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Daddy's Home

Even after a long day at work, I'm your Daddy first.

[M4F] [Daddy Dom] [DDlg] [Little pet names like babygirl, princess, little girl, etc] [Soft mocking and degredation] [Littlespace] [Good girl] [Consent] [Talking you through it] [Comfort] [Aftercare] [Re-establishing care] [Spitting] [Movie in background]

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My perfectionism is going to be the death of me. Thank you for your patience 😅❤

Bonus points to whoever recognizes the movie in the background, btwbtw

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Comments

Everything before 19:43 hit alllllll the right spots but I completely melted during “do you still feel little or did you leave it all in the scene?” This tenderness and understanding of DD/lg is difficult to find in kinky audios out in the ether. Keep it up!

Coco

I'm so glad you're on here. I love all of you and Ellies content

Steffie

Patreon newbie here. I gotta say, I never thought that DDLG would be something I was into, but I'm slowly changing my mind. This was intense but the aftercare was 💯. Also, The Craft is one of my all time fave movies!

Chris Cox

Just a lil late to the party, but I'm glad I came 🫠 this DDlg speaks to me on levels I didn't know I needed. We need more people like you in the world 🙃

midnight_sulfur

the aftercare was so sweet & comforting i teared up omg 🥲 your ddlg is on a whole diff level, i swear 😩🫶

E

Yes! The Craft!!

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Movie: The Craft 😈 We are the weirdos, mister. Happy Halloween, Xander Marie (and Queen Ellie too!) *This was perfection. The aftercare 🤌🏼*

Lex

Totally passed out listening last night.. 🙈🤣 But listened this morning! You are absolutely amazing and just.. Breathtaking with your creations. 💞 I love how you could clearly tell how grumpy you were at first and that you needed to therapy of it too. And then the ending.. 🥺 absolutely so sweet and amazing with the aftercare as alwaysss 🫶 ~lotus

Lotus and Chanel

thank you! DD/lg is what comes most naturally to me, and what I default to sexually in most cases. That’s why they’re my favorite audios to create because they’re very real to me

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I love dd/lg so much. This was perfection. I feel so comfortable listening to your audios, everything feels so genuine. Thank you!❤️❤️

Ink.Covered.Pages

Yup totally forgot yesterday was hectic after work, totally setting a reminder. 🤣💞📅

Lotus and Chanel

I’m going to be honest, I’m not into the ddlg, BUT I appreciate it because of how intense it can get, especially your audios. You really are an amazing creator and I truly appreciate all of the effort that you put into your work. Thank you for being so YOU!

Erica_Nicole23

As always, utterly phenomenal. I sincerely appreciate your aftercare in all of your work.

Kari Jo

Well you certainly perfected this one 🥵

MelissaL.🌸💗

*I've returned, absolutely tired af* I would love to have a comment that explains in detail of how I'm in love with every bit of the 22 minutes I just experienced, but my brain and heart are still recovering from the absolute diabetic sweetness this was. The last minute was me just "Awwwww"-ing into my pillow. I am so ready for bed now haha. Thank you, Mr. Perfectionist! ❤️

FlaMinhun

Well that was just LOVELY. And, as had been said repeatedly, especially the aftercare.

Margaret Peffy Margie Maggie

That’s a standard around here ❤️

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This made being little feel so safe ❤️ I love being treated so tenderly in this dynamic. It's very affirming. There's nothing quite like being teased about being needy by someone who is only too happy to meet that need. Lovely job Xander xxx

Lara

So…..”did I do anything that made you think about using your safe word?” should be entered in the couples’ conversation hall of fame. Gold standard.

Catherine

Whelp…*snaps airpod case closed* same time next week ladies? 🤝🏾

Jehovahs_Thiccness💋

The soft and somehow gentle mocking and degradation? TOP TIER COMBO 🤌

Britt and Belle

Thanks!

Jennie Owen

10/10 recommend listening to this when you’re walking in the middle of a field when it unexpectedly starts chucking down with rain

Sophie

Happy birthday!!!🎉

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That was a great way to start my birthday!! Loved it, thank you.

Jennie Owen

Praise kink 🤝🏽 Degradation kink. Thank you for your service Xander🫡 Also “tell me if anything hurts okay sweet girl?”(not okay in the best way🫠🫠🥲) Dang, October is gonna be a good month isn’t it? *nods yes*🫶🏽

Sara🦋

I’m just glad I’ll be working from home for the next 4 months because the noises I made listening to this one would definitely get me sent straight to HR 😅

La Nuna Luna

Your aftercare is always so well done and soothing. I appreciate all the effort you put into making these audios for us ♥️♥️

Maddy

XANDER, YOU KING!!! 😫😫😫 if only we could give you a crown for your DDLG audios because you goddamn deserve it! no competition sir, ITS YOURS, TAKE IT!!!! 👑 I adore the way you do your aftercare! you always take just a few extra minutes to do it but it's those kind of little things that make you such an amazing creator, perfectionist and all 😂 you're amazing xander!!! we love you!! 🖤🖤

mcxyp

i have listened to the audio and OH MY GOD XANDER. this is was the best way i could've started my day. your ddlg audios are my faves since they're always so cozy and caring and sweet 🥺especiallyyyyyyy with the aftercare at the end

honey

Thank you! A lot of what you mentioned is what makes DD/lg my favorite

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Thank you! I try to keep the language safe and cozy

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Thank you so much! Aftercare is the heart of DD/lg.

