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(ARTICLE) 8 Kinds Of Men Women Should Avoid Dating If They Want To Be Happy



Ladies,

Don’t fall into the trap of getting yourself into a false relationship. One that won’t give you a sense of fulfilment, meaning, or contentment.



If you happen(ed) to be in a relationship with someone who just doesn’t make you feel happy or fulfilled, then you are/was likely to be in a false relationship.



It might be harsh to group guys into certain categories.

Everyone is unique after all.


However, there are really just certain types of men who carry with them certain personality traits that make them unfit to be in serious mature relationships.



And these are certainly the types of men you should stay away from.






1. Mummy Boy


This guy just has way too many mommy issues; and you’re not going to want to have to deal with any of it. He’s going to end up treating you like a second mum.




2. The Rebound


If you’re just coming from a breakup, then take some time to heal for a bit.

Don’t rush into getting into a new relationship with someone else just because there’s a void you want to fill.

And make sure that you aren’t someone else’s rebound either lol.




3. Emotionally unstable / Immature Men


It takes two mature human beings to make a real relationship work.

If you are in a relationship with a guy who’s emotional unstable or an immature little boy, then it’s unlikely your relationship is even going to survive.





4. The Chronic Liar


You can’t be in a healthy relationship with a guy you can’t trust.

It’s just impossible. It can’t happen.


That’s why you shouldn’t be with a guy who just tells lies all the time.


You won’t be able to know when you can trust him.






5. The One Who Always “Forgets” His Wallet



You shouldn’t have to be with a man who is only going to treat you like some kind of ATM.


You are not a charity.





6. The Needy One


As I’ve spoken to a lot of women, I’ve gathered that It’s really hard when you guys get into a relationship with someone who is excessively needy.


Yes, it’s nice to feel needed in a relationship.

However, you don’t want someone who is going to rely on you for EVERYTHING.


You still want a man who can be independent.






7. The Player


This is the man who is only going to end up treating your relationship like a game.

He won’t be taking you seriously at all and so there’s no reason for you to be taking him seriously either.


The only exception to this is if he’s upfront and honest with you about his intentions from the beginning and you’re okay with being in something open.







8. The Guy With Commitment Issues


If you want something serious and long term, avoid these type of guys.

It should probably be self-evident as to why you shouldn’t even get into a relationship with someone who is afraid of commitment at this point








Closing Thoughts



Yes, the perfect man doesn’t exist; and you’re probably mature enough to be well-aware of that fact by now.


You aren’t a perfect woman after all


and no one is expecting or asking you to be.



Each and every one of us are going to come with our fair share of flaws and imperfections.



But also, you can only tolerate so much. It’s okay to have a guy who is flawed. someone who messes up every once in a while.


But there also some men who are losers and you shouldn’t even be wasting your time with them in the first place.


Of course, you might be helplessly in love with this guy.


But you always need to make sure that your love isn’t blinding you.

You need to make sure that you are seeing things from as clear a perspective as possible.

You can’t allow yourself to play a fool in your own love story.

You don’t want to be investing yourself in something that shouldn’t even be worthy of your time.









Till next time.


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