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AMA - Ellie and Xander

Ellie joins the ama!

a long one, but not as long as the solo ama. Hope you like it! We really had a lot of fun recording this one :)

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I had the same question. :) definitely going to follow her too now. :)

1naughtykitten

I just recently found Quinn, and then Xander on there (love the overheards btw), then found him on insta, then that led me to find the patreon and I'm so glad! I absolutely love you guys! You are the sweetest, cute couple! It's so amazing how extremely comfortable and uninhibited you are with each other. I'm sure you hear it a lot on here but thanks for sharing your vulnerability with us, as well as giving the rest of us ideas for things to approach with our own spouses. You both are truly inspiring!

1naughtykitten

Thank you just followed her public account.

Machelle Butts

She’s releasing book one of her series soon! follow her on instagram :)

🖤

How do we get Ellie’s books?

Machelle Butts

I’m new to your Patreon (I’ve migrated over from Quinn) and finally had a chance to listen to this and absolutely loved it. Your answers were so thoughtful and insightful. This was just so fun to laugh along with you two! Both of your laughs just make me smile. I appreciate how much you’ve shared with us all. I echo the masses that your audios have been so beneficial to me individually but also to the communication and intimacy in my long term relationship. This is the first I’ve heard anyone address how quiet men can be during sex and that alone blew my mind—I’ve been feeling like it’s a “me” problem. I could go on but there are so many ways your audios (and platforms like Quinn) have made very real differences for me and I’m so thankful for that.

Chelsea

Joined yesterday and am having a blast catching up on all the content! 🔥 This especially was such a joy to listen to! You two ❤️ your vibe is so comfortable and loving, it's equally wholesome and hot! Thank you for sharing with us!

norawithouttheh

God I’m only a minute in and I’m already seething with jealousy over how cute you to are. Sttoooooooopppp (but don’t, ever, please)

Caitlin 🩷🌻

another AMA will be dropping soon!

🖤

How am I just now finding these AMAs?! I just cleaned my house without Vyvanse while I listened to this. Hopefully a podcast will be in your future, the two of you are binge worthy.

Ella Mineaux

You guys are so adorable and I love your love! 🥰😍

Steffie

I finally remembered to give this one a listen and I’m so glad. You two are so bloody cute and I was laughing pretty much the whole time. I even teared up when you were talking about how Quinn changed your life. Just FYI the answer to any time either of you ask “I wonder if they’d be interested in hearing this…” the answer is always yes. Yes please. Gimmie.

LozC

I can barely make it through this ama. I kind of thought maybe it was just the overheards that made you both sound so amazing but just listening to you talk is glorious! This was a lot of fun, thanks!!

Amanda

But the podcast could be all about going off on a tangent. Like start the topic on one thing and see where you end up like when one goes down a YouTube rabbit hole.

Hobbit Hiker

Don't worry Ellie! I'm super competitive too 😂

miss kim

THANK YOU! I'm a full-figured woman, and I've only ever been approached by men who exclusively seek plus-size partners because they have a BBW fetish. I sincerely mean no disrespect to anyone with that fetish; I don't want to be reduced to the confines of a fetish when my most desirable traits are unrelated to my body. I want my partner to love my body, not love me BECAUSE of my body. Men like Xander, who value the person before looks, are tragically rare. Even still, you two have a relationship that I aspire to find for myself. Both of you healed something in me with this. Y'all even got me crying! LoL

Carissa Grove

That's a thoughtful message! When I had to build a wishlist, it did feel gratuitous, so I understand your sentiment. However, given the circumstances, I had support who were reassuring that people genuinely like to be altruistic. It's nice to see creators so grateful for their audience's presence and engagement without asking for more. I've never heard of Throne before. I’m assuming it is some kind of wishlist or gift registry platform. Whatever it is, I understand why you'd hesitate to promote it. It's clear that you and Ellie have a strong connection with your community and that you truly appreciate them for their kind words, not what they can give you. That kind of authentic relationship between creators and their audience is worth preserving.

