(ARTICLE) 6 Quick Things To Remember When You Miss Someone You Cut Out Of Your Life

1. Your loneliness can trick you into missing the wrong person.

Take a second to ask yourself whether you really miss them or whether you miss the feelings and memories of being wanted, whether you miss having someone around to keep you company, whether you miss knowing you were never alone.

You don’t have to settle for this person you already know is bad for you.

So don’t run back to them.

2. You cut them out of your life for a reason.

People come in your life as a lesson or a blessing.

You might be dwelling on the good moments you shared.

You might be missing them because they brought you so much peace and happiness once upon a time.

But you cannot forget about the pain and misery they bring in your life as well.

You cannot focus on the good without remembering the bad.

There was a reason you walked away from this person, so don’t trick yourself into feeling like it was a mistake.

Remember why you walked away in the first place. You owe it to your past self to respect the decision you made.

Whether it’s business, friendships or relationships.

The strongest negotiation point is being able to walk away and never look back

Unless that person gets their act together and are willing to do things on your terms.

3. You don’t want to repeat history.

You don’t want to give them another chance to hurt you. And you don’t want to put yourself through the pain of walking away again.

It was hard enough to say goodbye the first time. Do you really want to repeat history?

Do you really want to take a step backward when you’re doing so well without them?

Although you might miss them right now, that doesn’t mean you’re meant to reunite with them again. That doesn’t mean it’s a good idea to forgive and forget.

4. It’s okay to have conflicted feelings about them.

It’s not stupid for you to miss someone who hurt you.

It’s natural for you to think about them from time to time. It can even be healthy for you to relive the good moments in your mind — but you cannot let those emotions trick you into making a bad decision.

You cannot run back to the past because your future is going to be so much better and/or drama free without them.

5. Moving on can take a long time.

People think they’ll get over heartbreak or disappointment in 2 weeks.

It can take a few months to a few years to truly get over something or someone

You shouldn’t beat yourself up over the fact that they still pop into your mind more often than you like to admit.

Everyone’s heart heals differently.

Some people need more time than others.

Even though it might feel like you’ll never get over them, you will. You simply need a little more time. And distance.

Time heals all wounds

6. They really don’t deserve you.

You don’t have to settle for someone who is incapable of loving you fully, someone who is incapable of rising to your expectations.

(With that being said that you aswell can fulfill those same expectations)

You can do so much better than them, so don’t sell yourself short.

Don’t assume you’re unlovable.

Keep working on yourself

• Physically
• Spiritually
• Emotionally
• Financially (especially if you’re a man)

You’re going to find someone who fits you so much better. And then you’ll never miss that person again.

Till next time