"How do I actually know if I'm good in bed?"
Added 2025-07-16 15:10:42 +0000 UTCThis is the question I hear all the time from men.
And honestly?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer.
It’s not just about stamina or skill , it’s about presence, attention, and how your partner feels with you.
Still, it’s such a loaded word: good.
So let’s unpack it a little.
👉 What does “being good in bed” mean to you?
Like... if you had to define it for yourself , not what porn says, not what TikTok says - what would you say actually matters?
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Honestly, it's not something I give much thought anymore. The wife and I have been together for 19 years. We had both been in some toxic relationships previously, so when we got together we agreed we would talk about anything openly and from a place of love and respect. So when she gives me rave reviews, I have to believe her.
Russ
2025-07-21 14:50:06 +0000 UTCThat's right! Well said.
Lovely Dutta
2025-07-18 15:25:53 +0000 UTCWith my limited experience (and somewhat unusual circumstances), I'd say if she is more than willing to do it again....as I would almost literally be thumped on the head and told, "I want you again, you nut!" I attributed it to hope that I would "get better" beyond just raw passion. Well, we are all our own worst critics.
Grouchy Vince
2025-07-17 23:50:37 +0000 UTC
