November Quinn Thread
Added 2024-11-10 08:31:44 +0000 UTC
Your spot for discussion and questions about the November Quinn audios!
I am so curious about Applesauce. Not in a gotta know everything about their lives way, but in a cat lady way. Orange babies are my absolute favorite. My little orange man is turning 11 this coming year 😭 🧡
Sarah LP
2024-11-28 20:43:45 +0000 UTC
I feel like I’m watching Princess Bride this week… love, true love… 🥹
Shari
2024-11-28 11:07:10 +0000 UTC
What a week for marriage! Xander, you and Ellie are true pioneers in your field—who knew?? To the extent that the two of you helped Milo and Naudio (two of my top 3 faves, along with you, obvs) feel comfortable being open about their own happiness IRL, thank you. 💖 I hope you both have a great holiday and that you’re able to tear your eyeballs away from the computer screen for a bit!
Also, if you’re ever feeling up to it, I’m sure lots of us wouldn’t mind seeing more of Applesauce. 🐈 😊
KK
2024-11-27 23:15:53 +0000 UTC
I am curious about Applesauce. Who was that beautiful orange baby?
Sarah LP
2024-11-27 19:17:00 +0000 UTC
Thank you Xander and Applesauce for the PSA.
Remember that sometimes the cat distribution system™️ malfunctions and its associates end up in weird locations — they will require further assistance🙂↕️🙂↕️
Maia
2024-11-27 16:53:50 +0000 UTC
Friday's ramble was great. Took me back to college. My bf back then loved to sleep like that. Only guy who ever has. Lol. Thank you.
Jennie Owen
2024-11-25 17:14:48 +0000 UTC
Oh my. Fridays ramble... just wow. This one hit different. I loved feeling so cozy and little. Number one ramble of all time.... almost became like a script towards the end. And bravo for sneaking in a tiny bit of semi-somno. Amazing. 🫠🥵
Lara
2024-11-24 17:35:19 +0000 UTC
Listened to so many audios on my commute. Listened to ghostface without even flinching on the train.
So why was it the [SoftDom] “…Daddy reaching down and playing with your pretty…” line in Woke Up Like This that was my undoing?! 🤩
Brb restarting my heart 🫠
(Loved the pacing with this one and the inflections at the right times👌🏽👌🏽)
Rainydais
2024-11-23 00:39:19 +0000 UTC
I’ll have to ask Ellie to weigh in on this. She will have thoughts 😅
🖤
2024-11-22 22:23:32 +0000 UTC
I don’t know that I would... One of my partners is an independent business owner working in a male-dominated profession that works primarily (95% of the time) with women. When we first got together his business was still sort of new in the territory and he was still building clientele. There was a few times I went with him on after-hours emergency calls because they would come in while we were out together or making dinner or some other domestic life thing and it was always interesting how his clients would react to a woman showing up with him.
Shari
2024-11-22 20:32:37 +0000 UTC
Sorry Xander, but I think you might lose us to Naudio talk for a few moments.
I loved hearing him talk about his wife. LOVED! Squealing and kicking my feet excited because you really can hear love and adoration through someone’s voice.
And then, to see other creators and their partners support each other in their communities so publicly? Just beautiful. But it also made me a bit sad for just a moment because it made me think of how isolating it may be at times if you aren’t so connected or don’t feel safe.
I’ve got more thoughts but they’re not quite coherent yet. Maybe next time I wake up…
Shari
2024-11-22 20:19:50 +0000 UTC
Giiiirrrll! John York has a podcast called The Audiobook Club. Today’s drop is an interview with Naudio. Episode before that is with Milo! Squee!
KK
2024-11-22 19:38:01 +0000 UTC
Is anyone else’s dream job wife/partner of erotic VA? Congrats to Naudio and thank you to his lovely wife for sharing part of him with us😩
Maia
2024-11-22 19:28:47 +0000 UTC
Where can I find the interview? :)
Thea
2024-11-22 19:24:00 +0000 UTC
It was really special to see another creator be open about that. Especially how much having a partner who supports you and works with you makes the audios better
🖤
2024-11-22 18:37:57 +0000 UTC
Just wanted to say I loved the posts from both of you on IG this morning, especially Ellie’s. Naudio’s interview was such a treat and I truly hope this gives both him and Mrs Naudio some peace and a sense of safety. Ellie your post was really beautifully said. (I mean, Xander, yours was also great; a real testament to brevity. 😂☺️)
You guys (and your girls!) all work so much and you deserve to feel as safe and loved as you make us feel.