Ash Duem

This is really kind of you. To be honest, neither of us is particularly comfortable asking for gifts in any way. Most if not all of you already pay for Quinn. Then you pay for this Patreon on top of that. Audio erotica is a luxury, and you’re all already pledging a lot of your hard earned money here, and showing so much support. That’s enough for us. It feels really slimy to ask for other things, the fact that you’re all here is more than enough ❤️ I created a Throne because people asked me repeatedly for it, but you will never, ever see me advertise it. People have asked Ellie to create a Throne and she outright refuses. Your presence snd support and kind comments are more than enough for us

🖤

I recently listened to this AMA and noticed the discussion about sending gifts through a PO Box. While you seemed interested, I know it’s important to maintain privacy and security. Perhaps consider creating an Amazon wishlist as an alternative. Unlike a PO Box, which requires disclosing a physical location (your town/state), an Amazon wishlist keeps your personal information confidential from senders. Interested parties can purchase pre-selected items directly from your list. There’s also an easy workaround for items not on your list: Senders can add both a wishlist item and their desired gift to the cart and then select both as gifts at checkout. They can also deselect the wishlist item if they want to only send the gift of their choice I don’t know if this method works for websites that fulfill orders through Amazon, such as Zappos. While it limits the types of gifts you can receive, it does provide a way to curate and control incoming items, adding a layer of safety and appropriateness. I hope this suggestion is helpful. It's based on my own experience setting up a similar system, and I thought it might be valuable for your situation as well. You seem pretty big into fan engagement, so it’s a way to partake while maintaining personal boundaries and private life. Idk if someone posted something similar (there’s so many comments!) or if you read comments on older posts.

Ash Duem

It genuinely surprised me how many times ya'll made me laugh answering these questions! You two are adorable together and you make a great team with the writing and the editing 💙 and obviously the overheards 😊

pastel_violet

Me too 🥰

🖤

I for one am THRILLED Ellie exists 💚💚💚

Vee Zed

Very much yes. I would literally listen to a podcast's worth of exactly this.

Essi

I am not that far in, but want to shout my enthusiastic appreciation for Overheards - I love them, my partner loves them, we love them together, they're just fab. Rambles and Overheards are my favourite tags and obvs y'all are the King and Queen

Anemone

You guys are adorbs. Thank you so much for sharing with all of us.

KK

I’m really thankful that you felt comfortable enough to listen to us here. It’s totally okay, even being bi or not wanting the fantasy ruined, some people straight up just don’t like overheards and that’s okay. You don’t need a reason, it’s as simple as saying you don’t like barbecue sauce. But if you ever decide to give them a listen, start with the ones on Quinn and listen to the disclaimers first :)

🖤

I may be the only one here who hasn’t listened to any of the overheards. Ever since they dropped, I’ve been mad curious, but I just never felt like I was in the right headspace to listen. I’m also very possessive (very comforting to hear you both are, too), and I was worried listening to an overheard would change the “fantasy” of listening to the scripted audios. When you dropped this AMA with both of you, I thought this might be more like dipping my big toe in. I’ve seen so many amazing comments about Ellie and your dynamic together; listening to an overheard just felt invasive. I still don’t know if I’ll ever listen to an overheard, but listening to you two casually like this was oddly comforting. So if I ever do tune in, it won’t feel so intrusive. I’m so glad you’ve receive such amazing support for these audios, and I’m so happy that they have helped so many people. You both should be proud! Side note, whenever I see the “Written by Ellie”, I know we are in good hands 🖤

Spookyaccountant

Chanel- I want to say that you guys are amazing and love the inside of everything between you guys! You guys are truly OTP, sending my love and positive vibes to you guys ♥️♥️♥️♥️

Lotus and Chanel

Ellie…girl…I am also so competitive….like seriously to the point where I cuss out board games-not the people I’m playing but the actual game-(Battle Ship, Connect 4, Uno…the list go on) I swear-but yeah I also cuss out every day life things too 🤭🤭🤭🤭

Amanda Kuhlman

Same lol 😂

Amanda Kuhlman

I love Ellie’s voice 🥰 her little yeps are so cute!

Kassy

Y’all are so precious 🥹

Amanda

Definitely. I've been in a committed relationship since I was a teen so never actually explored my bi side but audios are fab for that. Honey audios in particular have been great for my relationship.

Anemone

So many things I want to say but most of all thank you. Love the overheards and they have helped me so much in my relationship/communication with my partner. Hearing the chemistry you two have in the AMA made me listen to all of Xanders audios in a different light. I can see him speaking about Ellie in his rambles and the amount of love and lust there is incredible without ever saying her name.

