Quick synopsis for number hunters.
-7 peak for the kick, after slowly put up all volume on feeling. After you are done in the tiny loop of the main "drop/verse" put up a limiter and see if you can hit around -8lufs integrated without distorting the limiter of your (FULL) production. If you can't double check why via an EQ. Replace the thing that is causing distortion and double check your reference again.
Once this loop is alright (janitor) get creative and keep going via feeling