KK
2024-11-22 18:21:11 +0000 UTC
Waking up to a ramble? You’re way too good to us… and then to have [the listener] be told that they’re taking cock like a good little whore? I clutched my pearls!
Shari
2024-11-22 17:43:25 +0000 UTC
Good to see you boys made up since Halloween! Lol. Loved hearing you in Milo's latest audio. Are we going to get a couple ama soon? I just thought of a question. Lol.
Jennie Owen
2024-11-22 02:31:38 +0000 UTC
Xander does an excellent job of tagging material appropriately. I don’t think there’s anything that’s sequential…
Shari
2024-11-19 23:04:01 +0000 UTC
I’m so glad someone else did homework! I was feeling so alone…
Shari
2024-11-19 23:00:40 +0000 UTC
Umm… I was woefully unprepared for your guest appearance today… just randomly pressed play not even looking at the tags…
Is the adoption official? To whom do we send gifts? Please advise.
Shari
2024-11-19 21:13:11 +0000 UTC
I've been feeling a bit off the past few days so it's taken me a bit to feel comfortable enough to listen to Talent. it's definitely one of those things that you have to be in the mood for or you will become very overwhelmed.
I absolutely adore X and E's overheards. the way they communicate to one another is what always seems to amaze me! it's become one of those things that have taught me how exactly to communicate to a partner during intimacy and how to feel both confident and safe enough to say what works for me and doesn't. I'm definitely still learning but when I listen to X and E, they definitely help to set the example! I can't give enough praise to both X and E on the work that they both continue to do on Quinn and Patreon, especially when they both continue to share such an intimate and private part of their lives with us. it can definitely be scary so thank you for continuing to trust us and feel safe with us. you are both incredible, thank you for all you do! ❤️
mcxyp
2024-11-19 18:42:41 +0000 UTC
I generally just look at the tags and go for whatever I'm feeling like I might be into at this point in time!
petrichor
2024-11-19 12:33:10 +0000 UTC
I know this isn't technically about November's audios but I've been re-listening to the overheards given Talent was released (which honestly blew my mind - I loved it!) and similar to Shari who posted below, I hadn't realized that Xander was woken up at the start of Honey. I'd also be interested in hearing more about the free-use side of things, if you're happy to share during an AMA some time. I know it takes an enormous amount of trust and is something that my partner and I are talking about more and more, so if you would be open to talking a little more about how you navigate that side of things, I'd be interested in hearing from both of you about it. No problem if that's too personal, of course, and I hope it's ok to ask, but given the audios have generally been a useful learning experience for me I thought I'd ask.
petrichor
2024-11-19 12:32:30 +0000 UTC
💀💀💀💀💀
KK
2024-11-19 02:54:34 +0000 UTC
This was beautifully said.
KK
2024-11-19 02:54:12 +0000 UTC
So I’m newer to this platform (came for the overheards 😉). But keen to explore some of the other work, any recommendations for where to start/how to proceed? Chronological? I’m not 100% sure what to expect.
Hello Brian
2024-11-18 13:46:41 +0000 UTC
Right?! I have a small mouth and throat. Kinda like a dog with a scrunched up nose. Lol. No way. My jaw would hate me. But good for her!!
Jennie Owen
2024-11-17 07:21:27 +0000 UTC
Kinda. I'm single and I doubt I will ever date again. I do miss being held, having that person there. Sometimes it's envy, sometimes it's ahhhh they are so cute. Sometimes it's I wonder if they want a third for a day. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣it's natural to have these emotions.
Jennie Owen
2024-11-17 07:18:10 +0000 UTC
Thank you so much ❤️ I’m so glad to hear the good that audio erotica has brought you and I love what you said about leaning into the joy of it.
