#162 Uncut Video w/ Kendall Farrell

This episode was fucking epic

Everyday im like "Is it the 23rd yet"?

I had my first (and only threesome) in the mid-80s (pre-kids) with my then-wife's ex-bf and her. I'm very clueless (was AND still) but she was eager, and I'd heard all the stories about the "excessive dimensions of his endowment." We get back to the hotel room. Things get interesting. She gives him a BJ which I can't really see anything other than the back of her head. She then mounts me and just grinds for a while. He gets uncomfortable, and leaves. You don't think it means anything, that the first thing I asked after he left was "why didn't you pull me in to help, or at least shared the result with me?" Still an old (divorced) man who wishes he had taken one of the exit ramps along the way and explored the things that I now know I should have discovered. The fact that afterwards your instinct was to talk to Main main/Main babe/Jen about it means that your relationship with Jen is the right one for you now. Enjoy it. Some of us hope we might find it at some point

Michael Mauger

Can’t wait for the special and for Kendall to come back on the pod!! One of my favs for sure✨

Yeah, and that's a little different. It's one thing to understand that your kid might have a harder time going through life because of something, but it's completely different to think you personally have the right to mourn the version of your kid's life you wanted them to have. That honestly defeats the point of having children.. They're not meant for us to project our wishes and desires onto. Our job is to teach them about the world and about life to the best of our abilities and let them figure out what their place in it will be. Maybe it shouldn't bother me this much, but I have a daughter now, and it means so much more to me to just let her discover herself and be there to make sure she's happy and thriving, however that feels to her.

When I was like 10 or 11 I had asked my mom straight up if she would care if I was gay, purely out of naive curiosity rather than any sort of coming out. (IIRC we had just learned about the concept of homosexuality in school in some way. My memory is a bit vague on that front. This was the mid 90's). My mom told me she would always love me the same no matter what, but that she hoped I wasn't gay becaus life is hard enough as it is without taking on all that. From that and other conversations I've had with people since growing up I feel that sentiment is often a big part of parents less than enthusiastic reactions to their children's coming. At least for those for whom it isn't pure bigotry, religiously inspired or not.

Maybe, maybe not

I'm just imagining the Sunday Sqool set up filled with ''Ashleys Face'' chairs. ...That would loosen the audience up. It would be ICONIC and also such a good icebreaker for context that there would be nowhere to go but forward, into the wonderful chaos of ans Ashley Gavin comedy show.

Yes. Big crush time for me :D

Oh my goodness this episode blew my mind. Soooo good. And loved how vulnerable Ashley was!

Omg yes this! Hes adorable, hilarious and brilliant! I wholeheartedly second this motion!

This might be my favourite episode of all time 💕

Samara Davis

What i’m hearing is it’s okay to have a crush on Ashley. Haha just kidding this was a great episode!

Don't know why I didn't think of this earlier but y'all should get Josh Thomas on the pod. Australian comedian/actor/writer.

Mediocore

I said this on the YHGS ep with Kendall, but his hair!!! It's stunning!

Madelynne Herbertson

I am SO ready for the special....so so so ready!!!!!

Emma Dolan

As a someone with birthwork training/certification, Ashley brought up something interesting to me. It's so interesting to think that parents have a right to dream of their child's life and then to be disappointed by anything that doesn't go "their" way. I've been taught to help parents grieve their pregnancies or infants when they learn that there's a disability (physical or mental) present. To think that someone would feel the same way if they learned their child was a different gender or expressed a different sexuality than what they hoped is kinda ridiculous.