TLDR: Vote whether BDSiM Traits should stay exclusive or revert to original nonexclusive Traits with the possibility of improvement.
Okay, so. FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM once was different. Yes. The Traits were not exclusive of each other based on Dominant Roles or submissive Roles. Remember that? If you do, wowowow, you are such a loyal little pet.
So for example, one Sim could have the Demaning Trait AND the Masochist Trait. A Sadis...
2024-03-26 05:22:41 +0000 UTC
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Missing Master, Mistress, and Masochist Trait and Books not working has now been fixed! Let me know if you experience any issues with this update.
Also fixed the Dominant Skill and Ownership relationship!
Please replace the older files with the new ones!
2024-03-15 05:09:35 +0000 UTC
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*Please read!
Hi! I apologize for the last-minute update. Illness has struck my household and it has been quite occupying.
*PART I ONLY, PART II is COMING!

I added 2 new Social Interactions. They go together in the sense that they are both meant to perform the same humiliating act, however, Marysal--the animator--and I thought it w...
2024-02-01 00:46:36 +0000 UTC
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Heyyy. Ever heard the phrase "flavor of the week"? Have you ever wanted a "Fetish of the Month"? No, never thought about that? Okay, well, whether you have or have not, you are going to get one from now on with FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM.
Let me elaborate on what this means for this BDSM mod for the Sims 4:
Every month when I create your monthly update of FlirtyF...
2024-01-24 02:23:15 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone! I hope you all are enjoying the latest FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM and are enjoying the holidays. Idk about you, but I am so ready for this shit to be over. Take your nutmeg and leave me the f alone, already.
Anyway, I have this question for you. As I am moving forward with my BDSiM goals such as adding more animations, details to the BDSiM relationships, BDSiM Traits, and Training & Punishment methods (did you know this will involve chastity belts and cock cages for S...
2023-12-30 15:29:14 +0000 UTC
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*Fixed Contract of Consent interfering with BFF relbit.
Hi! I have finally reached a point in my TS4 BDSM mod that I am happy to upload!
First things first:
I was able to not only add the special BDSiM slave collar, but it will also show up after being collared, no matter the outfit.

Simply click on the "Collar" Social within the D/s Dynamic Pie Menu and wait and watch for you...
2023-12-24 20:08:46 +0000 UTC
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Now you can decide with the new "Spank" Social Interaction with custom animation in December's update!

FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM December update will be out tonight or tomorrow. I have a few more things to add and polish up before it is ready. And there is absolutely more than the Spank Social! So make sure you are ready to receive this update I am so excited to release with EARLY ACCESS from...
2023-12-23 17:43:19 +0000 UTC
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Hey! If you didn't catch this on my X account or Discord, FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is seemingly compatible with Patch 1.103.250.1020 of December 5. Please let me know here if you encounter any issues AFTER you have completed the troubleshooting steps found in the pinned post here FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Guide & Walkthrough.
And I also have been working on another mod called Happy Homestead. Check out on 2023-12-09 21:52:01 +0000 UTC
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Yay! I made it...I hope it. I greatly apologize for the delay!
This month's update includes some elements I have gotten requests for. I will add to them more in December's update.
First, we have a BDSiM twist to an existing feature that I personally think will add a nice touch:

Asking another Sim to join your household is one thing, but asking your sub to move in is a lot sexier...
2023-11-30 12:26:08 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone! I have been working on a few things you're going to like for this month's update. Marysal brought the FlirtyFetishes collar to the game and I am so proud of her!

This is going to be a fun addition to your game along with the other new elements I will be adding this month. Most of them are the great suggestions I have received from you all on here, Discord, and Loverslab. And...
2023-11-20 16:40:42 +0000 UTC
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The issue has been resolved. So download this and you should have some nice BDSiM time with your Sims--error-free. However, if you do get any errors or need support, please feel free to reach out!
2023-11-02 15:49:17 +0000 UTC
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Hello everyone! The temporary fix I have put out seems to work for the most part. I did encounter an LE when I cheated the submissive Major Skill to level 10. There may be some more of those that pop in other elements of the game. I am working on a way to better test these things out in the future and fix them faster, you know, like a real mod creator. However unconventional it may be, I am going to say USE AT YOUR OWN RISK.
Will I play with FlirtyFetishes in my g...
2023-11-01 17:00:32 +0000 UTC
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Heyyy. So right now I have FF the exact same but with a little fix to stop the LE from occurring every time the Sadist trait socials are used. I will be adding an update on Friday or Saturday with some cool stuff so make sure you are "tier-ready". I apologize for not getting the fix out sooner. This month has been crazy. But here is the fix for now :)
2023-10-25 16:05:32 +0000 UTC
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Heyyyy.
This month's update began with a lot of hope and intention. However, there were a few setbacks that kept it from coming in as keenly as I wanted. But do not fret! In due time, skills will be honed and intentions will become tangible. And, I still have a pretty cool update for you this month. So, without further adieu, here it is:
- I made D/s Dynamic available for multiple Sims. This means Sim A can be in a D/s D. with Sim B and C, and even D if he/she...
2023-09-23 04:16:26 +0000 UTC
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The Flirty Sim’s Guide to BDSiM
A detailed walkthrough of how to play EllaNoir’s FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM, the BDSM mod for the Sims 4.
by EllaNoir
*This mod was created with no affiliation to The Sims 4 or EA Games. This mod is my creation and I do not give permission to anyone to sell this mod or claim as their own.
Getting Started
To begin FlirtyFetishes in-game, BDSiM Traits must be applied to your Sims. Without these trai...
2023-09-12 20:45:00 +0000 UTC
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Heyyyy. FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is compatible with the latest patch!
Also, if everything goes according to plan, get ready for something pretty fucking cool in this month's update!
Stay tuned and thanks for being here.
2023-09-06 22:09:45 +0000 UTC
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Well, hello everyone.
I have something exciting I am dying to show you!