C
2024-11-15 23:09:18 +0000 UTC
I understand where you’re coming from. I think there’s a part of me that could feel envious but I try to lean into the joy of it. I love what they have/share with us, it’s great to see other people able to connect in this way even if I sometimes struggle. for me it’s such a good reminder of why communication is the foundation of any relationship.
My partner and I have been together 15 years, had our tough times and always gotten through them because of the respect we have for each other and good communication (sometimes it’s taken us a few months to remember the communication point).
It seems too cliche or simple but it’s true.
I truly didn’t expect my sojourn into erotic audio to lead me through further revelations about the importance of communication (which I now think duh of course it will). I owe X&E, and other VAs so much love for their vulnerability and effort. It’s hard to state what their impact is without veering into over sharing or boundary crossing but for me it’s truly life changing.
Hello Brian
2024-11-15 23:00:14 +0000 UTC
Thank you SO much for sharing this all with me. Your first paragraph resonates with me so deeply. All of this is so so helpful and I’m glad to know I’m not alone or crazy for feeling this way, and that reassurance about evolving as we grow as people. I appreciate you so much ❣️
C
2024-11-15 16:46:37 +0000 UTC
My husband and I met young and married in our early 20s. Like many couples, our initial years were filled with excitement and energy, though looking back, some of it felt performative. Eventually, we hit a natural plateau. I was always more open to exploring, while he tended to be more reserved. Though our relationship was wonderful in every other way—we've weathered so much together and he's truly my best friend—this disconnect affected us both.
When he would try things solely for my benefit, I could tell he was outside of his comfort zone, which was like a bucket of ice water.
The turning point came unexpectedly. I went to therapy for an unrelated issue but gained valuable communication tools. Around the same time, my husband's executive coaching experience helped him become more open to dialogue. This allowed us to have honest conversations about intimacy without defensiveness or withdrawal.
For couples in similar situations, I'd recommend:
1. Start slowly—find shared interests and gradually build from there, introducing one new thing at a time. The goal is mutual enjoyment.
2. Prioritize confidence and self-care. When we feel our best, we're naturally more adventurous.
3. Be patient. People's comfort levels evolve over time. Now in our mid-30s, my husband's attitude and preferences have completely transformed. Sometimes growth just requires patience and understanding.
Visual content is often created for the male gaze, and many women find that written stories and audio formats offer a more immersive and personal experience. I openly share with my husband about stories or audio content that I find appealing. However, (and I’m not speaking specifically about X&E) it's important to recognize that these materials often prioritize entertainment over realism. There is some level of artifice. What sounds exciting in a story might feel forced or even comical in real life—my husband and I would probably burst out laughing if he repeated dialogue from a smutty book!
Recording yourself also inherently changes the dynamic. If I were film myself or make an audio, I would become more aware of my actions rather than staying present in the moment.
The key is finding what genuinely works for you as a couple while maintaining a sense of humor about it all.
Most importantly, maintain loving communication and respect for each other's boundaries. A strong foundation of trust, which it sounds like you have, allows intimacy to deepen naturally over time.
Ash Duem
2024-11-15 15:03:36 +0000 UTC
Okay I finally finished Talent & I really feel like an alternative title could have been “Double Cheeked Up on a Tuesday Afternoon.”
Sarah LP
2024-11-15 12:50:08 +0000 UTC
The trust and LOVE y’all 🥹 absolutely setting an example of what healthy sex can look like!
Thea
2024-11-15 04:01:44 +0000 UTC
I’m coming from a different sort of relationship background, but I will say that I miss having that level of connectedness with a partner.
