**Compatible with the latest game patch from November 4!**
Sorry! I forgot to upload the new file when I edited this post! The most recent file is "EllaNoir_FlirtyFetishesBDSiM_vSept_ForAll" Please make sure that one is the one you've downloaded!
EDIT October 12: Hey! So I have heard you and I have created a new debug option for BDSiM Insight Trait! Simply click on your Sim, got to the FlirtyFetishes pie menu, click on "Instant Aftercare," et voila! Your sensit...
2025-09-17 15:46:54 +0000 UTC
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Hi! I hope everyone has been having a great season, wherever you may be. In this update, I have added some new things, including a new trait
Hi! I hope everyone has been having a great season, wherever you may be. In this update, I have added some new things, including a new trait.
*EDIT Aug. 18, 2025: For those experiencing the Crash & Yearn buff indefinitely, this buff will not go away until Aftercare is received by the Sim ...
2025-07-30 20:58:36 +0000 UTC
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July 21, 2025: FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is compatible with latest patch! I will be checking out the new pack and let you know about its compatibility. Please expect an update with new stuff soon!
Please let us know if you encounter any issues in the issue-awareness channel!
PS. Expect some new things in FF before the end of the month!
Hey! This month's update has no new additions. However, I did do some behind the scenes fixes to help some things run smoother along with...
2025-05-01 01:25:00 +0000 UTC
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Okay, yall. I feel like I'm only hearing bad things with the new SimDrop and BDSiM Meter features. It seems like this highly sought after element was not executed and recieved as I had hoped.
So let's take a vote and see what we can do about this because your happiness matters to me. It will be a pretty cut-dry answer: yes or no. So can I see a show of hands? Should SimDrop be removed and all it's accompanying features? Or keep it, maybe just work on it?
2025-04-03 14:00:02 +0000 UTC
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Edit (March 10): The current version of FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM appears to be functioning and is compatible with version: 1.113.291 and the new TS4 Expansion Pack "Businesses & Hobbies." Let me know if you encounter any issues!
Edit (Feb 18): Hey! The crash that was occurring after adding the Masochist Trait seems to be resolved! Download this version to replace it now!
Edit (Feb. 6): Okay! I have replaced the Hygiene bar ...
2025-03-11 01:03:00 +0000 UTC
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Hey! This version is fixed and compatible with PC: 1.112.481.1030 / Mac: 1.112.481.1230
I apologize for the amount time it took me to resolve the issues within my mod! Let me know how it works for you. And thank you so much for your patience!
If you'd like to try out the new updated version with new features, you can check it out here.
PS: I will be away from Jan 26 to Feb 2! But ...
2025-01-25 23:27:26 +0000 UTC
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As previously stated, I have been creating a new feature for BDSiM, a little something called...a BDSiM Training Session! Ah yes, this shall go very nicely with all the new Dom/sub-drop elements also expected to debut in December's update.
A whole new system for Sims who participate in the BDSiM Lifestyle is in the making and almost complete. I won't reveal much else because I love...
2024-12-19 07:48:55 +0000 UTC
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Hiya! I am working on a huge update and you can expect it next month! I am so excited about it; you're going to love it.
My animator Marysal is working on some awesome animations for the Training Session. My artist is creating some great new images and icons. AND I have an amazing creator I am sure you all know and love creating some exciting rewards! As long as everything stays on trac...
2024-11-30 21:23:32 +0000 UTC
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Hiya! Let's see if this works.
And well, to be honest with yall (and if you can’t already tell), I am mostly just winging it as a mod creator. I have no prior experience or skill with coding languages, programming, or heck, knowing what I could even do with a computer besides getting on the Internet. I don't usually know what to test for with patches because the impending issues are unpredictable to me and reading an LE file is a bitch—at least to me. (Like, have you ever tried rea...
2024-11-17 19:45:00 +0000 UTC
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Hey! I have fixed the glitch! Thank you all so much for reaching out to provide me with information and your patience! If you are the slave tier or free, you can find the download here.
If you are Mistress May I tier or above, find the download here.
