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November Free Bonus Story - Video

So what I'm seeing from yall is maybe don't get married after a month? Or.. is there anyone out there that's gotten married sooner and had success?! Can't wait to hear your thoughts

November Free Bonus Story - Video

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me and my husband got married after 2 months of meeting each other😂😅 we’ve been together for 7 years now and honestly even better now than then!

Amber Malone

Justin is giving ✨️mastermind✨️( by taylor swift) vibes

Mackenzie Bissey

Y’all I was scrolling through YouTube and I came across a brand new couples podcast I’m about 99% you inspired them they only have 3 followers and they talk about how they love THT. I just thought it was really cool they’re YouTube is Date Nights with Joey and Tammy if you wanna check it out btw I’m new to Patreon and I love the pod🩵

Kloie Rodriguez

Hey guys! I just installed Patreon after wondering about it for YEARS. Needless to say, I fuckin love yall. <3 thanks for all that you guys doi.

Kamron Eytcheson

My husband almost asked me on a date at a new year's eve event with mutual friends.. until our mutual friend told him I was pregnant 😂 I was only about 7 weeks along. I had a baby boy. 9 months and 4 years went by when he ran into me again at a friend's house. We DID go out on that date.. he's adopted my son and we have another son together now. The boys are 10 years apart, 15 and 5. We've been together 10 years now and he said he always knew. Random circumstances brought us back together with better timing for that first date. He's amazing and we couldn't be happier 🥰

Mamabear8654

OK I’ll pop

Sara Hallum Sullivan

Im almost 30, and my best friend since middle school started dating one of our high school friends. He’s always been the friend with the biggest, most caring heart. I don’t think I know very many other men as genuinely kind and caring as him. So I approved of their relationship initially. But, he’s just the worst boyfriend to her. She has a 5 year old son, and he says he doesn’t want people to think he’s the father. She’s also come to me when he’s gaslit, and pressured her into major decisions, like moving in together and to another state. And, I had plans to visit twice, and she canceled them with different excuses. I told her that I’m afraid he’s controlling and isolating her. Just a night and day difference from a friend to a boyfriend that I never expected from such a chill guy…

Kristen Rosen

I agree, no rush at all and definitely have a marriage conversation to make sure it is something both people want. If it's meant to be, it will be :)

Emily Fourniea

My husband and I met and got married in 4 months time, I remember wanting so badly to just get married and now that I'm older (married for 9 years this week) I am happy but also wish we stayed in the fun, flirty, dating stage for a bit longer. But either way, we ended up where we were supposed to and I'm happy with him everyday! 💕

Mikayla

My husband and I had a very similar story but we waited a little bit longer. My husband and I met on a dating app and dated for a month. After that month he broke up with me. But we stayed really good friends for 3 years, we played dnd together we would go see movies together and would just hang out. We both went through relationships and it was nice to see how we each treated our partners from an outside point of view. I realized though that I was comparing all of my dates and boyfriends to him. And that if I was really honest with myself I could not see myself marrying anyone but him. So I invited him over to my house and because I was a coward I told him that I was starting to like him again as he was walking out the door to go home. All he said was “I know” and then he left. Then to make it even better COVID started 2 days later so I didn’t get to speak with him in person again for 3 months. After those 3 months we went for a walk and he told me he liked me too. We started dating after that we were together for a month and than we moved in together (because of COVID and because we had talked about getting an apartment together when we were just friends because we both needed to move) and we dated for 9 months and then were engaged for 9 months and I know I have made the right decision, 3 years married now and still going strong, but I sometimes feel we moved very fast. So I guess long story short I think dating for a small amount of time is fine, especially if you were friends before, but a month is super fast. There are new things you learn about a person only when you start dating and I think Morgan was right in saying you have waited 10 years you can wait 2 more months. Anyways 😅 my first comment sorry it’s so long

Katie Austin

My parents met each other in February and got married in August of the same year and they are still together 32 years and 4 kids later. Of course no marriage is perfect and they had some bumps along the road but they are the perfect example that when you know you know

Josefina Burgos

Definitely need to make sure that marriage is on the game card, I agree with Justin. Other than that, enjoy the new phase of the relationship and do what’s right for you. Best wishes for you both.

Dea

I met my husband when I started working as a teacher, we got engaged and married within 6 months! So far, so best relationship I’ve had in my life. We are truly a team and prioritize our relationship like I’ve never seen before. We had a “check in” date last weekend to catch up and talk about things we’ve not had time to and its been the healthiest thing for our relationship.

Chloe

This story was so wholesome! Love these ones. This is how my fiance and I got together, we've been together 5 years now and engaged 2 years. We've known each other our whole lives, but became very close friends at around 10-12 years old and started dating at 15 & 16. You guys both hit the nail on the head imo. Our philosophy was "why rush?" But talking about it and where the relationship is heading does feel very appropriate

Grace Robinson

Can’t sleep, thanks THT!!! 🥹

Alexys Coleman


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