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Ramble - September 20th, 2024

Hey, it's been a while since I've done one of these... "It's been a while since I've done one of these..." things... ๐Ÿ˜…

Ramble - September 20th, 2024 Ramble - September 20th, 2024

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Renee, thank you so so much for sharing this. I can't express how happy and fulfilled it makes me feel to know that the hours I spend on what I see as a generally ridiculous line of work actually can have such a positive impact on people. Sexuality IS important. Intimacy IS important. Comfort IS important. Entertainment IS important. And I try my best to make sure that what I do every day is provide as much of that as I can to as many people as I can. Thank you again, and I hope to continue to make these silly audios to comfort and entertain for as long as I can ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

This_Guy_Eli

Hey there! (slightly sad stuff in this comment, just a warning) I would have liked this message to be more private but I donโ€™t think you have an area to send messages but thatโ€™s ok and I can understand why. I hope it encourages other people to share how you have helped them in some way actually. I just wanted to say thank you so so much for your content. I stumbled across your content about a month ago on Quinn and it was a delightful surprise. I turned 30 back in July and shortly after, I had a hysterectomy. I never thought that I would have a procedure like that at my age. Over the past 5 years Iโ€™ve been having horrible issues with my reproductive health. Iโ€™m ok with the procedure having been done and itโ€™s improved my health greatly. For other people this may have been devastating news especially if they foresaw having children biologically. My husband and I have 1 child and are firm that our love could never be shared with more than 1 so we were completely fine with that. What was my greatest concern (because of the pain I was going through) and what I had trouble with was sexuality and intimacy before and after the surgery. While I am confident and sure of my sexual identity and queerness, I was terrified of a โ€œstuckโ€ feeling after a huge hormonal loss which did end up happening. Finding your content and art has helped myself AND my husband tremendously. You provide such a safe space for adults and you do it with tact, care, respect, and outstanding inclusiveness. I know this is long winded but I really canโ€™t say thank you enough. Although conversations about sexuality and sexual expression is often disregarded but it is such an important part of what makes people unique. I was so afraid of losing that part of me and your content definitely helped me to course correct if you will. So again thank you! โค๏ธ

Renee

So, I'm new 'round these parts, and I have no opinion on how long it's been since the last ramble, though I did dig this one. I'll just say: first, it's pretty rad that you speak so plainly about mental health so thanks for that; second, as a fellow OCDer - friend, definitely go the insurance/meds route. Can't encourage it enough. I'm able to masquerade as a functional adult most days now with mine. :) All the good wishes and warm fuzzies sent your way!

Katjana


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