Bonus Video - Fighting Fair: What I’ve Learned from Couples Therapy
Added 2025-09-01 17:00:08 +0000 UTC
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Very well said! 💜
Lovely Dutta
2025-09-04 14:33:56 +0000 UTC
Right away this video makes me think of the gottman's saying 80% of conflict has no resolution. There is so much that people dont agree upon. We often have a compromise. I know lots of guys who just won't settle and are single because they want it there way. Great for them in knowing and telling that to women so they dont get into relationships with them for very long. They just are not ready to give up "doing it my way" I love this video. My in-laws have been married 3 years and watching football Saturday they were both bickering about little things. I told them it will only get worse if you dont settle your feelings and talk about it together. Glad you are growing with us coach!!!
Chad G
2025-09-03 17:52:41 +0000 UTC
Good on ya, Coach! As the old joke goes, the father tells the newlywed son that when it comes to arguments/fighting, you can either be right or you can be happy. 🙃😉
Grouchy Vince
2025-09-03 03:19:12 +0000 UTC
Just re-watched this video and I have to say, this is one I wish I learned a lot earlier in life. Also a moment where I wish my partner was on Patreon so that I could share it with him lol
I'm personally so proud of where I've gotten to with this one. While I still have plenty of fight in me (it was a subject of many jokes with friends over labor day weekend) I choose when to deploy it.
"Give up your right to be right, even when you're right" is solid gold for getting things done. It's less about waving a white flag and more about getting somewhere constructive. Hope it was helpful to you!!