(ARTICLE) Why Men Should Never Ask For Permission From A Woman in The Bedroom

Firstly,

If you’re a woman, Read everything before you get upset due to how I worded the title of this article.

Also, there’s a lot of content on this Patreon which can help you identify which type of men you should stay well away from to avoid any toxic encounters or relations.

This article will be the foundation of spicing up your sex life in a relationship as there will be many more to come.

As a man, you shouldn't ask your woman for permission to do anything, either inside or outside of the bedroom, because it makes you seem unsure of yourself.

Of course, there will times she may suggest new things for you (nothing wrong with this), but 85-90% of the time, you should be the one leading and making the decisions.

Asking for permission is also a submissive act.

And even though sometimes in life dominant men have to ask for permission to do certain things when they need to be polite with other people, it’s a no-no in your relationship.

You must assume her permission and only stop if her body language is screaming at you to stop.

WHAT SHOULDN’T YOU BE ASKING PERMISSION FOR?

• To initiate sex
• To organise and take her on a date (you do need to make sure she isn’t busy first though)
• To initiate anal sex (If You are Into That stuff)
• To be rough in the bedroom
• To go out with your friends
• To get a blowjob
• To have a threesome with her and a woman of her choice (If you are into that stuff)
• To change where you live
• To tie up your her up in the bedroom
• To handcuff her

Sex in your relationship should NEVER be negotiated.

"Oh baby, so if i wash the dishes then maybe i can get sex? 🥺👉👈"

Never try to negotiate sex in a relationship, it should be an activity both want.

“So I Should Just Force Her To Do These Things?”

NO, not at all - DO NOT FORCE ANYTHING ON HER

All you have to do is make moves forward until she raises an objection, if she raises an objection at all.

If you know what you are doing, know that you will succeed, then she will feel how self assured you are and she’ll follow you.

“So Why Does She Often Disapprove Of My Leadership And Just Go Along With It?”

This is probably because she has never really seen you as someone who is a true leader, so if you decide to change all of a sudden she will resist that and not accept it.

What also won’t help is if you try to reinvent yourself into a leader too quickly or too obviously.

She needs to be gently tiptoed on her way to meeting the new you or she will think that you are acting, joking or just trying too hard.

Why Is Asking For Permission Bad?

Because it gives her the option to say yes or no and if she feels like the decision is too difficult to make, she will just say no!

Of course, she always has the option to say no if she strongly disagrees with something you’re doing (which you should listen to) and her input needs to be rare but significant.

When you just lead her, you make the difficult decisions for her, because this is the masculine thing to do.

Women don’t like having to make decisions, just like men don’t like not being able to make any decisions.

Both just feel wrong and rightly so, because they don’t align with our true natures.

What You Should Do Instead Of Asking For Permission In The Bedroom?

You should simply take things to the next level and see how she responds.

This is called 'Taking Initiative'

When she tells you to stop, it means that you have found her bedroom limits and you now know in what areas she needs your firm guidance next.

Sometimes you may have to get her comfortable before leading her into certain things. (Especially if she’s younger and inexperienced)

If you say something like “Are you ready to try a 3sum?”

She will say “NO” 100% of the time because she wants it to feel like it just happened naturally.

She wants to be caught up in the moment and for the crazy sex to have just happened without putting words to it or labelling it.

Theres only 2 ways having a 3sum would work.

A) SHE picks the girl you have it with.

B) When you use that as a way for her to make it up to you after doing something EXTREMELY disrespectful. Like if she cheated on you. But even then, She would have to have some level of an emotional attachment for this work for you. If theirs no emotional attachment, it won't work. 

Most women are very territorial and wont wanna share their man with another woman like that.

You should never take back a cheating woman anyway, but if you happen to do so, that's a way you can make her make it up to you.

Closing Thoughts

No may mean no.

No may also not mean no forever, it may mean no for tonight; or that you haven’t normalised things enough yet, or that the way you are going about escalating things isn’t the best way for her. Or maybe you are asking and waiting instead of guiding through the process.

This is a VERY In depth and detail article I wrote on Understanding The secret Language Of Women

I highly recommend you to give it a read if you’re a man (or even a woman, you'll learn a few things about your nature)

https://www.patreon.com/posts/52421363

Till Next Time