2024-11-05 21:06:32 +0000 UTC
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Hey! Good news! I solved the glitchy issue. There should no longer be any glitching with the Relationship Panel or in a Sim's Profile. I greatly apologize for any Sim divorces during this time!
I had to remove the headline (the cute little heart with handcuffs with the plus sign) that occurs after each FlirtyFetishes Social. However, I am working on bringing it back. It was a whole mess, but seems to be nice and cleaned up now.
I also fixed a typo with the Good Boy/Girl Re...
2024-11-05 20:51:54 +0000 UTC
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Hey. I apologize for the inconvenience at this time. I have been able to recreate the issue in my game and now have a better understanding of what I'm dealing with. In the meantime, I am going to say to remove FlirtyFetishes entirely until I give the go ahead. Even if you are not experiencing the issue right now, you could eventually and I don't want it to break and corrupt your save! I apologize once again and will my best to get it solved and back in your game by tomorrow evening!
I a...
2024-11-04 14:44:22 +0000 UTC
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Hey! I am aware some of you are experiencing issues since the latest game update and new pack. I am investigating this the best of my ability. I do not have this issue in my game. So it may take some time.
In the meantime, please make sure all mods you use are updated! This is especially important with UI mods. As it stands when I tested FF with NO MODS, with the Oct 22 update, I had no errors, LEs, or BE reports.
But I'm not an expert! I just know what I know with my game 😅 ...
2024-11-02 14:13:24 +0000 UTC
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Yay, just in time for the new pack tomorrow to mess it up. Maybe. I'll be on standby!
And in leu of this probability, I have kept this month's update on the lighter side.
Added is:
-Two new Social Interactions for Master and Mistress: "Inspect" and "Inspect Ass". Yeah, it's exactly what it sounds like. Sounds will be added ASAP.
-Upgraded the "Spank" animation for the Sadist Interaction "Spank". The spank on floor social is in the works along with new spanking socials ...
2024-10-31 01:00:05 +0000 UTC
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Ayyyyy.
Thank you all for your patience as I updated my BDSM mod for the Sims 4!
FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is now compatible with Base Game Version: PC: 1.110.265.1030 / Mac: 1.110.265.1230
Here is what has been updated since the October 22, 2024 TS4 Patch:
-All Social Interactions
-D/s Dynamic Relationship Track
-Collaring Ceremony Main Goal error
-And anything else that
2024-10-29 00:06:00 +0000 UTC
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Hi. While recovering from the flu, I completely forgot to merge the base game vanity created by Marysal to the one I uploaded here. I greatly apologize for that. It's definitely there now! This is also what was causing some random errors with BDSiM Traits like the Brat Trait Socials. (You know, because half of the coding was there while the other was sitting in a folder all by itself.)
I have also just removed the Trait Skill books and will release them later this month when I have fini...
2024-10-13 15:30:51 +0000 UTC
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Hi! I have removed the books causing the LE! This is a temporary fix until I recover more from my illness. Looking at the computer screen is giving me a major headache. Nonetheless, you can expect the update by the end of the month!
Please remove the last version and replace it with this one. But remember, choose only ONE .package. I have added a better document to explain this within the zip.
If you have any other issues, please don't hesitate to let me know. I apologize immensel...
2024-09-30 19:47:00 +0000 UTC
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Available now!
2024-08-30 19:34:27 +0000 UTC
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FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM August UPDATE
*NEW -Somehow what I typed up didn't post. This is what I thought I initially posted!
Omg y'all. It was a busy crazy summer. But everyone is back in the normal swing of things, which means I am modding at FULL FORCE. Sorry about the wait, but check it out!
First and foremost, our Fetish of 3 Months Prior is finally making its debut! The Brat Trait:
2024-08-29 19:30:00 +0000 UTC
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Hi! Good news: it seems FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is compatible with Game Version: PC: 1.108.289.1030
From my tests, everything functioned as expected and I did NOT receive any errors (Last Exceptions). I used NO MODS when I did these tests. I'm happily surprised!
