I am a big ball of feelings but our first post-vax Slumber Party was a HUGE success!
I have HUNDREDS of photos and stories and cute moments to share with you over the next few weeks, but I had to start with this one, possibly my personal favourite shot of the night:
Kitten getting pampered - Sapphic Slumber Party #7 (September 2021)
2021-09-20 14:24:16 +0000 UTC View Post
Thank you for your good vibes, support, and well wishes. Ms.O and I are settled in and all set up, awaiting our guests. There’s magic in the air. It’s so good to be back.
Missives from the front lines with the Babe Brigade will be slow this weekend, but prepare yourself for the DAILY uploads of fancy party pics starting on Monday.
Hope your weekend has a little bit of magic too, light a candle with us tomorrow at midnight (EST) to be with us in spirit.
Xo
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2021-09-17 22:23:25 +0000 UTC View Post
Some behind the scenes peeks at party prep this week: the top photo is of the cute bath bombs I had personalized for the loot bags. I found a Canadian company that makes these organic rose petal bath bombs and spoiling my babes was the perfect excuse to make a custom order! Your Patreon pledges, and any tips in our tip jar, help me spoil the Coven with self-care treats like this. So thank you.
Tonight is ONE...
2021-09-12 02:57:11 +0000 UTC View Post
What do you do the first day school is back after a long ass pandemic lockdown with your kids?
Smoke joints naked in your greenhouse, that’s what.
I’ve gotta find ways to get back to myself, block out the noise.
2021-09-10 02:41:31 +0000 UTC
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My tattoo artist is in her 20’s and she’s engaged to a man. As someone who works in mental health and recently ended a long-term marriage she asked what advice I would give to her. Here it is: Don’t parent your partner.
That sounds obvious, but in reality our culture has a pretty warped/outdated view of what a healthy relationship looks like, and things like telling your partner what to do, making rules, punishments, feeling like you’re responsible for their ba...
2021-09-07 03:04:44 +0000 UTC View Post
Today was my day off, but it was exhausting. I try to squeeze out some relaxation and process it all. I smoke mad weed and listen to Lana’s “Blue Banisters” on repeat. I soak up the sun and the breeze off the lake. I feign stillness. Maybe another day.
(Here’s my moment of zen, and a reminder I painted for anyone who needs it. More slumber party plans and missives from the front lines of life transitions coming later this week. 💕)
2021-09-06 03:43:48 +0000 UTC
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Thanks for your support Patrons! Just a reminder that in a few weeks this space will be flooded with photos and Instax from this exceptional event. 🙌
With the Sapphic Slumber Party coming up I wanted to share some behind the scenes details. Here are some peeks at the invitation guests receive when they RSVP.
The digital invitations are strewn with images f...
2021-09-02 04:42:48 +0000 UTC View Post
My lover is working all weekend. Long heavy shifts. She comes back to her nest only to sleep. I languish here in her space, smelling her on her pillows, wearing her hoodie, using her shampoo. So close.
It’s my weekend off. I rest and recouperate. I smoke in my undies on the balcony. I binge watch The Chair and scoff at the latest episode of L-Word. (Why is poly representation always bad?)
I’ve been thinking about my birthday, I’ve been thinking of cutting my hair, I’ve b...
2021-08-30 02:03:44 +0000 UTC View Post
In spite of this happening 6 years ago I still think of it often, it’s on the highlight reel I revisit when I’m in the mood, mostly when I’m ovulating. I haven’t spoken to Rumi since my almost-ex-husband and I separated, but I’ve wondered how he’s been lately. Is it a bad idea? It’s wild to me how my biggest desire at that time was to be fucked by two giant men at once, whereas now the idea of ever letting a man touch me feels uncomfortable. I know it could shift again one d...
2021-08-27 22:50:26 +0000 UTC View Post
First things first: congratulations to Lexie, Malika and Emily’s fiancé! Who all won a cute fruity suit from Lucky Little Queer. 🫐🍊🍋❤️
A warning that the next couple weeks will be a bit quieter around here as I soak up the last days of summer with my kiddos and sink my spare time into party prep! BUT the pay off will be that in a few weeks I’ll have an ENTIRE WEEKEND’S WORTH of saucy and sweet slumber party pics!!!
Are you trying to squeeze anything into summe...
2021-08-26 23:10:14 +0000 UTC View Post
I had a dream last night about the slumber party… that butterflies in my tummy feeling, the excitement, the logistics.
We throw these events in a decadent macabre mansion. The owner is a local baddie, and I’m glad we can support her during this pandemic-recovery phase. My plan is to spoil my coven rotten.
I can’t wait to be in a candle lit room listening to giggles and smacks, wondering who that is in the bed, under all of those babes, getting all of that attention….. 2021-08-23 14:47:32 +0000 UTC View Post
I cried for 6 hours straight today. Sobbing, heaving, ugly crying. I cried more in one day than I have since the pandemic started and my life pulled apart.
It happens like that sometimes, when you have to be strong especially. When it’s your job to set the tone and help everyone through. But I was alone at Max’s place and it all came out.
And it hurts.
It has to hurt.
Growing pains and teething pains for the new life cutting through. I know that in my heart, bu...
2021-08-22 05:57:14 +0000 UTC View Post
1. Today is the last day to enter to win a fruity swimsuit from Lucky Little Queer! And I’ve decided I should choose 2 winners, so hop on back and join the fun by commenting on the post titled “Alert 🍓”.
2. Today would have been my 22nd anniversary with my almost-ex-husband and I’m having feeeeeeeeelinggggggggs.
3. We’re going to hang out and make the kids watch one of our favourite nostal...
2021-08-21 22:26:45 +0000 UTC View PostI was texting with my friend Billie who just went through a break up. She’s getting all pent up from being single and she’s going to come to the slumber party next month!
