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EP. 176: Mama I'm a Dominatrix Feat. Mistress Marley

On this weeks episode we are joined by Dominatrix, Sex Educator, and boss bi*ch @thechocolatedomme__ .

Mistress Marley walks us through the ins and outs of life as a Dominatrix and even brought her new submissive with her to the episode recording 🤩

In this episode you can expect to hear:

• The supportive relationship Mistress Marley has with her family about her career

• M...

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BOOK CLUB: Update- Date Change

Hey Tribe!


Sooooo we are here in Nashville for Podcast Movement and preparing to speak on a few panels and shit is a bit overwhelming (in a good way). We want to be able to give 100% for our first Book Club Zoom and so we are moving the first meet up to next Thursday 8/12


We hope you understand and this gives you more time to read part 1 and get ready to talk about it all!


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EP: 175: Come Take a Trip With Us

This week, we catch up on all of our most recent and inspiring travels to Costa Rica and New York.

Traveling has inspired us to reflect deeply on the life we’ve created for our selves over the last 3 years.

We talk about how we’ve been able to cultivate experiences and lifestyle shifts for ourselves and our kids, although It hasn’t been easy, it’s been completely worth it!

So, in the spirit of creating the life you want our theme for this month and mantra for lif...

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EP. 174: Court Your Friends Feat. @HeyFranHey & @jadeofalljades

In this episode, we are joined by two women who model what it’s like to be in a genuine friendship rooted in support, love, and growth. We welcome 1/3 of The Friend Zone Podcast @heyfranhey and 1/2 of @GettinGrownPod,2021-07-28 14:47:56 +0000 UTC View Post

BOOK CLUB: August Book Club!

Hi Tribe!

We are excited to begin our first Book Club and what better way to kick it off then with the cult classic, The Ethical Slut!

We will be doing bi weekly 1hr zoom calls beginning August 5th at 6pmPST.

Below are the zoom call dates and reading requirements (or at least try we know life is busy AF!)


8/5- Welcome to ...

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EP. 173: Bump & Grind Feat. Heidi Murkoff, Author of What To Expect When You’re Expecting

This week, we are joined by Mega selling Author, @heidimurkoff , who sold over 20 million copies of her famous book series, What to Expect When Your Expecting.

She sat down with us to discuss #BumpDay! Through her foundation @whattoexpectproject, Heidi encourages women around the US to pos...

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BLOG: Our Little Black Organic Poly Cult

While we adventured through Costa Rica we made all types of new friends. Monique and I (Milah) have been friends for years but, we made friends with @organiczach at a beach party and later found out he was also friends with Mo. He shared his experience living in different countries including the time he lived in Handuras with a ā€œfree blackā€ group that he later learned was a cult. 😩 So the entire trip we had an ongoing joke about how he should start his own cult and we would all be the ...

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EP. 171: Black, Pregnant, and Abroad Feat. Monique Doughty

Welcome the Tribe July!

We all know raising a baby and a woman takes a village and we are excited to kick off this month’s first episode recorded in Costa Rica with @iamnursemo šŸ¤Ž

She is an ex travel nurse turned motivational speaker/wellness coach who lives abroad in Costa Rica and is helping black women heal and walk into their most authentic selves.

This week @iamnursemo sha...

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BOOK CLUB: August Book Club

Hi Tribe!

If you’ve been listening then you know both Milah and I have been reading the amazing book, The Ethical Slut.

We are asking our Tribe to read the book with us for our first book club beginning in August!

We will be doing bi weekly check in’s on zoom where we come together and discuss our favorite chapters and passages. We will also have some special guests coming through to read some of the pages live and discuss their opinions and lives as Ethical Sluts! View Post

BLOG: Costa Rica!

Hola! We’ve currently been in the deep jungles of Costa Rica for almost two weeks and it’s been nothing short of amazing! I know we haven’t had any updates lately so I thought I’d drop a few photos and update y’all on our travels. I (Milah) turned 33 on Wednesday, we learned how to surf from a beautiful young Costa Rican man, discoveredl that we just may be at the ā€œHow Stella Got Her Groove Backā€ age, got a massage with a consented happy ending and so much more lol. Unplugging ...

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EP. 170: Mama’s Gotta Have a Life Too Feat. Xosha Roquemore

In honor of the last week of Slutever June, we are joined by actress, comedian, and boss ass mama, Xosha Roquemore! This week Xosha shares how having a 4 year old put her sexy on hold and how getting back to it feels so liberating yet uncomfortable especially after only being with her child’s father for many years. We also discuss the stigma of being a black single mom and the assumptions that come along with the title.

Jamilah shares her perspective on coparenting and why it’s in ...

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EP. 169: Dear Diary

This week Good Moms take a trip down memory lane!

We go way back and read real entires from our childhood diaries! We both explore where our curiosity for sexual exploration originated and realize every step of their journey, both separately and together, is intentionally and divinely woven together.

Erica shares an entry from 1995 where she confesses her childish crush on her cousin 😭 She also admits to being an avid young cheater, and reads a freestyle she wr...