Please ensure all Mods played with FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM are compatible with the latest patch.
If you happen to experience any issues after
2024-07-25 02:22:46 +0000 UTC
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Edit: updated compatibility with most EA update
Hi! Good news: it seems FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is compatible with Game Version: PC: 1.108.349.1020
From my tests, everything functioned as expected and I did NOT receive any errors (Last Exceptions). I used NO MODS when I did these tests. I'm happily surprised!
Please ensure all Mods played with FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM are compatible with the latest patch.
If you ...
2024-07-25 02:20:43 +0000 UTC
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Hi! So...I have been working on updating a lot of my current content. When I play with FlirtyFetishes in my game, I notice things I would like to alter for better quality gameplay. One thing has led to another, and I'm not quite finished. But I prefer to have this out once has reached completion before releasing it I'm sorry for the late post; DM me if you need a refund.
I have been working on the Brat Trait as well. In May, I created the accompanying Mood: Naughty
...
2024-07-01 00:12:54 +0000 UTC
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Hi! I am currently still working on the update but I wanted to give everyone a a quick update for a few annoying things you all have mentioned.
I have fixed:
-Goddess Trait: Energy level is normal again. (Sorry Goddess, you're not invincible anymore.)
-Socials: Spank Pussy/Balls, Spank Ass, Order Acts I & II (from the Demeaning Trait) to no autonomy and no incest.
-No more empty bubbles
I apologize for the inconvenience! A lot of little things like this I pla...
2024-06-08 13:19:59 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone! I apologize for the delay. I have tested FlirtyFetishes with only the most recent versions of WW and MCCC and everything checks out as normal, i.g. Traits showing in the Rewards Store or Wicked Attributes. Please make sure all your other mods have been updated SINCE the most recent game patch or have been deemed compatible by their creators.
Nonetheless, please feel free to reach out to me whenever and I will respond as soon as I can!
2024-06-03 13:34:39 +0000 UTC
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Hi! With the heaviest of hearts, I am so sad to say that my mod update will not be released this month 😢
My animator Marysal had some unfortunate and unexpected news and was not able to complete the animations needed for the cleanup or the Brat Trait.
Coincidentally, my artist has been slammed with her day job and move and was set back on the artwork.
That being said, without animations, and what I have already added to FF, it would cause errors and not up to par for r...
2024-05-27 22:57:01 +0000 UTC
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*Now available for slave tier
Hi! There is one element I have wanted to add to this BDSM mod for some time now. And that is certainly more Femdom! While there are Dominant type Traits that female Sims may have, there wasn't one specifically for a Domina. As you all saw last month, I added the Goddess Trait along with a fitting counter Trait, the Sissy Trait.
In my opinion, I felt the Goddess would be able to shine on her own for any gender they may prefer. ...
2024-05-01 00:54:26 +0000 UTC
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Hi! I may have a fun project for some of you.
Do you ever create fun, really hot stories with your Sims? Do you ever feel upset that no one else gets to enjoy all the sexiness you’ve come up with? Well, I think I may have a solution for you!
I am currently creating something I think everyone is really going to enjoy. And I really, really want you to be a part of it! I am branching out and want to build a freaky community with you based on Sims and all the fetishes you give to th...
2024-04-07 00:53:10 +0000 UTC
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A small update to introduce Femdom with one of its finest type has just been released for Early Access!
2024-03-31 07:54:59 +0000 UTC
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Hi! Well, this is a large project I have initiated with a lot of things I really think you are going to like.
That being said, I am calling this Month's update a "teaser" update because there is only a small amount of game play added. However, there is a lot to come in April! This also means there are incomplete aspects as well.
We have the Goddess and Sissy Traits:
In the
2024-03-31 07:27:13 +0000 UTC
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Haha jk. Or am I? It is up to you with this month's Fetish of the Month! Which is:
Goddess + Sissy
This will include 2 new Traits:
These will come with new moods, socials, skills, and more!
Fun new objects will also be included! (I'll show you in Discord.)
Also, I ...
2024-03-28 20:27:43 +0000 UTC
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