Belle

I swear….y’all remind me so much of me and my partner. I adore you both so much. 😹

Bisexual Biscuit

"Can you put that voice away?!" It killed me 😂😂 Thank you guys I loved knowing a bit more about you!

Mélanie

Finally got to listen. Fangirl TLDR post comin’ in hot: Echoing the enthusiasm/adoration for this AMA. Wanted to eat 🍿 and APPLAUD how eloquently Ellie put into words the deafening silence of most men in bed. Also, deeply appreciate how you both elaborated on the importance of communication in and out of the bedroom — your overheards are so incredible it’s easy to forget that you’ve used communication to GET to that point. On a more personal/intimate note I’d like to thank you for the overheards and the effect they’ve had on my relationship. They were a huge part in helping us realize we can talk in the bedroom and mix things up without being awkward. Continuously check-in/get consent while still keeping things spicy. Respect and love one another while doing deliciously debaucherous things. The other night we laid together post-*smoochin* and he said “I can’t believe I get to have this kind of mind-blowing s*x forever with my future wife.” (Recently got engaged) Thank you. thank you. thank you. You both (as well as Quinn in general) have completely changed my (and by extension my partner’s) life.

ALittleStitious

"No touchy" by Ellie also just made me picture the scene from Lilo and Stitch which gave me a good giggle.

moxierose

Love this so much!!! The work y’all do is amazing! Thanks for being so open to sharing and chatting!! 🫶🏼

Angelique Choate

You two are so funny and cute together, I could listen to a weekly podcast of you guys🤗 Appreciate the thought and effort you put into your overheards - my god are they hot🔥

AliciaMarie💋

Would love to hear the MF script with you two!

Tilly

Not me being shocked that people don’t want Ellie 😳 DO NOT listen to them we’re down bad for you Ellie 🙂‍↕️

Tilly

I know I always say thank you but I mean it from every part of me! you were the first VA I listened to on Quinn and your audios have helped me in more ways than I could have ever imagined. your overheard audios with ellie in particular really impacted me for the better! I haven't had the best experiences when it comes to intimacy and sex so when I heard your overheard audios, it really helped to heal those parts of me. just hearing how both of you communicate to each other, the reassurance you both provide and the respect you share for one another is absolutely incredible! especially ellie! ellie, you are an angel! she showed me how to communicate confidently about my desires during intimacy and that it's okay for me to say what works and doesn’t work for me sexually. you both have done so much for the Quinn community and we cannot thank you enough! you and ellie both deserve so much love and praise for what you do! i absolutely adore you both! thank you! ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 also, please do more AMAs together as I'd love to hear you interact with each other and us more!!

mcxyp

I love how this feels like a facetime call😆 I need more! Thank you for answering some (imo) tuff questions!

kira

I absolutely adore both of you! This was so amazing!! 💞 So soo awesome getting to see the non spicy side of you also. 🤗 And omg the giggles and just pure happiness from both of you. So precious. Thank you guys for sharing your amazingness once again. It's soooo comforting beyond words to have somewhere to explore what you want to experience one day and to see(hear) how a beautiful relationship should be like. You both as a couple and people are sooo endlessly inspiring. 💞🫶

Lotus and Chanel

I thought the same thing! Parasocial relationships can be very strange.

moxierose

Just getting around to finally listen to. You two had me laughing out loud ALOT!!! 😂 Your laughs are so infectious. I really enjoyed listening. I also noticed you posted some Ellie audios so looking forward to listen. I think you two would be amazing if you had a podcast. I think a lot of us would listen to anything you talked about. You two just give off genuine, positive, & fun vibes. Thank you both for sharing 😊 hope you do more of these either alone and/or together along with more overheads 🫣

MelissaL.🌸💗

This is so lovely. I’m so happy you survived and that you’re thriving, and allowing yourself to learn and grow. I hope you keep exploring and that we keep helping you feel inspired and safe!! Thank you so much for sharing with us, we’re really glad you’re here ❤️

