis, its a sign of a low interest woman who’s only using you for your attention.

If you get this consistently. Leave her on read and move on with your life.

Woman who are interested in you will put in effort into a phone call/ conversation

2. She’s “Super busy” / “I’ll let you know”

Do women get busy, of course.

However, most women are not “super” busy. They don’t really have much going on outside of work, school or their kids.

Even if a woman who likes you is super busy, they won’t tell you that because they’re afraid that might put you off them.

Even if she does have kids, if she likes you, she will arrange for someone to babysit her kids for the evening

Even if she does have a busy work schedule, she will try to find at least an hour out of a her week to spend time with you. Nobody is busy 24/7

So if you ask a woman out and she tells you she’s super busy, just tell her to reach out to you when her schedule clears up and keep it moving.

And if she ever pops up, always try to arrange a meet-up, don’t engage in conversations which aren’t heading anywhere.

Do not waste your time trying to raise her interest because these type of women will certainly keep you around for attention.

They will be able to text but not available to meet up with you.

3. She tries to lead the date

If you try to set up a date, she will counter with doing something else instead. And the place she tries to counter your date with will probably be a bit more pricey than where you initially suggested.

These type of women don’t really like you and they just want you compensate them for their company.

Now if you’ve been dating a chick for a while and she gives a date suggestion, thats perfectly okay.

But if it's the first 2-3 dates and a chick tries to counter the date with somewhere more pricier than what you planned. Just tell her you’re not feeling her idea.

4. “I want to be spoiled”

When you hear a woman say this, this is a woman who has no intention of having sex with you unless you spoil her with gifts and fancy dates.

Women like this sometimes have guys they’re fucking who doesn’t do anything for them so they find suckers to do all the fancy stuff for them

So the main guy they're with is probably broke but he has a lot masculine energy and fucks her really well but she doesn’t get the experience of going out on dates and getting showered with loving attention.

Do not pursue women like this, you will only be wasting your money and more importantly, your time, which will leave you frustrated.

5. I like to take things slow / I like to take my time

This is a woman who doesn’t find you attractive enough to sleep with you, but you have something which may be of benefit to her.

Whether its time, money, affection, simp energy

Will every woman who really likes you sleep with you on the first night? No

Some women do have firm rules they don’t bend.

 The same way I’m teaching you these rules, is the same way some women have their own rules.

However, majority of the time its because a woman doesn’t find the guy sexually attractive and there isn’t any way of trying to negotiate this.

If she is at your house and tells you this, don’t rape her.

Just don’t waste your time.

Call it a day and keep it moving.

6. She avoids places you and her could be intimate at

• If she’s only down to hang out in public environments
• If she never wants to come back to your house
• If she’s never down to get a hotel

If she doesn’t want to be alone with you anywhere in an intimate setting, she doesn’t like you that and she doesn’t want you to even try to make a move on her.

This typically happens with chicks who are on a mini break from their boyfriends and she’s just meeting up with you to forget about him for a few hours so that you can boost her confidence and self esteem back up.

OR

With chicks who just enjoy the dating experience you are providing.

Yes, they will go on dates with you but it won’t lead to anything intimate.

How To Screen Women In A Hoe Phase

these are women who are not looking for anything serious and are open to having casual sex.

And common ages of women in a hoe phase are women aged between 18 - 24 because this is the age women start to explore, discover their sexuality and crave male attention. 

Especially if they’re living at university where they don’t have their parents to monitor them 24/7

Another batch of women who go through hoe phases are women who are recently out of long term relationships.

When a woman gets out of a long term relationship, she tends to date casually so she can get her mind off of things

Women in university and women who are recently single from long term relationships tend to go through the hoe phase.

Its cool to deal with these type of women but do what you have to do to not catch feelings for them.

The problem is guys tend to try and wife up women who are going through hoe phases and then they get disappointed when the woman cheats or doesn’t really want anything serious like he does.

Do not try to turn a hoe into a wife.

1. She openly tells you that she’s just wants to have fun and nothing too serious.

“I wana have fun and not be too serious”

Translation:

“I just wana have fun and have sex. So please don’t get too attached to me and start catching feelings or you’re going to ruin the vibe”

If you give off boyfriend vibes to women in hoe phases, you will turn her off and she will find a guy who will fuck her without pushing any romantic bs on her.

2. She parties A LOT

A woman who hits the club every now and then is cool, that doesn’t mean she’s in an active hoe phase because sometimes women get dragged by their girlfriends. 

But women who party a lot, are usually seeking male sexual attention.

3. Dressing for attention

Women who dress extremely provocative and revealing are looking for male sexual attention and the women who are looking for that kind of attention are usually in a sexual phase.

The same way you dress so you can get more chicks, is the same way women in hoe phases will dress to get attention.

4. Wearing no panties

This is a subconscious act women in hoe phases do to create ‘easy access’

Not that they are down and ready to have sex with absolutely anybody who talks to them

It’s just a subconscious thing they do to limit the amount of barriers in the way of sex.

Women who are in hoe phases are only for casual experiences, you do not want to try and turn them into a wife or catch any serious feelings. Just have fun.

Till next time.