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🌱 Out-takes and out-to-lunch 🪐

I’m so lucky to have my best friend Joie in my life. We vibrate on the same frequency. When we talk we ping-pong back and forth with verbal precision, noises and affirmations and secret short-hand references speed us through what takes most people all kinds of time to convey. It’s skillful.

We both live a sensory-based existence, we make giant mugs of tea and reheat them several times, we slip between French and english to highlight certain nuances, we like loud and bold and bright...

Instax Packs Are Back!

I am so excited to share that the slumber party invite has been sent out. (If you’re a sapphic babe who wants to join us please send me a message!)

Once again we’re offering Instax Packs for folks who want to support our girl gang aspirations.

$15 will buy us a roll of Instax film to capture memories, and we’ll send you 3 one-of-a-kind photos from the event with a hand written love note. It’s good kinky karma, plus who doesn’t need more saucy sapphic l...

With excitement…

I have two COUNT THEM TWO small social events this weekend.

One is music related, and the other is coven and kink related.

I’m eager to make joyful noises with friends. I want to sweat and dance. I want to bring my flogger out of hiding. I want to leave some bruises. I want to flex my freedoms.

Framing

I was married to a man who liked bare walls. Simple. Not any more. I’ve been framing all my favourite pieces. Things people have made me, photos I’ve taken, gay art I’ve collected over the years. These are all the pieces for my bedroom. It’s going to be Too Much™ and I’m pretty happy about that.

I recently saw “If I’m too much go find less” spray painted onto a highway overpass and it’s become a personal rallying cry. What a good re-frame for such a common complaint...

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So what do I do with all of my old circus-school uniforms?

They’re too casual for a sex party. Unless it’s a casual sex party? I don’t really know what that is. But we should have one maybe.

Or maybe a circus themed sex party. But in that case I would wanna come as a ring-leader and make Max be my lion. Wait hold on we should do that…..

Balcony Baby has Good News

Here are some fun hot vax summer shots I took on Joie’s balcony, along with a little bit of good news.

Friends and Patrons; I am pleased to announce that in less than 2 weeks we will be having our first Coven event in over a year. The babes are double vaxed and ready to let loose. I can not WAIT to see everyone, get weird, and celebrate together.

This means NEW SAUCY FUN COVEN PHOTOS WILL BE COMING IN AUGUST!!!!

🙌💕📸🙏✨🍑

I want to t...

Making Moves and 7 Things 🌱

1. It’s moving weekend for Max! We’re in the sticks at her old place packing up (the dog came with us for one last big backyard bonanza). Then the moving trucks come and we unpack in the new place. Next week she’ll be local!

2. This means it’s our last time having the big empty basement with plush carpet to wrestle on…. So I brought several cute wrestling outfits.

3. Visiting with Kitten was GLORIOUS! She looks so beautiful and just hearing her voice and seeing her smi...

This is so exciting I can hardly breathe.

*barring world demise

(And yes. You read that right. An entire WEEKEND!!! 🙌)

Switching

Some playful shots of Ms.O and I switching up who’s in charge.

June 2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1

Requiem for a late night text…

You ever know your heart is gonna be crushed but you go ahead anyway? What kind of foolishness causes that dopey decision to let it seep in and seem like a good idea?

I want it. Even though I know it’ll bite. Even though I know I’ll bleed. Some things are worth the wounds.

I say that now, but I’ll be whining over them, licking them and cursing my brazen moves. My stupid hopeless heart. My wayward cunt.

Pray for me.

*hits send*

New View Who Dis?

Last night was our first night in Max’s new place. We brought an air mattress and she bought a nice bottle of champagne and we celebrated new beginnings.

Today the sun was shining and we spent the day exploring her very cool new neighbourhood. We found a park with strap on art, a super cool interactive drum machine installation, and when we sat on the patio (which is finally open ...

Voyeur

I love this voyeuristic shot of O, Kitten, and I at the very first Sapphic Slumber Party. I love her happy face when she’s getting what she wants. (I’m gonna see my kitty girl today for the first time since the Before Times! I can hardly wait to squeeze her!!!)

June 2017 - Sapphic Slumber Party #1

New Vibes/Old Finds

I’ve spent the entire day building new dressers and rearranging my room. And then I spent 5 hours going through my clothes and lingerie. I found some gems! Including these very fancy panties, and this cute little mirror from Kitten.

I also found some photos NymphoNinjas took of Ms.O and I years ago, I’ll be posting those here tomorrow morning to start your New Moon off with the right energy.

Sunday

I’m alone this weekend. How rare. The kids are with their dad and Max is working. Time to think.

I keep just carrying around this book I’m “reading”. But I’m not reading it. It’s hard to focus these days. I try.

I had my 2nd vaccine this week, one step closer to orgies and kisses and catching up.

I’ve continued reclaiming little spaces in my house, bit by bit. My favourite shelves are my witchy apothecary things.

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Long Term

I wrote this almost a decade ago. Although I’m no longer married to the person I was with when I tried to articulate how ethical non-monogamy felt to me, I still stand by this explanation. I was wincing at first while reading it, prepared to eat my own words or roll my eyes at my younger less jaded self, but instead it warmed my heart. These things were true about my relationship at the time, and that’s why it was working.

One of the things that attracted m...