🖤

We must protect Ellie at all costs 😤

Thea

This is just a gratitude message, I wasn’t sure where else to post it. Thank you both for being vulnerable enough to put your overheards on Quinn. As a cult survivor, anything to do with sex was surrounded with an immense amount of shame. During my healing journey I decided to download Quinn in hopes that it would help me become more comfortable and explore different aspects of sex. Listening to guys with hot voices was great and all, but it was miss Ellie who helped me heal the most! Hearing a woman who was confident in her relationship and sexuality being able to express her likes and dislikes in such an authentic way was a first for me. I needed examples of real, safe, healthy sex - not just scripted one sided ones. Anyways, sorry for all the word vomit, I just wanted to say you guys are making such a difference in our lives beyond just spicy entertainment value. So thank you 😊

Thea

🤺🤺🤺 us to anyone who is ever rude to Ellie, this GEM of a human being. We lonely girls are very happy you exist and make each other so happy. :)

Thea

You two just make my heart so darn happy. Thanks for this. 💖

Melly

You two are adorable! Such love to you both!

Desi

I was literally yelling alone in my room "What are you two even talking about?! People LOVE hearing you talk!"

Tara Latham

Okay well when ya put it that way lol

🖤

I loved this so much! Thank you both for being willing to share your space with us. I am so appreciative of the gifts you give us. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness ❤️❤️

Cristine

That overheard is a fun one 🙃

🖤

I don’t even understand people. I don’t know either of these two lovely humans but they seem like some of the best most genuine people out there! How anyone could have ill will towards that is beyond me :(

Shari

It is high art. I was speechless.

🖤

Omg! I'm the Tara! Lol

Tara Latham

"No one wants to listen to us talk!' Us, the patreon and Quinn subscribers LITERALLY paying to hear you talk 😂

Tara Latham

Ellie! Not the sink in your pants 😂😂😂

Tara Latham

My cheeks hurt from smiling and laughing😭😂 I could listen to you both for hours, so if yall ever do create a podcast, just know you got a guarantee listen right here ✋🏽🤓. But for real, the bond and the chemistry and banter yall share is so beautiful to witness so thanks for sharing!!😊 P.S. what’s this i hear about, some’n bout interrupting some’n, moving the mic somewhere?👀 (lol excited for that one🤭)

Sara🦋

Coming back to say HELL YEAH to Ellie audios 😍

Britt and Belle

you guys are absolutely amazing humans. The minute I knew that an Ellie existed I have always wondered more about your dynamic and this is like the perfect way for us to respectfully get to know more about you guys. My heart smiles every single time you guys laugh together. Thank you for letting us see a lil glimpse of you guys. X +W 4 Eva, or whatever the kids are saying these days.....💘 Happy Spooky Season, y'all

Tara Latham

This was so much fun! Love the both of you. We would definitely listen to a podcast of the two of you

Cami

Ellie’s laughter is infectious and you can FEEL your chemistry and adoration and love for each other. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️

Britt and Belle

Graphic design is absolutely my passion 💀

MerryMegadon 🎄✨

The BOURTS

MerryMegadon 🎄✨

Scream it 👏

MerryMegadon 🎄✨

Right? She's literally the best human I've ever known. People can be awful.

Rhiannon

I also just got to the part where people are sending that girl hate comments. Have they considered eating a bag of dicks? What is literally happening?

GeauxGabby

Butts. All day. Every day.

Rhiannon

It's a work of art, Meggy

Rhiannon

You can both throw it back, don't pretend like you can't. Twerking videos make an excellent, cost-effective birthday gift for your Scorpio bff. Please bounce the butts for momma. 😂💋🍑

Rhiannon

I like her. She’s fun. I wish they had done the AMA before the overheards lol

GeauxGabby

Also I was in the middle of it but I owe you two the Fade to Pink cover 💀

MerryMegadon 🎄✨

Sweet Baby Rhi you are an absolute legend

MerryMegadon 🎄✨

*sigh* Y’all are so freaking adorable! Smiling so hard my cheeks hurt. I cannot wait for Ellie’s audios!! Sincerely, No longer bi-panicking. Just bi.

meg

You guys are couple goals honestly. Thanks so much for sharing with us. Hopefully you'll do more amas either alone or together. Exposing myself for the worm question 🙈 Not sure if you've seen the videos of gfs asking their partners this online?