Shari
2024-11-15 02:32:49 +0000 UTC
Thank you for sharing! Yeah I think it definitely is complicated. My relationship was very much started off of friendship and that foundation has continued to the point where sometimes it feels like the passion and “love drunk” feeling isn’t there. There’s so much respect and equality and partnership in my relationship that I absolutely love! But listening to this does make me feel like I’m missing out on certain aspects and I’m like oh man. :/
Also never apologize for rambling, I think LonelyGirls love a ramble 😂😂😂
C
2024-11-14 21:25:06 +0000 UTC
Thank you 💜
Jessica
2024-11-14 21:19:24 +0000 UTC
C, I might know how you feel, though I am not happily married. In fact, I haven't been in a relationship at all since 2008. I had just assumed any feelings of mild envy were more or less a symptom of being single but lately I've been feeling it's a bit more complicated than that. I think the part I struggle with the most is how palpable the bond is between Xander and Ellie. It's intoxicating to listen to them, how love-drunk they are on each other. It's overwhelming to realize you've never felt it but getting a taste of what that feels like through their audios....it's equal parts exhilarating and devastating. Sorry, I rambled. lol
Carissa Grove
2024-11-14 21:16:58 +0000 UTC
You shouldn't ever be confronted with hate for simply respecting your own boundaries. That's precisely why I appreciate the disclaimers that Xander and Ellie add to the top of the overheards. They want you to enjoy yourself, so much that they will offer helpful tips for either easing yourself in, or simply opting out. Be proud of yourself for honoring your limits because I'd be willing to bet there's at least a few more LonelyGirls that might know how you feel but and are nervous to say so.
Carissa Grove
2024-11-14 20:55:52 +0000 UTC
This is a question for fellow listeners rather than X&E…. does anyone else experience envy of their relationship? I know people have mentioned feeling jealous of either of them as individuals, but I definitely feel envy of their relationship and don’t know how to process it!
I’m happily married and have been with my partner for 8 years yet when I listen to overheards I’m like wow will I ever have that?? Because I feel I have very similar kinks/desires as X&E and my partner is not interested in trying many of those things.
Does anyone else experience that? I don’t want to stop listening bc I love the feelings that it evokes, similar to watching a romcom or reading a good book, but just don’t know how to process!
C
2024-11-14 20:00:19 +0000 UTC
This one was not for me. I tried it but I felt like I was intruding, that's ok. This is a space to learn what's for us and what's not. Please don't hate me 🫣
Jessica
2024-11-14 03:32:42 +0000 UTC
“Talent" captures everything compelling about listening in. Anyone who's been on the receiving end knows the best part comes after—those moments when your partner has seen to your needs and loses themselves completely in the sensation. It hits differently when you know you helped them get there. There's a special pride in watching someone get that overwhelmed; after all, what's the fun if they're not losing themselves in it too? While these moments can be hard to fully appreciate when you're caught up in your own head, having an hour of two people with genuine chemistry going at it? My synapses never stood a chance.
Though I have to wonder if Ellie’s jaw was filing an HR complaint by the end.
Ash Duem
2024-11-14 01:54:52 +0000 UTC
Between existing as a black woman, a period and the low level anxiety of an upcoming publication date I am feeling fragile right now and so when the aftercare part of that overheard hit, I nearly burst into tears
Sophie
2024-11-14 01:03:47 +0000 UTC
Talent... licking and sucking and stroking OH MY.
Thank you for sharing your intimate, vulnerable moments. You're both so generous, and the love and enjoyment just radiates from you. It's incredible that you found each other. I'm just glad to be here at the same time as you on the same little rock hurtling through space.
Lara
2024-11-13 21:50:21 +0000 UTC
Alternating heat and ice, for sure. And a whole lot of Advil…
Shari
2024-11-13 21:31:57 +0000 UTC
My TMJ could never! 😂 70 minutes?! I’d have to dislocate my jaw like a snake 🐍
Sarah LP
2024-11-13 20:27:44 +0000 UTC
Listened again because I can’t seem to stop. Ellie’s giggles are everything. If I didn’t already know I liked women they would seal it! I can totally picture a beautiful little cherub kicking her feet and giggling because she’s getting to do one of her favourite things in the world and spoil her man. - I just realized how that sounds. No, not the whole scene, just a very happy fully dressed woman kicking her feet on the bed. Alone. Or with a fully dressed partner who she’s giving a pedicure to or playing cards or something equally as wholesome. I swear my 90-year old pearl clutcher alter ego just slid out of hiding… -
Xander, please let Ellie spoil you more often. Grown women love to spoil their deserving partners.
