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Setting up Instagram systems is crucial to success on the platform. Fortunately, it's a fairly straightforward process that involves optimizing your profile and selecting the right pictures. Contrary to popular belief, having a massive following is not necessary to achieve success. With the right system, you can attract hundreds of followers within minutes.

Once your profile is set up and you have some great pictures, you can use the system to connect with attractive women in your area. The beauty of Instagram is that you don't even need to match with them first, you can message them directly. With the right profile and system, along with solid texting skills, you can convert many of these women into dates and romantic partners.

Instagram is also useful for networking, even in the business world. Unlike other dating apps like Tinder and Bumble, Instagram is your own personal brand. By showcasing your lifestyle and projecting a high-status image, you can make valuable connections with other men in your area and around the world.

The first step in creating a successful Instagram profile is setting it up properly. While Instagram is moving towards video content, posting great pictures is still crucial. You can also supplement your content with lifestyle reels videos.

You don't necessarily need a professional photographer to take pictures for you all the time. If you're good at taking pictures with your iPhone camera, that's great. However, if you're starting your profile from scratch, it's highly recommended to hire a photographer to make the process easier, save time, and ensure that you actually follow through. Hiring a photographer can be especially beneficial if you tend to procrastinate.

To find a good photographer in your area, start by looking for recommendations through word of mouth or by searching on Instagram, Google, Craigslist, and other platforms. In a big city, you'll likely find dozens of options to choose from.

When it comes to selecting pictures for your Instagram profile, it's important to choose images that showcase your best self. Aim to have at least 6 good pictures of yourself that are taken in cool locations with interesting backgrounds.

To determine if a picture is suitable for your profile, ask yourself whether a woman could envision standing next to you in that location and whether the picture showcases the lifestyle or world you can offer her.

Avoid posting weird selfies in front of your mirror. Instead, share pictures of yourself in interesting places around your city, dressed well and demonstrating that you enjoy traveling and going to nice locations. Images of you wearing suits are great because they convey professionalism and are internationally aesthetic. You can also post pictures of yourself engaging in cool activities, such as playing chess, gambling, shooting guns, or swimming in a unique pool.

On Instagram, women typically attract attention with their bodies and looks, while men tend to garner attention with their lifestyle and status. This doesn't mean that you need to be wealthy and have pictures with Lamborghinis and private jets on your profile. However, it's important to showcase a cool lifestyle that demonstrates you're an interesting and social guy. You can do this by sharing pictures that display social proof, preselection, fun activities, and travel experiences.

When you take pictures, make sure to do so in interesting locations and tag yourself when you post them. Remember that perception is reality on Instagram, so whatever you convey, people will think is true. This isn't a platform to be humble - it's an opportunity to show off and display the best parts of your lifestyle. The goal is to build attraction, not comfort, so make sure to look sharp and bring your A-game.

Other Key Components to Include in Your Instagram Profile

Having a minimum number of followers is important, but don't stress about having a massive following. In my programs, I provide techniques that can help you gain hundreds of followers in just minutes without wasting time.

When it comes to your username, it's best to stick to your actual name and avoid using weird numbers or punctuation. For example, if your name is John Smith, your username should be @johnsmith

In addition to posting great pictures, you also need to have a well-written bio that highlights your interesting and unique qualities. Instead of simply stating that you're an entrepreneur, be specific and mention the type of business you run or provide a link to it. If you love traveling, mention the number of countries you've visited so far.

Lastly, your profile should have good highlights and stories. These can be used to share cool moments from your daily life, funny memes, and inspiring quotes.

After setting up a great profile, the next step is to attract and DM women in your city. There are various methods for funneling women into your profile, and one way is by using Instagram itself. Instagram is a powerful search engine that allows you to find thousands or even millions of women in your city or worldwide. Simply search for locations in your city and find women who have tagged themselves there, and then DM the ones you find interesting. Once you find one woman, Instagram will suggest dozens of others in your city who are related to her. There are also hidden Instagram functions that very few men are aware of, and I explain them in detail in my programs.

In addition to Instagram, you can also find plenty of women in your city on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble. Women often include their Instagram handles in their profile bios, so instead of waiting to match with them, you can directly DM them on Instagram.

While travelling to new cities Instagram profiles from dating apps should be a last resort if you're having trouble finding women.

Another way to find women is through cold-approach. If you approach a woman you're interested in, ask for her Instagram handle instead of her phone number. It requires less compliance since it's already public, and most women will give it to you even if they're not interested.

Once you have their handle, use Instagram as a follow-up tool to continue the interaction. Your Instagram profile will do most of the talking for you and demonstrate high value, showing that you are a man of action rather than just words.

After setting up a good profile and finding potential matches, it's essential to engage in conversations that can lead to dates. This requires finesse and a combination of art and science. However, the good news is that you can learn this skill with practice and guidance. With the right communication and psychological principles, you can convert any interested woman into a successful meetup. As an expert in messaging women, I have developed a messaging system that guarantees a closed deal within minutes. Unlike the sleazy lines often found on YouTube or Tik Tok, my system is built on solid principles that I teach in my mentoring programs. With my guidance, you'll become an expert in messaging women online.