I sent her the invite, which includes a bunch of photos from previous coven events. Please appreciate this exchange:
2021-08-21 05:02:42 +0000 UTC
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It’s too hot to sleep.
And too hot to do anything else either.
So here I am, naked and sweaty.
This tattoo (an extension of work I had done in 2019) was scheduled for April 2020. Clearly it was cancelled due to Covid, and it’s been rescheduled and cancelled again 5 times since…
But Monday was the day!
It’s an anemone, chrysanthemum, poppy, pansy, forget-me-nots and a four-leaf clover. (Previous bunch is a rose, marigold, cosmo, jonquil and Daisy… with a little b...
2021-08-18 01:25:20 +0000 UTC View Post“I’m gonna go lock up, and you’re gonna get into bed, and when I get back we’re gonna sit just like this, and I’m gonna take good care of you.”
I swallowed hard and listened well. When she came back she sat in bed, leaning against the headboard. I straddled her lap, just like we were sitting before.
She wrapped her arms around me and kissed me slowly. There’s something about this position that puts me in my place, curled up in her lap and under her control. We used...
2021-08-17 22:41:45 +0000 UTC View Post
New ink today, turning 40 soon, and I’m kinda feelin’ myself.
😳
(Thanks to my beloved Little Foot/PetitePersephone for the cute little outfit. Such a sweet surprise in the mail!)
2021-08-17 04:48:52 +0000 UTC View Post
“You’re so cool.”
Our first date was 2 years ago this weekend, so we celebrated. I’m exhausted and aching and I can’t stop smiling.
I’m gonna write some mushy things tomorrow, but for now I want to let this photo speak for itself.
Max and my toes: acts of service/worship/adoration/care. ❤️⚡️
2021-08-16 02:52:45 +0000 UTC View Post
I got a new swimsuit from a queer Canadian artist who just launched their own fruity line of environmentally conscious swimsuits!
I love them so much, and I wanted to spread some goodwill to another local queer babe; I’m going to pick one lucky Patron, and send you an LLQ swimsuit of your choice!
All you have to do is take a peek at the Lucky Little Queer’s shop and comment below letting me know wh...
2021-08-12 22:14:34 +0000 UTC View Post
I’ve missed these moments too.
(Aftercare snuggles with Ms.O, after her flogging.)
2021-08-11 13:44:19 +0000 UTC View Post
It was a pleasure flogging Ms.O, her cute little feet pointed, her eager encouragement.
I love tuning into what someone wants and giving it to them. It’s a different muscle if I’m topping or bottoming, but it’s the same desire.
That said, I’ve missed being sadistic and toppy so much. 😼
One of my hopes for the upcoming slumber party is that I’ll have a chance to build some more elaborate scenes where I get to toy with lovely masochists. With two nights we’ll ...
2021-08-10 14:38:57 +0000 UTC View Post
Ms.O flogging Beth was delightful to watch. The sun was streaming in, there were soft voices singing over the speaker, we had light refreshments and heavy conversation after all of the months apart.
The bare skin, the sounds of smacks and leather, the sensations and adrenaline surge… “oh my goodness remember?”
Our lives were like this. Regularly. Barely dressed babes and hedonistic revelry. Connections, face to face, skin to skin. And I’ve missed it.
2021-08-09 18:23:13 +0000 UTC View Post
The thing is I like to be played with.
Like a toy, a game, a doll.
Like I’m an experiment.
I want to feel like I’m your project, like I have all of your focus.
Attention and intention, hold me in your grip.
(Ms.O’s rapt attention making my ass progressively pinker.)
2021-08-07 23:51:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Hanging out naked with friends is a Goddess tier activity.
(Anna being an absolute babe lounging after we roughed her up a little, bonus points if you can spot the heart-shaped welt I left on her hip.)
2021-08-06 13:27:07 +0000 UTC View Post
You might not know this, but Ms.O is a wicked top.
Don’t let her sweet smile and soft beauty fool you.
She’s mean, and she’ll push you.
It’s almost a shock.
Her voice is a soft hum, almost a coo.
How confusing when her hands are being cruel.
She knows what she wants and you’ll give it to her. You’ll want to.
You’ll want all kinds of things and she’ll help you focus.
She’ll need you to focus, she’ll need your best behav...
2021-08-06 01:33:37 +0000 UTC View Post
Friends, we have missed the flogger. That’s the general consensus.
For those of you keeping score at home, this gorgeous HEAVY white leather flogger was a gift from Joie for New Years 2020. Our plan was to get plenty of use out of it that year! You know how that story went…
But now we are getting PLENTY of use out of it already. We gave it a workout last weekend!
Here’s Ms.O flexing her toppy side, much to our delight. Beth looked so sweet in the sunshine getting hit...
2021-08-05 01:45:44 +0000 UTC View Post
Anna had a request.
“Can you take off my dress?”
She’s been seeing someone new, someone toppy and sadistic, she’s been having so much fun. I knew she was bringing a note, a request written for me.
She was kneeling on the floor while O, Beth and I sat on the couch looking down at her. “I’d love to,” I replied, while lifting her little blue dress up and revealing the note, written across her chest in permanent marker. How fun.
Anna wanted some more marks...
2021-08-03 15:25:30 +0000 UTC View Post
I can’t even begin to tell you how much it made my heart sing to see a few of my favourite babes and smack each other around. The afternoon sun, Ms.O’s hospitality and eager little bums made for a perfect slow introduction to in-person revelry.
Ms.O giving Joie a spanking while she spies on the city below.
2021-08-02 18:57:48 +0000 UTC View Post
