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Added 2023-07-16 19:36:54 +0000 UTCSo happy to have y'all here! I hope you enjoy July's free bonus story featuring Alejandra! We go over a story about a guy who's thinking of leaving his wife, even after all she's endured with him.
Do you think this is self-sabotage or where could this be coming from?
Comments
Crushes can happen—the problem would be acting on it. OP should talk to his wife about these feelings—he may be afraid that any kids he has may inherit his alcoholism, which is a valid concern. All he said is that they have been discussing kids—he didn’t give any details so we don’t know what his wife feels. They may still need to break up, but it sounds like they haven’t fully discussed it. I agree with Alejandra that this is self sabotage.
Talia
2024-09-28 02:16:32 +0000 UTCI like the craziness
Jordan Davies
2024-05-16 18:04:44 +0000 UTCI feel like he’s self manipulating. He thinks he deserves to be miserable for treating her badly in the past and is now trying to punish himself. He feels like he doesn’t deserve her love and is waiting for the other shoe to drop. He is with someone that supports him 100% and he is uncomfortable with that. I think he wants her to hate him.
Lara S
2023-12-12 02:51:50 +0000 UTCI get where Alejandra is coming from with if it’s not a fuck yes it’s a no. But that mentality can becomes pretty toxic and hurtful to ourselves when we think that way, especially with people who have anxiety and struggles with decision making. It’s a very black and white way of thinking which can be needed at times but most human relationship and decisions are multifaceted. For example one thing I saw on a post about this subject was how relationships can be hard and challenging at times and they are going to be things that we don’t love about our partners and if that part about them makes us think it’s not a fuck yes it must be a no, we can easily get trapped in a cycle of chasing perfection. If that mantra is helpful then by all means use it but I just wanted to share how it can actually end up hurting us more if we don’t use it wisely.
Hailey Crabb
2023-07-20 22:37:57 +0000 UTCOh hey! I sent a message with that song to the two hot takes instagram cause i thiught yalld like it! ...then i deleted it cause i figured that was intrusive 😅
Miranda Craig
2023-07-17 20:53:14 +0000 UTCYAYYY
Kayla Newsom
2023-07-16 19:38:38 +0000 UTC