Shari
2024-11-13 19:40:14 +0000 UTC
I am seriously still in awe after that overheard. Ellie and Xander, thank you for sharing this with us. You two are fucking electric together. You both are so insanely sexy, especially when you are spoiling each other.
Carissa Grove
2024-11-13 19:17:40 +0000 UTC
YOU TWO! 💗🙌 This was a master class in oral and aftercare. I absolutely love the spicy stuff, but I think my favorite part about your OH’s are the giggles and sweet nothings that are sprinkled throughout (especially in this one). Makes it so much hotter. 11/10! 🔥
AliciaMarie💋
2024-11-13 16:33:26 +0000 UTC
Here I thought those research courses were never going to be used again…
Shari
2024-11-13 16:23:57 +0000 UTC
Mine too!
Shari
2024-11-13 16:20:22 +0000 UTC
Putting my bachelors of science to good use 🧬🍆
Sarah LP
2024-11-13 16:14:48 +0000 UTC
The lengths we go to for the continuation of science.
Shari
2024-11-13 16:11:28 +0000 UTC
My *ahem* colleague in this study would also like to throw his hat in the ring and offer up head hanging off the bed. We are continuing to test this theory, but results are promising.
Sarah LP
2024-11-13 16:05:39 +0000 UTC
😂😂😂
Sarah LP
2024-11-13 16:01:17 +0000 UTC
Results have most definitely been replicated.
Shari
2024-11-13 15:41:51 +0000 UTC
20 minutes into Talent. I know Ellie owes us nothing, not one thing. But a TED Talk from her highness is on my Christmas list.
Sarah LP
2024-11-13 14:15:19 +0000 UTC
Peer reviewed 😆 I’ve been studying this science for a long time, and I concur with the above conjecture. Peer reviewed AND evidence based. 👩🏼🔬
Sarah LP
2024-11-13 14:12:01 +0000 UTC
Results have been replicated, it's irrefutable.
Bella
2024-11-13 13:53:28 +0000 UTC
Research has been conducted. There is science.
Shari
2024-11-13 13:49:17 +0000 UTC
I swear my partner can tell on my face when you guys release a new overheard 😅 he picks up our call and just knows he's getting a link.
Also, between the thighs IS the best place to do it from! *Thank* you, Ellie! Gonna say its peer-reviewed next time I get a weird look.
Bella
2024-11-13 11:59:28 +0000 UTC
Mine couldn’t either. Don’t feel bad.
Shari
2024-11-13 04:55:20 +0000 UTC
I literally cancelled an afternoon meeting for that (it could have been an email anyways) and 🗣️ WORTH IT
Mac
2024-11-13 02:50:13 +0000 UTC
1) I feel like I need to go touch some grass 😅🥵
2) I genuinely want to shake Ellie’s hand 🤝
Kate
2024-11-13 02:37:13 +0000 UTC
Damn. I…damn. That’s all I can actually say. Good lordt.
Nina R
2024-11-13 01:02:06 +0000 UTC
For real🫠🫨
Sara🦋
2024-11-13 00:57:21 +0000 UTC
I spent the last hour and a half of work listening to this and WOW. I struggle so much with being vulnerable so I really admire both of you for doing so. I definitely took notes so I can up my game next time I have the opportunity. I loved the giggling. Yall are great.
Marie🌺🦋
2024-11-12 23:44:31 +0000 UTC
There’s so much to talk about!
Shari
2024-11-12 23:39:53 +0000 UTC
The Spanish just about took me out
Shari
2024-11-12 23:38:31 +0000 UTC
This is pure witchcraft to me cuz lord my gag reflex could never😭
Real talk it was nice to hear Ellie take care of Xander that way. I always appreciate y’all’s intimacy and vulnerability. 🫶🏽
Maia
2024-11-12 23:10:02 +0000 UTC
Well, this is the first time I have listened to the two of you while 🪨, and I have to say...it hits different. Hoo.
Talent, indeed. 💖
Melly
2024-11-12 23:09:17 +0000 UTC
O.M.G. No words for the feelings I have after listening to this over heard! Thank you E and X for sharing your most intimate times with us.
