(ARTICLE) What Is A Healthy Relationship?

When it comes to intimate relationships there is no greater predictor of a person’s behaviour and suitability as a romantic partner than the relationship they have with their parents.

Of course there’s always exceptions for this.

A lack of a strong masculine dad typically results to weak behaviour, Drama, no chill factor, terrible communication and a lack of emotional self control.

When cheating and lying is part of someone’s upbringing, they tend to become narcissistic, selfish and devious.

This isn’t always the case but it’s highly unlikely that people who come broken homes get the therapy and self help necessary to fix their flaws.

It’s not your job to save or fix anybody but to become the best version of yourself so that you can attract someone who matches and mirrors your healthy behaviour really well.

A healthy relationship is the result of two people sharing their completeness. Not completing each other.

You’ve to get to a blissful place where you love yourself, your life, lifestyle, friends and ENJOY BEING ALONE

THEN, when you’re in a blissful place and grateful for your life, you can effortlessly attract someone who is ALSO in a blissful place.

Like attracts like 🧲

You will attract people and circumstances into your life that matches and Mirrors your current vibes.

YOU MUST take care of you and your own happiness first before you’re in a right place to contribute to the happiness of another person.

People come and go into your life.

They’re there for a reason.

Even if it’s a customer at work that you see for a short period of time.

The key is to not hold on to anybody too tightly because people who also really want to be with you and want to be in your life, they will stick around without you having to become something/someone you’re not.

When you try to hold to someone in order to keep them in your life will result to you suffering and being in misery because now you’re no longer being yourself. Youre basically being a prostitute.

You’re prostituting your goals, dreams and feelings in order to become what you think the other person wants you to be so that they’ll stick around in your life.

You can’t live your life according to other people’s expectations.