Hey everyone,
You'll see another newsletter from me later this week, but I wanted drop in with a special Patreon-only This Week in Gender segment for you.
Friend of the show Em Solarova wrote and recorded a great 5-minute segment about what's been going on re: gender in the Czech Republic. (Spoiler: it's not great!) Read the essay below, or let Em read it to you via the audio above.
By the way, I also really recommend Em's YouTube channel, 2021-07-07 20:23:59 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. I am writing you a newsletter filed with love and news and gender, and I am also, in a very real sense, actively falling asleep as I type. Let's see how this goes.
This week on the show, I checked in with our friend Mal Blum, who I first spoke with in E...
2021-07-01 05:36:36 +0000 UTC
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Hey bbs,
We're doing things pretty differently on the pod this week, so I figured I'd give you a Pretty Different Newsletter as well.
Above is a little clip about twitter and Strangers Having Expectations from our upcoming interview with John Paul Brammer, which will most likely drop early Thursday morning. It's not fully mixed or anything, but I pulled it for someone (past and future guest Gaby Dunn, actually...
2021-06-23 06:47:06 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. Remember when I said Mercury-retrograde-in-Gemini-season was kicking my ass? Right after that, my trusty 2015 laptop yeeted itself into a hell dimension. (I assume it's extremely uncool/old to say "yeeted" at this point but I don't know how to describe this situation other than "yeeted through the fish tube" or maybe "noped out of the en...
2021-06-17 03:59:15 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. This whole solar-eclipse-in-Gemini-during-Gemini-season-and-Mercury-retrograde thing is kicking my ass. Or maybe it's just being a person that is kicking my ass? Unclear.
So much of therapy is just me being like "I'm feeling Bad in this unique way" and my therapist being like "lots of other people also feel Bad in that way" and for some reason it helps???? Like today, I was like, "something that makes me feel better is meeting s...
2021-06-09 23:28:32 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Happy Pride! We've got so so much going on right now. Let's get to it:
First off, I want to you about a rad project that our friends are working on. Gender Reveal alum (and FANTI co-host) Tre'vell Anderson and producer Carly Usdin <...
2021-06-06 22:27:26 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. I held yesterday's newsletter until today so that I could make a very special announcement: we officially hired a new associate producer!
I'm excited for the podcast to sound better, I'm excited to have another set of ears on episodes, and I'm so excited for another perspective and vision to help us shape the future of Gender Reveal. I'm also excited to try to have a few boundaries on work, such as occasionally taking t...
2021-05-31 21:52:59 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there.
Once again, our news is pretty much the same. Applications for our Associate Producer gig are closing in a few hours — we've received nearly 100 applications, which is flattering and exciting and tbh a bit overwhelming. I'll be speaking to finalists over the next couple of days, and I'm ho...
2021-05-24 04:47:32 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. There's a lot going on in Gender Reveal world right now, but unfortunately there aren't any big public-facing updates. Mostly, everything's the same as it was in the last newsletter. Here's what's up:
1. We're still hiring an associate producer to help us put the next season of the podcas...
2021-05-18 05:47:19 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. Sending extra love today to anyone who’s had to mother themselves at any point. I love you!
This is a make-up newsletter for last week. I was down for the count over the weekend with various injuries and illnesses, but I’m more or less back in action today, and wanted to let you know about a few very exciting developments in Gender Reveal World.
First and foremost, we are hiring! I’ve finally come to terms with the f...
2021-05-10 18:13:15 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope you're all hanging in there. I just spent two hours looking for my wallet and did not find my wallet but I did find a headache, so this newsletter is gonna be real quick (maybe).
Updates on the Gender Reveal front:
1. I haven't added new May merch yet, but I'm gonna try to do that by tomorrow, so keep an eye out! We've got a bunch of new designs on the way... to that end, here's a sneak peek of our newest design by friend of the show 2021-05-03 04:20:20 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you’re all hanging in there. Not sure what to tell you this week. I haven’t eaten a vegetable yet today, so I just checked the fridge, and the closest thing I could find was a single slice of pizza topped with red pepper and artichoke hearts. So now I’m eating that. Pizza’s a vegetable, I’ve heard.
One of our pipes has leaked since what feels like the dawn of time, every time my roommate takes a bath. There’s a huge hole in our kitchen ceiling that wa...
2021-04-25 02:17:56 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. I know that everything is very very bad in most places, including here, but I am not going to talk about that much because I think sometimes our brains need a break. CW on the next sentence, tho.
I was talking to a friend yesterday about how they felt bad “taking up space” online by creating art or existing, when there were people getting murdered (by police and by randos and by friends and family) every day, and I said something ...
2021-04-18 17:19:57 +0000 UTC
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OK, I'm obsessed with these weird binary gender donuts that say TRANSGENDER in the corner and also the way that "If we don't want visibility, what do we actually want?" is seemingly answered by this Reese's ad. And that's what we want! Snacks!
anyway, cw for a bunch of swears and complaining about something I did to myself.
...
On Monday, March 29 — the morning that Gender Reveal season six finale dropped — I turned to my roommate and said, “it’s fucked up that...
2021-04-12 03:04:39 +0000 UTC
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Hello!
It's 11 pm on the west coast, which means that, by the time most of you read this, it will be March 31st: Trans Day of Visibility.
But let's face it — being visibly trans can be exhausting. It can be scary. It can lead to a whole host of problems, from being misgendered / harassed / physically attacked to having our healthcare denied and our rights threatened in court. But you know this! I do not need to tell you.
So what if, instead, we just did a...
2021-03-31 05:56:37 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Well, I made it. After seventeen weeks straight of working simply too much, I uploaded the final episode of Gender Reveal season 6. But first, let's talk about last week's episode, shall we?
I felt super lucky to get to chat with Francisco J. Galarte about the experiences of trans and queer Chicanas, Chicanos, and Chicanx folks. Francisco is the author of Brown Trans ...
2021-03-29 05:36:27 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. How are you feeling as we move from Pisces to Aries season? Are your heavy feelings of sadness or despair evolving into rage at the world for being so fucked up? Is your stagnancy turning into motion? Idk, just a guess.

