Life is Weird
Added 2021-09-17 18:02:47 +0000 UTCThis is probably going to be the most personal thing I have ever posted in my entire life.
I’m pregnant.
I found out Wednesday I was pregnant. While most would probably be elated and overjoyed—I was shocked. I knew in my heart of hearts that I’m not ready. I know that financially, even with Jim, I can’t afford to raise a child. And realistically, I’m not comfortable raising a child in a world full of chaos, destruction, greed, and evil.
And it hurts, you guys.
It hurts, because I am making the choice to have an abortion. Thankfully, I am beyond thankful for the family I have, and the support that I do, and the reason that I have chosen to speak the truth here, is because I don’t want women or men to feel like they should be ashamed.
If you aren’t ready to have a child, you have options.
Don’t ever think you have to make a choice based on anyone else.
And if you’re a man reading this, please be there for your partner during this time. Men receive a bad reputation for all sorts of shit, but men are good people, too.
I’ll be okay, I always am. It’s just hard.
Things happen for a reason, and why life decided to give me the gift of birth now is beyond me, but I know that my time is not now.
With time, things will pan out, but I have much to do, my friends.
I love you all like I love my family. Please be well, be safe, and hug your loved ones like there’s no tomorrow.
Comments
I’m so sorry to love. 🥺 And I understand, it will take time to heal from it. You got this ❤️ I think at the time it was easier being so young. I didn’t have much care in the world. Now that I am older, it bothers me a bit more. Stay strong beautiful!!
Heather
2021-09-18 18:33:27 +0000 UTCHeather, I am so sorry you had to experience such a big decision at a young age. Right now, I’m in some pretty bad pain. Regardless of what decision I make, I’m pretty sure I’m miscarrying. Still, I just kind of want all this to be over. It’s extremely emotional to say the least.
Cory Cowley
2021-09-18 02:57:24 +0000 UTCAwww definitely relatable. I was 22 when I had an abortion. I’ll be 40 in a few months. It kills me to this day, cuz I don’t think I’ll ever have kids now. But I do understand!! %100 there is always time .. I hope ;)
Heather
2021-09-18 02:54:57 +0000 UTCI love you, too. Thank you for always being by my side.
Cory Cowley
2021-09-17 20:56:55 +0000 UTCI love you. And I’m always here for you no matter what.
Melanie
2021-09-17 20:56:33 +0000 UTCRamses, thank you so much. It’ll probably be awhile before I publicly say anything, but just your comment alone puts a smile on my face. Thank you. You don’t know how much those words mean to me, my friend. 💕 much love to you.
Cory Cowley
2021-09-17 18:18:28 +0000 UTCIf you think it's not the time to have a baby, then it's the best choice to have an abortion. Always supporting you, and fortunately you live in a place where abortion is legal.
Ramses Tavera
2021-09-17 18:11:39 +0000 UTC