Mel

Y’all are so cute. This was super fun. Yes please to sharing Ellie’s recordings!

siesta_maven

Yall are so cute. I smiled the whole time. And christian mingle 😂

Marie🌺🦋

So, this was like the best most cutest thing I've ever heard! (Yes, even incIuding the Honey series, that fundamentally changed me as a person.) Really could use that podcast!

Essi

This was adorable and sweet and made me absolutely giddy! I loved your answers about giving each other space. I didn’t have the balls to sign my name to that question but your answers really resonated with me so I’ll come clean and say that was mine. I’ve been married for…a while, and anytime someone asks me why I picked my husband I say it’s because he leaves me the hell alone. I’ve never met someone that also valued that in a relationship (other than the husband). Thank you both for taking the time to record this and for being so open about your relationship. I could honestly listen to Ellie giggle for an hour straight so if you’re looking for podcast ideas…start with that?

tartcakes

Absolutely loved listening to this! Your banter and riffing off each other reminded me a lot of me and my husband. I just love witnessing people in love 🥰

nautilusxX

Both of you are so awesome and precious! I love how genuine and humble you are. Totally down for more of you just chatting it up!

Danielle Soteros

Same! I was just about to comment this!

tartcakes

Guys my face literally hurts from smiling so much 🥺🥺🥺

Emily

Reading this choked me up, thank you so much for sharing. I’m so happy that you’re so comfortable with us ❤️

🖤

You two are beyond adorable together 💜, and now I’m wishing for a Xander & Ellie podcast! I could listen to you guys chatting for days. This might be a bit TMI, but... I’ve been on Quinn for just over half a year, so I’m still fairly new, not only to the app but to the whole audio erotica world—which, embarrassingly enough, I didn’t even know existed before. One of the things I’ve learned is that I can only listen to a ramble or overheard if I’m already really comfortable with the VA’s scripted work. Otherwise, I get this strange feeling that I’m intruding on something not meant for me to hear. I know that sounds silly because, obviously, it’s an audio on an audio erotica app! 😅 But I think it speaks to how rambles and overheards have their own kind of audience. That being said, your overheards are the only ones I truly enjoy and feel comfortable listening to. And it’s not just because I’ve grown so familiar with your scripted work (and absolutely love them), but also because of the incredible chemistry between you two, the way you communicate so openly, and the genuine love you share. It’s so palpable. And the fact that the overheards begin with consent talk? Ugh, absolute King and Queen of consent, both of you! 🤴👸. Even if it’s unintentional, you’ve really created this wonderful space where, as a listener, I feel very safe and comfortable learning more about myself, and it’s helping to heal parts of me that I never thought could be healed. I can’t thank you enough for that. (But if you ever open a P.O. box, I shall send you Brazilian snacks 😊)

La Nuna Luna

I definitely want to hear the audios that E has done. 🤍

moxierose

Your overheads are just *chef's kiss. There may be two people who are more charming, fun and engaging but I don't know them... any vacancies for best friends? Oh and the TSA competitiveness hits hard, on my recent trip I proudly DOMINATED the checking in and security process while others scrambled and whimpered. At one point I even muttered "come shadowfax, show us the meaning of haste" as I seamlessly loaded and unloaded my prepared self 😆 you guys are incredible, feel proud guys you're achieving so much ❤️

Lara

Yes! Yes we want Ellie’s recordings! Gives us the precious!!!

Shari

The respect and admiration I have for you two is off the charts 🥰 Love getting little bits of behind the scenes info!

Smut in Your Cup

You guys are adorable. 🩶 You've got me rooting for a relationship of two people I don't even know. The cuteness level is off the charts.

moxierose

I loved this. I laughed so bad! Really appreciate this kind of dynamic!

MilaHarrogate00

You guys are so cute. You can hear how much love there is between you. Thank you for sharing! 💛💛

Emma-Lou

This was awesome! You guys are a riot together. And yes please to hearing Ellie’s audios on Patreon!!

audio.owl

Every time Ellie giggles, I have to giggle .. it is so infectious💜. I love it.

Kitty

Just when I think I can’t love you guys more… thank you so much! 🧡

Ataraxia

NOT THE CHRISTIAN MINGLE 😆😆😆

Kae

Than you,‘for being willing to share with us.

Paige

YAY MY PARENTS 😭🫶🏼

Marielle

Excited to listen to this one 😀

Rheanne Broderick


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