Belle
2024-11-12 20:49:07 +0000 UTC
Finished Talent and have a few notes. - this should surprise no one… -
- I’m going to start at the end. Ellie’s aftercare was top tier. I would never say no - and I don’t think I’m alone in this - if you happened to want to grace us with an aftercare audio. Or tutorial. We like tutorials :)
- I should have started with this but whatev. Thank you for your vulnerability. I think I say this with every overheard, but recording your most intimate moments and putting them out there for the whole world to hear takes guts no matter how big an exhibitionist you are. And then to record anal play at that? Thank you for doing a small part to normalize something that can be fun for both partners.
Shari
2024-11-12 20:29:30 +0000 UTC
The spanish around 45:35😵😵😳🪦🪦
yeah umm *hehehe*, please excuse me just like one moment ☝🏽😄, thanks.
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Respectfully, HOLY FUCK!☠️🫠🥵
Edit: No longer a productive member of society🫠👍🏽
Sara🦋
2024-11-12 20:16:17 +0000 UTC
listening to Talent in the middle of my work day was the biggest mistake bc idk how to return to normal now 🥵 the rimming, growling, snowballing, Spanish, was so so hot. but the overall intimacy and coziness is what got me 🥹 it’s genuinely heartwarming and I don’t think I ever expected to get that feeling from nsfw content before finding Xander & Ellie. the laughter, aftercare, ugh! *chefs kiss*
C
2024-11-12 20:10:39 +0000 UTC
Tuesdays Quinn (mic) drop has arrived !! Not pressed play yet as simultaneously excited and terrified to find out how it will undoubtedly alter my brain chemistry !! Thank you Ellie & Xander 🥹🥹 🖤🖤
SisterofMercy
2024-11-12 19:45:14 +0000 UTC
I have listened to Shivers more times than I should admit. One ear bud in while cooking dinner, cleaning the kitchen etc. Makes my partner so happy at bedtime. Every ramble is impeccable! Wish more men IRL actually communicated like you! All the lonely girls will keep working on getting them there. You keep giving us options to know what to teach them, thank you.
Belle
2024-11-12 19:32:42 +0000 UTC
Its out🫠
Sara🦋
2024-11-12 18:34:23 +0000 UTC
Can't think what either of you is talking about...
Brb, just refreshing 😅
petrichor
2024-11-12 18:23:57 +0000 UTC
Not me either. Nope! Definitely not…
Shari
2024-11-12 17:45:08 +0000 UTC
Im definitely NOT refreshing the Quinn app every second, no, no, ofc not, *twitches* i am being a very productive member of society and a responsible employee🙂↕️ (lol very excited for tdys drop😅)
Sara🦋
2024-11-12 16:45:31 +0000 UTC
So one of the reasons I keep gravitating back to Xander’s audios whether on here or Quinn is that his care for women shines through. It is truly a safe space. I also need the reminders to hydrate 😝
Aligator79
2024-11-12 14:25:52 +0000 UTC
How did I miss the collab with mairsyy? Was so excited to hear another. The way he kept saying stranger made me laugh…loved it!
Belle
2024-11-12 12:01:53 +0000 UTC
I really pared this down and decided to hold the majority of my questions till after Tuesday’s drop. I’m sorry it’s so long…
In light of Tuesday’s master class Ted talk on the potentially earth shattering soul snatching ways of Ellie, I felt the need to conduct a review of the previously provided study materials while chilling in Starbucks this morning. I’ve put together a few notes…
Honey:
- Xander, you sound so nervous on your intro.
- Ellie woke you up. Not sure why I never clocked that, but I didn’t. I never really thought about the free-use angle from that perspective. I need to spend some time reflecting on this.
- I love the communication. At one point Ellie says that something hurts, and the listeners can hear the speed and intensity decrease for a quick moment before she gives reassurance that that’s not what she intended.
Milk n’ Honey
- Ellie’s soft confidence is inspirational. For many women confidence can be a concern when it comes to more dominant positions - or just embracing domme energy at all - like face riding. Ellie, do you have any suggestions for the girlies that want to step into and own that power but just haven’t gotten there yet?