This is for the Collaring Social! And I would like all of you to thank the very talented Marysal who reached out to me and offered to create animations for FlirtyFetishes. You can check out more of their work her...
2023-08-23 15:02:47 +0000 UTC
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Hey! So I have here the newest update of FlirtyFetishes for you. I had a few other things I wanted to add but I need more time to get them just right. So for this update, you have as promised:
Moods!

I remember last time, the moods had an issue with being too frequent and also not allowing any other moods to appear. So let me know ASAP if you have this issue
2023-07-21 16:10:26 +0000 UTC
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Hey! I did not find any issues when I tested out FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM after the recent patch. Please let me know if you acquire any errors though! Just make sure you have tested my mod with NO OTHER MODS. See you soon!
2023-07-19 00:04:08 +0000 UTC
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I just wanted to let everyone know that I have added a new tier. This one is called Good Goddess and is between the Mistress May I ($5) tier and the Master of All ($10) tier.
You will get access to FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM 2 full weeks before public release and for only $7. The only difference between this tier and the Master of All is the price.
I tried to change the $10 to $7, but I guess I can't do that with people pledged. Makes sense enough. Anyhow, I will leave it u...
2023-07-14 01:54:15 +0000 UTC
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Hey! So I was able to fix the relationship issue where Sims who were in a vanilla relationship like married couldn't create a D/s Dynamic.
They can now! (I was definitely just being myself and over-complicating it. Oops.)

Let me know if you have any issues!
*This mod is exactly the same as the one from June, but with the relationship fix! Download this one.
2023-07-06 18:55:11 +0000 UTC
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Hello everyone. The results are in and FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM Moods will be added back into FF! Please expect this readdition in the new update coming out later this month.
In other news, I have promised a few of you the Traits Goddess & Sissy. I would love to get started on that! So please let me know if you have any ideas for Socials, moods, buffs, whims, etc.! I truly love hearing from you.
Also, I am adding a few other things and attempting to add/fix a few things for D/s D...
2023-07-06 16:09:42 +0000 UTC
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Remember FlirtyFetishes' moods? I deleted them because I was troubleshooting the Sims-disappearing-after-sex issue. Now that I found the reason FlirtyFetishes was not functioning properly due to outdated mods, I feel I can add them again. But this one is up to you Patreon pups. Select "Yes" or "No" below!
2023-06-28 21:52:11 +0000 UTC
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Hey! In this update, I believe I am able to deliver to you the Collaring Ceremony! Well, at least the base for it. This is definitely still a work in progress but it is the base for what is to come.
Repeat: NOT FINISHED!!!
Create your Social Event:

It is an event with Goals and Rewards, however, right now I have created it to be generic. Bas...
2023-06-17 21:40:21 +0000 UTC
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Today's patch did not seem to affect FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM. If any issues occur, please remove all mods aside from FF and test it out. If issues persist, then please let me know.
And don't forget to download the latest version of FlirtyFetishes and check out the preview for next month's update.
I hope everyone had a great month and I look forward to see you all around in June. Thanks for being here!
2023-05-31 02:45:27 +0000 UTC
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Heyyyy. I wanted to get this out on Sunday but a few things prevented me. I do apologize.
This month's update includes:

Buffs for each trait. Creating buffs is still new territory for me. I am learning how they function and how to get them to do what I want, so bear with me here and let me know if you notice anything not operating p...
2023-05-23 15:43:15 +0000 UTC
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In case you missed it on my Discord channel, I am wondering which animations/socials you would like to see for the traits: Sadist and Masochist.
Please feel comment below. Or if you'd feel more comfortable, feel free to DM me your suggestions here, Twitter, or Discord.
Oh, and if you have an idea that isn't a social interaction, don't forget to add it to the #ideas channel on my Discord server!
Also, I do plan on releasing an update this month, so look alive 😘
2023-05-13 02:07:14 +0000 UTC
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Hello everyone!
I hope everyone had a great month. I truly appreciate you all for being here. I have checked the latest version of FlirtyFetishes with the recent patch and it appears to be functioning normally. If you acquire any issues, please check if those issues still exist after removing all mods from your game aside from FF. If they do not, continue to ensure all other mods are updated. If issues occur without any mods or with updated mods, ...
2023-04-28 15:54:44 +0000 UTC
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Is out and available for the Master of All tier! It will be available for Mistress May I tier next Sunday at this time.
Just wanted to let you know ;)
2023-04-16 16:45:42 +0000 UTC
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YAY. IT IS TIME.
Here is your Early Access to FlirtyFetishes!
Without further adieu, this is what is included:

Beginner, intermediate, and advanced books to increase your Dominant or Submissive skills.

Maxing the Dominant and Submissive skills will reward you with th...
2023-04-16 16:43:56 +0000 UTC
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