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Aw I should have thought of that.

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Rhi 😂

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This is honestly phenomenal, the vibe was so loving and tender while still hitting all the right spots (aye), editing and sound perfect as always, I’m just in awe! 🥹💜

beswitched

My supervisor walked in while I was listening to this, thank God for earbuds and long hair. I love the aftercare.

Marie🌺🦋

You know, these are always so frikkin hot, but I always walk away from your audios with my heart feeling better, too. Thanks, X.

Melly

This whole audio is amazing! I love how the language to foster the listener staying in “little” space was so subtle. ‘Tummy’, ‘uppsies’, the soft whispers, etc. this is a masterclass of how to balance this type of scene and I always love when audios include aftercare!

MissChriss

Using this as motivation to get my work done this morning so I can listen later. ::Queue witchy cackling:: I’ll be back my pretties 🧙‍♀️

Britt and Belle

Thank you Daddy this was soooooo delicious 🫠🫠 I only ever wanna be called princess now

Cherrypin 🎀🌸🍒

A damn good way to wake up 🤌🏼

Lacey

1. Not me answering 🙄 2. Ffs X, the aftercare 🫠 I've never been more envious of someone's relationship. You are a Prince among men. You should hold a masterclass 💜🖤

Jessica

Whyyyy do I have to be at work right now?!

Stellina

All I think about whenever this is mentioned 😂

Jessica

There was a movie playing in the background?! 🧐 Jokes aside - I adore your take on DDlg. It doesn’t infantilize the listener which some DDlg concepts can do. And the aftercare? New standards unlocked.

Smut in Your Cup

Same 😂 dam work !!

MelissaL.🌸💗

The whole thing, and I mean from 0:01 to 22:02 was amazing! Thank you for all your hard work, Xander!

CampSalamander

I just got home from my nightshift… how PERFECT right before I go to bed for the day!! p.s. I hope you get some rest too Xander, in case you’re still pulling all-nighters 🤗☺️

Alayna Douglas

I can't wear earphones at work today, forcing me to be an innocent and professional employee. Now I gotta wait. This is gonna be a looooong day😭 I'll be back. 😂

FlaMinhun

Pausing the dogs’ walk to make a comment. The “adult activities” in this one? Sure they’re great, nothing new there. The consent? Awesome. But the aftercare? That’s where it’s at! The conversation, the care for making sure the listener/character is fed and hydrated, and - IMO the best part - the bath… Xander, please don’t ever stop your craft. The world needs more men like how you present this character. Now for a second listen to see if I can pick up the movie…

Shari

Ohhh, extra incentive to finish my French DuoLingo goals for the day!

Laura

Yay!

Caitlin

You did it! Now go get some rest.

Louise O'Brien

This was so good and the end was so sweet 🥹

Cami

the way i was actively speaking to someone and then lost the ability to speak when i read these tags. xander marie how DARE you (positive)

amanda

Welp. I didn't guess the movie, as a cinefile, that's upsetting... but I have to say....this is the absolute best liquid IV ad I've ever heard.🤣 And I listen to podcasts all goddamn day. Good job, sir!

Tara Latham

Listening to this at work at 8:30am. Why do I do this to myself? Xander, why do YOU do this to me?! 💀

jade 🖤

The notification right as I walking in to work👀🤭. I'll have a treat when I get home😁

Yaya

Too much distracted to guess the movie… oh well…

MilaHarrogate00

Well that’s my bedtime audio sorted then 💃🏽

Rainydais

Me: Extra points if I guess the movie!? Bet. Also me: Immediately distracted. Must get better headphones 🤣. But I'm only 7 min in, X. Gimme time...

Tara Latham

Can't waittt to listen when I get home today!! 💞🤗

Lotus and Chanel

I swear to god if you’re trolling us with House of Wax 🤣

ashmail

Daddy’s home by usher plays LOUDLY (literally lmao) I’m so excited to listen to this 🖤🖤🖤

honey

Right as I'm on my way out the door to work?! XANDER 😑

Margaret Peffy Margie Maggie

HAHAHAHAHA I THOUGHT IT WAS LIKE 4 AM. 💀💀

Rhiannon

Rockstar hours paying off, yet again!

Rhiannon

The ddlg tag🫠

Sab

This is going to be amazing!

Shari

IT’S TIMEEEEE GIRLSSSSSS

J


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