I hope y'all got a chance to listen to my interview with Torrey Peters, author of Detransition, Baby and ...
2021-03-22 05:51:54 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. We are once again in that liminal space between episodes.
In three hours, we're releasing our episode with Torrey Peters, author of Detransition, Baby and Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones. It's our second-longest episode ever (one minute shorter than our chat with2021-03-15 06:26:29 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. I have been having A Time ™ over the last few days — my phone broke and my back seized up (I'm old!) and I had to put together a new episode from scratch this weekend after the planned interview didn't work out. SO, this newsletter is going to be mostly photos. Hope that's cool lol.

This week on the show, I teamed up with nonbinary mixed ...
2021-03-08 01:43:53 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Quick housekeeping notes before I forget.
1. If you have joined the patreon in the last few months and are still waiting on your patreon rewards, I have not forgotten about you! However, I have finally accepted that, realistically, I will not be able to fulfill more rewards (especially $10+ rewards) between now and when the season ends in a month. Please know that even if you cancel your pledge between now and then, I will still send your rewards the next ti...
2021-03-01 01:03:03 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope yr hanging in there. I just did a "how's ur depression today" poll on Instagram and it turns out that we are mostly doing bad, as a people. Surprise!
Something that made my week a little bit less bad was our delightful and thought-provoking chat with the fantastic Tre'vell Anderson.

Photos of Tre'vell are by their partner: photographer 2021-02-22 00:20:39 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
I hope you're all hanging in there. I am only sort of achieving that today, tbqh, so we'll see how this goes.
First of all, hi, I love you. Thank you for supporting the work we do here. It means everything.
This/last week on the show (why do I write this at such a weird liminal time every week??), I had a delightful if very last-minute chat with artist and filmmak...
2021-02-15 06:45:03 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Hope you're all hanging in there. Did you get a chance to listen to our episode with Diamond Stylz yet?
I know I've said this a lot this season, but I really think that Diamond is one of the all-time greats. Not only is she the host of Marsha's Plate; the executive director of Black Trans Women Inc; and a venerated trans elder who transitioned ~25 years ago — sh...
2021-02-08 05:24:31 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope you're all hanging in there. This week on the show (or last week, by the time you're reading this), I had the pleasure of sharing my chat with Hil Malatino, a professor of women & gender studies and philosophy, and author of the books Queer Embodiment and 2021-02-01 06:04:37 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope you're all hanging in there. This week on the show, I am thrilled to officially introduce you to Salimatu Amabebe, Black Feast founder / multimedia artist / vegan + gluten-free chef / photographer / filmmaker / model / writer / genius / angel / perfect being. (Can you tell that I love him????)
2021-01-25 05:59:17 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope you're hanging in there. I know we say this a lot, but what a time to be gay and alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is, hopefully, the last newsletter of the Trump presidency. I'm not sure what that means for us, practically. Nothing is going to change overnight, if it changes at all. And yet? It feels mildly reassuring to know ...
2021-01-17 06:11:42 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope you're all hanging in there. What a W I L D week, huh? If you feel like the world is collapsing a little bit more every day, you're not alone. But that's all the more reason to listen to this week's episode with Kai Cheng Thom, author of (among other titles) I Hope We Choose Love...
2021-01-08 19:26:07 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hope you're all hanging in there. It's 10:30 pm on Sunday, and I just hit "publish" on tomorrow's Gender Reveal episode and made myself a big bowl of popcorn. Now I am feeding popcorn to the cat (not Rhubarb, the other one) because they DEMAND that we share all corn and bread products. Normal stuff.
Anyway, this week on the show, I had the absolute privilege of speaking with A.B.O. Comix cofounder Caspe...
2021-01-04 06:54:35 +0000 UTC
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Hey everyone,
Hey, it's the last week of 2020! We made it! Sure, 2021 might also be a nightmare, but I'm proud of us for making it this far regardless.

This week on the show, I was/am hyped to share my conversation with Mauree Turner. Mauree is technically the highest...
2020-12-28 06:31:13 +0000 UTC
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Hey friends,
Breaking headline format this week because it's the theme of the newsletter and also i'm tired.
Someone fucked up and over-scheduled me this week (spoiler: it was me) — I recorded an interview on Wednesday and another on Thursday, and I need to prep for ANOTHER interview on Monday (more on that later), plus I gotta make an episode and also write a newsletter and blah blah blahhhhhhh here we are.
(I also just spent an hour learning about EQ and other audi...
2020-12-20 05:00:33 +0000 UTC
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