I’ve been with a total of 1 woman my entire life. Not a joke, one. No wonder she married me! I’m about 6-3/4” long, but she never complained! Now I know why! Further, she really only gets off with vaginal sex. No wonder, at age 70 she is a little disappointed that I have issues with ED. I have talked about toys, manual, etc., but she really wants just vaginal sex.
I want to play with other methods, most involving my tongue, but she has little patience for this. She won’t allow her body to get amped up that way. At this point, I simply cannot keep it up long enough to satisfy her!
What are my options?
Photoguy77
2025-10-29 22:44:41 +0000 UTC
As the saying goes, to each their own. And one thing I've noticed in her videos is that the coach always acknowledges those who still want to increase size & girth after being shown techniques to satisfy a woman nom matter your size & shape.
Grouchy Vince
2025-10-27 20:04:03 +0000 UTC
This is such an important topic. I came of age thinking that I was normal size. Sure there was talk about John Holmes, Long Dong Silver, and a few other names, but you never thought that most men were in that category. Just a few freaks. What I do know is the Caitlin is right about this. Technique, presence, seduction, communication, angle, duration, etc is much more important.
I have also used the Bathmate for over 5 years. I like the one with the hand ball. It’s a good exerciser for the P and it does add some girth and length. You have to be very patient, persistent, and not try to overdo it. I would say it’s marathon, not sprint, but maybe even more like a never ending walk. Now I use the pump with a guage. My biggest gain tho came from losing 40 lbs. That took over 9 months. So, lose weight, exercise, pump (slowly), don’t over do the pressure, and carefully listen to Caitlin’s advice (all of it). Your next pussy will love you for it.
DavidD
2025-10-27 19:13:24 +0000 UTC
Thank you for sharing your story!
Lovely Dutta
2025-10-27 13:45:51 +0000 UTC
Thanks so much!
Lovely Dutta
2025-10-27 13:45:31 +0000 UTC
Thank you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-10-27 13:45:04 +0000 UTC
Great topic . A very sensitive one also being on the spectrum of being larger than average can be a challenging. I believe that it is always a great idea to be greatful. I have found it can be a tricky situation . I actually had a couple of girlfriends breakup with me because my girth was to much. It wasnt a situation that they really got hurt , but even after a great amount of foreplay and proper prep it was just to uncomfortable and I actually was a bit devastated by one of the ladies , because I felt a great connection. Its funny though . I have found that there is no average size of vagina . Some are super stretchable and deeper, but a lot are not as stretchable and more shallow and in some situations even an average guy might need to be careful. My greatest attribute though will always be my brain, because it helps me to decern what is going to be the best way to help my lover to be held with a safe reverence and know what she really desires abundantly and how she wants to be seen and pleasured. Such an amazing journey. I am proud of you Caitlin V keep up the great work 😍
Raymond
2025-10-26 18:53:20 +0000 UTC
Wow! This is the best information on penis size. I wish this video was around when I was in my twenties. This information was clear and to the point.
John&Laurie
2025-10-25 10:53:52 +0000 UTC
then there’s those of us who are smaller than average (length and girth). i know you aren’t saying we need to use a penis pump. but, it kind of sounds like it. and for sure there’s plenty we can do to help our partners have a good time. but, there’s still just the one thing that they might have experienced in the past, with others, that monogamy will prevent them from experiencing again. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
noah
2025-10-24 21:05:35 +0000 UTC
I think you re-arranged or bruised a lot of ego/psyche with this one ... but in a good way.