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Conversation with a Patron: Meet Felix

I love when when of you guys come to visit!

Today, I sit with one my awesome Patrons, Felix. We discuss spiritual work, the importance of community, and finding joy on the path.

If any of you are ever near DC, please come hang out and have a cup of tea with me!

All my love, Kaelan :)

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The Spiritual Practice of Kindness

Hey gang!

For everyone who couldn't make the class on Thursday night, here's the recording.

Blessings and love to all!

Namaste, Kae

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Patron Special Request: A workshop about sexuality and spirituality | Sacred Eros

Hey guys!

Well, one of you asked if I could host a workshop about the mingling of spirituality and sexuality... and so I have listened!

November 8-9th in Washington DC...we are making this happen.

As Patrons, you guys are getting first look. I anticipate this will sell out within a few days...so I want to give you first crack at it.

If anyone wants to attend, but needs a different price, don't hesitate to let me know, because I want this to be financially accessible to...

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Group class this Thursday, 8pm ET: Kindness as a Spiritual Practice

Hey guys!

I hope to see you on Zoom this Thursday at 8pm ET. Our topic is something that is often overlooked on the spiritual path: kindness. It's such a simple thing, but it pays such dividends.

I hope to see you there!

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84128140347?pwd=iISfAqKaRwFbJj1RIUcXA55oECFZOC.1

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Patron Livestream

Learning to go with the flow and invest in your dreams :)

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NSFW Link for August

Hello, my beautiful Patrons!

Here's your NSFW link for August. I hope you enjoy! Thank you for all your love and support.

Kaelan ❤️

https://onlyfans.com/thebigom/trial/rnmsi9ytyzy54vgnomnatbkqaacfmiy0

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Upcoming Temple Gatherings + Your Patron Discount

Dear Patrons!

Since our very first Gongs, Meditation & Cacao evening sold out in just a few days, I’ve opened two more dates for this candle-lit journey of cacao, guided meditation, and immersive sound:

📅 Friday, Sept 13

📅 Fri...

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Upcoming events and Patron Discount

Hey gang!

I am looking at hosting some upcoming events in our home. I am looking at doing more meditation/cacao/sound baths, but I am also looking at hosting 1-2 day workshops/urban retreats.

As patrons, your opinion matters a great deal to me! What topics would you like to see me focus on? Please drop your ideas below!

And, as before, I will continue to offer a Patreon discount code for anyone wanting to attend these in-house retreats with me.

Big hugs and blessings!<...

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Recording from Thursday's class: You are Whole in Your Entirety

It was a wonderful session! Thank you to everyone who took part. Here's the main part of the hour-long call.

Blessings to all!

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In-Person Event in DC! 20% off for Patrons!!

Hey, Patrons! I am so excited to share that Anthony and I are hosting a gong bath, guided meditation, & cacao ceremony in our home next month...and we would LOVE to have you participate!

As a special THANK YOU for your support, please use the code "Patrons" at checkout to get 20% off!

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1510922984319?aff...

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Making Lemons into Lemonade :)

Moving on and moving gracefully onto new ideas

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Patron Livestream: Big NEWS... and a bit of disappointment

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Class tonight at 8pm!

Hey guys. We have Patreon group meetup tonight at 8pm. The theme is: We are Holy in our Entirety. Rejecting the notion of shame and brokenness! Hope to see you there.

Kae Strouse is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

Topic: Sacred Meditation Class

Time: Jul 17, 2025 08:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)

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What do you do when alone in the evening?

Tonight I had the pleasure to sit alone, listen to a audiobook by one of my favorite spiritual authors, do mantra, and make a mala for Shiva.

I often don’t talk about my own sacred practices because they don’t feel like they fit for public consumption… I’d rather talk about digestible things that people in the public and understand. But for you, my patrons, I think you can appreciate how lovely it is to spend an evening in sacred work not caring if anyone else will appreciate i...

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Try this again... patron livestream round 2!

Hey guys!

Tonight is the holiday of Guru Purnima where we honor our teachers and guides. I honor you and thank you for all that you have taught me! Thank you for your wisdom, insights, and love. My journey is better because of YOU!

Much love!!

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Recording from Thurs Class: The Relentless Stripping Away of our Limitations

Hey guys! Here's the recording from our Thursday night Patron class. Thanks for joining us either live or watching later!

Blessings, Kaelan

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A new painting

I wanted to share this painting I created over the past two days, as a way of honoring my 38th year. It’s a piece I’ve been carrying inside me for many months, waiting for the right moment to bring it through.

The image is called Ardhanarishvara—the sacred union of Shiva and Shakti, the divine masculine and feminine embodied as one. For me, this painting is a reclamation of many things: the holiness of emptiness and fullness, of stillness and fire, of sexuality and spirituality. E...

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Thursday night class TOMORROW!

Hey everybody! I hope you can make it to our Thursday night sacred meditation circle. The theme for this week is: the relentless stripping away of our limiting beliefs and things that keep us trapped.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84128140347?pwd=iISfAqKaRwFbJj1RIUcXA55oECFZOC.1

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NSFW Link for July

Hey everybody! Thank you for all your love and support :-)

Here is your link for this month. I hope you enjoy and get back into your bodies!

https://onlyfans.com/thebigom/trial/vvpyyinssfv1oxniw931jnyui6scr2l1

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Birthday Eve Livestream for Patrons

Heading to bed on the night before my birthday (or the day of my lunar birthday). Want to update and send some love!

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Special Patron Livestream

Hey y'all!

It's the new moon following the solstice and midsummer... let's go deep into the energy and really feel it!

Plus some updates about what's going on with our real estate transactions!

Big hugs!

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Recording from Thursday's Class: The Importance of Relationships

Here you go! For everyone who missed it, our Thursday night class this past week :)

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Class tonight at 8pm ET: The importance of relationships in living well

Hey guys! I hope to see you there for our third-thursday of the month call.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/85764774046?pwd=MYLwaLBcNR2LLsOsgXV4Gs1qLrhDgX.1

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Patron livestream: The craziness of the past few days!!!!

Wow. What a crazy few days... here's what's going on :)

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A really lovely interview I got to do!

Hey guys!

I got to do a really lovely interview a couple weeks ago. It just went live. Let me know how you enjoy!

Blessings, Kaelan

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It happened...

Hey guys!

We negotiated an offer and signed an agreement today.

This. Is. Happening...

In just a few months we will have The Ecstatic Sanctuary (name pending, but this is what we are leaning towards right now) to welcome you in. I cannot wait to have a space for us to gather, sip tea, meditate, and connect on a soul level.

Sending you all big hugs!

What a huge step we took today :)

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Patron update... big news :)

Hey guys! Just got home and have some updates to share :)

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Get a free Coaching Session with me!

Hey all!

If anyone would be so kind as to read 48 Gateways to the Ecstatic Self and leave a review on Amazon/Goodreads, I would be happy to offer you a free coaching call!

Just send me a screenshot once it's posted. And just a heads-up, Amazon is notorious about not posting reviews unless they're 100% confident that they are legit. So I am giving you a link for a free download of the pd...

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New article published today!

Hey guys!

I was lucky enough to get featured on edge media network about my book that just came out. Let me know your thoughts!

Big hugs!

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NSFW Link for May

Hey Patrons!

Thank you for all of your love and support!!

Here’s your NSFW link for the month of May! I hope you enjoy.

https://onlyfans.com/thebigom/trial/qth7dbpqjndmoccate6lta9r0pakilvg

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