Alright, guys, let’s be real for a second! 👀🍆
Added 2025-09-22 14:28:12 +0000 UTCComments
I believe all if the above. Trying not to be distracted, hoping its not over too soon, and also trying to make her as satisfied all possible 😀
g battle
2025-09-28 05:24:47 +0000 UTCFriendly Fire I’ve seen warzones stained with sand, Felt the weight of a rifle in my hand. Somalia’s heat, the chaos, the fear, But at least I knew the enemy there. Incoming fire was part of the game, It wasn’t personal, just part of the name. The danger was clear, the lines were drawn, Survive the night, make it to dawn. But this? This came from the side I held close, From the one I trusted, the one I chose. No foreign threat, no distant attack, This was betrayal that stabbed my back. It wasn’t a wound from an AK’s round, It was lies whispered soft, no warning sound. A private ambush behind my walls, A home invasion that didn’t need halls. I’ve been shot before, I’ve seen men fall, But nothing compares to this kind of call. This was close range, intimate fire, Ignited by comfort, cloaked in desire. Friendly fire leaves a deeper scar, It breaks you in ways that carry far. There’s no combat patch for this kind of pain, No medal for nights reliving the stain. This wasn’t a war I signed up to fight, This was my life. This was my right. And you, the one who should’ve had my six, Pulled the trigger and doubled the fix. Now I’m left patching wounds unseen, Bleeding inside where no one can glean. A casualty not of foreign lands, But of love betrayed by familiar hands.
Snooze
2025-09-26 19:28:45 +0000 UTCFor me, erection issues aren’t about age or performance. They’re about trauma and betrayal. I’m a combat veteran with a traumatic brain injury, PTSD, childhood sexual abuse, and military sexual trauma in my past. Even with all of that, I was working hard to love my wife well studying ways to please her, trying to feel safe in my own body again. Then I found out she was unfaithful after 30 years. She lied repeatedly, and put me at risk, he recorded their encounter without her knowledge or consent. That discovery destroyed the fragile sense of safety I’d spent decades trying to build. So when people talk about performance anxiety or losing confidence, for me it’s not just in my head it’s the wreckage left after deep betrayal layered on top of lifelong trauma. Healing now isn’t about “just relax.” It’s about rebuilding trust in my own body and in the idea that intimacy can be safe.
Snooze
2025-09-26 19:24:08 +0000 UTCAll of the above in my case. I get in my head all the time and then everything starts to unravel. I start overthinking the timing of bringing her to orgasm - there are many times when she reaches orgasm and by then my pleasure ticker is gone and I’m done. I make bringing my wife to orgasm a goal and that makes everything worse.
Shaun Srivastava
2025-09-25 13:33:02 +0000 UTCAs I got older, erection quality started to take a toll. To the point of, if I was with a new woman, it was 50-50 whether I was going to get hard or not. Once that is in your head, it's about impossible to not think about. Part of it was a natural result of aging but a lot was mental. But I still couldn't get past this until I discovered trimix. Trimix is a prescription injeectable ED medicine that keeps you hard for a couple of hours, even through ejaculation. That changed everything. Now I could last as long as needed and be available for a second and sometimes third round.
Jadeyr
2025-09-25 05:37:18 +0000 UTCIt comes with time, yes!
Lovely Dutta
2025-09-24 15:42:54 +0000 UTCThanks for sharing with us!
Lovely Dutta
2025-09-24 15:42:42 +0000 UTCAgreed.
Lovely Dutta
2025-09-24 15:42:28 +0000 UTCThat makes so much sense!
Lovely Dutta
2025-09-24 15:42:20 +0000 UTCThanks for sharing Vince!
Lovely Dutta
2025-09-24 15:42:06 +0000 UTCBalancing focus is a perishable skill that takes constant practice. By this I mean maintaining the right level of focus on her pleasure, what she is responding to, where she is in her sexual response curve, while simultaneously keeping track of my pleasure and where I am in my sexual response curve; it's the most thrilling puzzle that I know, and Heaven knows I love it. Timing both giving and receiving together to meet the needs of the moment: Very rarely is it "perfect," though it is never bad. :) Still, I am always striving for better balance and timing. I love a partner who can strive with me, giving and receiving to build an experience together. It's a dance; you can't do it alone.
Eli Israel
2025-09-23 23:34:20 +0000 UTCI have become numb to what I used to enjoy. This was caused by my profession. It serves me well, in emergencies. But effects things I used to enjoy. Plus, I have a lot of stress in my life. I meditate to mitigate, but that only goes so far.
Thomas Neely
2025-09-23 20:48:58 +0000 UTCHoneymoon rhinitis sucks. Doesn't happen every time, but it does happen.
Jesse Brunner
2025-09-23 02:19:49 +0000 UTCStruggling to last as long. She'd get to the point of enjoying and then I'd have to switch something else with penetration or bust a nut right there and lose most of the momentum.
Feisty_Achievement
2025-09-23 01:04:17 +0000 UTCA cascade effect: I would over think, which would lead to losing confidence and then lose confidence under pressure (caused by me). Both women I was with (separately) were amazingly patient and more than happy to either take a breather or take the lead. Of course, by the time I figured out how to relax, no new relationships on the horizon. Ehh, such is life.
Grouchy Vince
2025-09-23 00:54:24 +0000 UTC