Make your attention valuable

Women seek attention and validation more than sex, and as a result, giving away attention and validation freely diminishes their value. You must be efficient with your time and aim for progression towards the end goal of sex.

Women receive validation from guys who like their pictures, direct message them with compliments, and pay for their stuff. You need to differentiate yourself by not giving unnecessary attention. Avoid liking her pictures, following her, watching and replying to her stories, and anything else that suggests you're a fan. Treating her like a celebrity will only make her treat you like a fan. Instead, message her directly and get to the point while being concise.

Keep Your Interest Level Hidden at First

It's important to not reveal your level of interest to a woman right away. If you do, she'll feel like she already has your validation, which gives her an advantage. Instead, make her work for your attention.

Don't give her compliments right off the bat, like "You're beautiful." This is likely to elicit a "I know" response, which is a test of your confidence.

It's best to maintain an air of unpredictability with women. Don't give away too much information about yourself or your feelings too soon.

Avoid Double Texting at All Costs

Sending a second message after she hasn't responded to the

first one is a risky move that often leads to double ghosting.

Don't make that mistake. If she doesn't respond, give her at

least a day to reply. If she doesn't get back to you after that,

it's usually a sign that she's not interested.

Remember, your value will plummet if you double text her.

You'll come off as desperate and needy, which is not

attractive. So avoid double texting at all costs.

Use Emojis Sparingly and Strategically

Emojis are powerful tools for conveying emotions, and women tend to be more emotional than men. However, you shouldn't use too many emojis, as it can make you look childish or feminine.

To maintain a masculine frame, limit your use of emojis to a maximum of two or three per conversation, or even none at all. Let her use as many emojis as she wants, and respond with concise and straightforward messages. This will show that you value your time and don't need to rely on emojis to express yourself. Use emojis properly:

Be sarcastic

Challenge her

Trigger Emotions (Positive or negative)

Polarize the conversation

Avoid using abbreviations in your messages. Writing "sup, u aight?" or "r u here?" might make you sound immature or uneducated. Using proper grammar and spelling will make you appear more sophisticated and high-value to women.

Let's discuss what to text women. To begin with, don't stress over the first text. It should be something low-investment. As Dale Carnegie once said, mentioning a person's name is the most beautiful and relevant thing they can hear, so catch their attention and increase their liking by mentioning their name multiple times during the interaction.

I completely agree with this quote, and that's how I text women. Whenever I text them, I use their name. You should also mention the woman's name frequently.

Now, do you want to know what my "opener" is? It's simply her name.

To start a conversation, simply mention the woman's name in your first text. For example, if her name is Polina, just send "Polina." Don't overthink the opener, as it should be low investment. After she replies, ask if she's in your city, such as "Tallinn?" if you're currently in Tallinn or "Paris?" if you're in Paris. If you live in New York, ask "New York?" The reason for this question is to avoid wasting your time texting women who are far away. This low investment question also makes her invest a little. Focus on texting women who live in your city and whom you can meet soon. Don't waste your time and energy texting women from other countries or cities. Value your time and attention by focusing on females close to you.

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How to curate the perfect environment to allow for it to game for you:

The environment causes all sorts of distractions for everyone. If you can experience something with a women like when they blow co2 into the air, you can say did you make it cold in here? This even done poorly will inevitably pump her state because even if she doesn’t hear you she felt the cold air

Do you see where I am going with this ?

It takes a lot of pressure off yourself and her for an interaction to go well

Combining this with having a good table area or section as well as social proof, preselection, and status is a WMD.

And to top it all off you should be using instagram stories feature to fomo anyone not in attendance. Using ig stories to film girls as the literal OPENER is the best opener in this sort of environment. You can even have them pick a filter and then tag themselves for bonus points

Now if you fail to pull anyone due to any sort of bad logistics, you can message them the next day via ig. Make sure they follow you from their phone for the optimal results. Either way you now have your foot in the door.

While the faggy PUAS couldn’t even get in the venue and are direct opening 5s on the sidewalk, you now have a litany of girls from just one night.

Now you are probably asking yourself how do you get into this position. The only answer is you must provide value to what I refer to as “table buyers”

The best way at first is to bring women with you. They should ideally be found at similar venues already on previous nights out. They way I did it was visiting the clubs sister restaurant during their lady’s nights. They hire atmosphere girls or models to sit around with the owners and promoters. They usually double as bottle girls, depending on the city

Start talking with the owners. Ask around. I “hand of Goded’ one of the owners over. Spotted him a mile away in his Gucci tracksuit and waved him over. By this point I was frustrated he seemingly had all the hot women. The only way to get on his good side was bringing ones he hadn’t met before

I did this on my first night out. Invited 2, each brought a friend and I “chained gamed” girls which was just connecting groups of girls with other groups of girls

We ended up with a total of 15 and the owner asked me to bring them to his table. We had met 4 other guys so I told him it was just too hard to move so many people over at the time

Do you see how this story stands out ? You never know what people remember. I caused a scene. You need to be causing scenes everywhere you go. Doesn’t mean being a douchebag who breaks shit and stuff. It means being outgoing and gregarious

Become a connector, become a person people want to be around, and become a person of value and substance as this opens more doors than any "opener" ever could