- The rain is magic. The perfect soothing sounds to bring everything back down.
Hot Honey
- I really love the progression of introductions.
- Commentary on the fashion industry will forever by my favourite.
- Squirting can be an empowering experience for women, but also a highly divisive one. Some women experience this phenomena easily, others only later in life when the hormones start changing the tissues. Some never experience it. Though Overheards are obviously different than scripts, it still sounded like this was a bit of a shock and not a regular-every-day kind of thing. I appreciate the realness not only in the overheard but also your audios in general.
Raw Honey
- This is the audio that made me realize it was actually okay to be specific about my needs. Ellie, I can’t thank you enough for that!
- The depiction of non-sexual intimacy was beautiful in this one, and I feel something that so often is overlooked. People talk about relationship fading when the sex dies off, but I often find myself thinking about the earlier symptoms of the loss of non-sexual touching and more subtle intimacy. Staying and growing together is an active choice made by all parties in the relationship, and it happens every day.
Notes in general:
- These really are the best overheards on the app. You can actually hear, which is kind of the whole point.
- You mentioned in the AMA that you started as a distance relationship. Do you feel that this had a positive impact on your communication with each other?
Shari
2024-11-12 01:21:22 +0000 UTC
☠️☠️☠️
🥞cottonheadedninnysheshe🍝
2024-11-11 12:40:09 +0000 UTC
A REPLY THREAD HATES TO SEE ME COMING WOOHOO
MerryMegadon 🎄✨
2024-11-11 06:49:28 +0000 UTC
I'm a single woman with no children, so this week has made me feel even more alone than I already feel every day. Xander and Ellie, I am so glad you both exist.
Carissa Grove
2024-11-10 19:18:28 +0000 UTC
I get it, I so do. But you’ve worked so hard, and I know so many of the LonelyGals are still looking forward to it. Anyone who has followed you and is a part of this community knows that you care. You’ve ALWAYS been great at checking in and helping us make the best decision for our listening experience with you and all of your characters.
So if and when the girlies feel safe enough to go there, Ghostface will be there for them ☺️
Alayna Douglas
2024-11-10 15:29:09 +0000 UTC
The Xambles once again deliver! Thank you for being you. You’ve always been great at the checkins and tags so that we can feel safe and in control of our enjoyment here and on Quinn 🤗
Could you do me a favor and make sure Ellie gets this girl-power hug from me? Thanks 🥰💗💙
Alayna Douglas
2024-11-10 15:18:32 +0000 UTC
I admit. I’m almost done with Ghostface and it feels almost inappropriate to upload it. Thank you for this comment, it put my mind at ease. Ghostface is a protector of women (in his own weird way) in this audio so hopefully even for the listeners who like the rough stuff, it still lands well ❤️
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2024-11-10 15:16:31 +0000 UTC
Absolutely. I’ve felt a lot of difficult emotions this past week, but I’ve had to remind myself that I’m still allowed to enjoy these things and have a place to go for healthy sexual expression. I have that at home too with my partner. He’s been taking care of me and my big feelings all weekend, as he always does and will continue to do 💗
Alayna Douglas
2024-11-10 15:10:54 +0000 UTC
with the upsetting events of the past week, i’ve seen a lot of artists, authors, and content creators who have pulled back from putting their work out there, with the reasoning that the world was in chaos and they didn’t know if it would be appropriate to put their dark romance, smutty audios, or nsfw art into a world so full of chaos and upheaval. i’m of the belief that this is the time that it’s needed the most. artists, content creators, and authors give us the light we need to make our way through the darkness when times are like this. so thanks for being a bright spot in a dark world, xander. your audios are always the perfect distraction, and this one was absolutely needed 💜
evie
2024-11-10 14:26:12 +0000 UTC
I love getting to talk to my fellow LonelyGirls. Having this little community has been such a comfort, especially with all of the emotions that have hit me with the chaos of this past week. I loved the first Quinn audio Xander, and I love this space that you’ve made for us 🖤
Emma Lee
2024-11-10 10:03:18 +0000 UTC