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BLOG: Costa Rica and Mom Guilt

Hey Tribe!

We took a siesta to work on a few projects and decided to escape to the deep jungles of Costa Rica. We’re in a small beach town called Samara and it is absolutely beautiful.

We’ve been decompressing and vibing to get those creative juices going and today we have been relaxing and writing all day. It’s been so amazing so far but don’t get it twisted, the mom guilt is REAL. Even though I am here for a purpose I (Erica) can’t help but feel bad f...

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EP. 168: Non-Binary Baby Mama

Happy Pride Month Tribe!

We are already on the 3rd week of Slutever June and today we are joined by author and Non-Binary Baby Mama @irawniq šŸ˜šŸ™šŸ¾

In Raw’s new children’s book, Charlie’s Best Work Yet, she/they introduce important vocabulary centered around gender identity coupled with beautiful illustration, and a storyline closely mirroring their own life.

In this episode you’ll hear:

•The importance of leading with love when having conversations abo...

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Do you swallow?

You do now!

Hi Tribe!

We hope you’re enjoying this week’s episode with mama and Foundwr of Taste Vitamins, Brittney Nichole. This revolutionary vitamin that makes men and women taste sweeter down below!

Super excited to share that we have partnered with Taste Vitamins this month to bring you a special discount code to make swallowing that much sweeter! <...

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EP. 167: Make Cum Taste Great Again Feat. Brittney Nichole Founder of Taste Vitamins

Happy National 6/9 day!


On this week’s episode we sit down with mama and CEO of Taste Vitamins, Brittney NicholešŸ˜

Join us as we discuss how her revolutionary vitamins are helping men and women feel more confident about oral sex!

Brittney discusses how she created Tas...

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BLOG: Fuck free summer?

Hi Tribe!


Today marks the last day of our May Dicktox!


We have so enjoyed our weekly catch ups and are so grateful for all the conversations we’ve been having on our Slack message board.


I want to encourage you to check back in with your intention and manifestation that you wrote down at the beginning of the month.

How has it materialized? How do you feel?

Some of us abandoned ship mid way through and that’s totally fine. ...

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BLOG: Are you ready to fuck?

Hi Tribe!


Today is a final DickTox call 😭


We have really looked forward to our weekly catch ups and we hope you have to.


Tonight we will revisiting our manifestations and intentions. We really want to open the floor up to you all and hear how you’ve been doing over the last 27days! I know from our Message Board some of us (me included) have had some moments of weakness and many of self reflection. That is the point of all this. To check...

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EP. 165: Whatever, Slutever

It’s the last week of our Masturbation May series and we are finally wrapping up our month long Dicktox šŸ†šŸ™…šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø

This week, Erica and Milah recap their takeaways from their month without sex and also share some specific masturbation manifestation tools from their exclusive Patreon webinar lead by sex educator @sexualessentials šŸ’¦

Milah shares why she’s going to start masturbatin...

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VIRTUAL EVENT: How to Masturbate & Manifest w/ Sexual Essentials

It’s Saturday night and I’m still thinking about how amazing Thursday night’s call was with Samia!

Samia’s entertaining, highly educational, and instruction based classes continuously leave us fulfilled and wanting to learn more!


We hope you take the time to learn how you can manifest your dreams using self pleasure as a powerful tool!


Happy Ma...

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BLOG: My Best Selling book made me cum šŸ’¦

Last night after our call I masturbated and manifested a NY Times Best Selling book release. If you were on yesterday’s call then you know what I’m talking about.

Anyone else use lastnight energy to invite something into your life?


I hope you guys enjoyed Samia’s class.

How fucking amazing is she?

We are so beyond grateful to have met her and share her with you guys. Her classes are bomb so don’t forget to subscribe to her 2021-05-21 20:42:41 +0000 UTC View Post

VIRTUAL EVENT: Tonight’s call...Masturbation Manifestation w/ Sexual Essentials

We can’t wait for tonight’s call with Samia of Sexual Essentials as we dive into the art of mastrubation manifestation!

This is a call you don’t want to miss as Samia no longer teaches this course on her Patreon.

This is a treat and such a powerful tool for women!


Time: 6pm PST/9pmEST


See you soon šŸ’¦šŸ”®


Erica & Milah


Topic: Dicktox Support Group - Masturbation Manifestation

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EP. 164: Zero Expectation Mode

Getting to a place where you have zero expectations can feel impossible, right?

On this week's episode we discuss not giving a fuck but also giving too many fucks. Erica shares how abstaining from sex has made it so much easier to eliminate expectations in dating and how connecting back with herself has made loving herself a real priority. Jamilah shares how not abstaining has made it extremely clear that sex is a mindfuck but that their weekly zoom calls with their community on Patreon...

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We need to talk....

That's why we created a message board for the Tribe!

Click the link below to join our Slack group and join our #TribeChat!

Make sure to introduce yourself and let the Tribe know where you reside. The purpose of Good Moms is to unite us so we feel less alone. Talk, meet up, create bonds, and build your own tribe.

our #Dicktox channel is for our "Past Your Bedtime" Tier patrons only. 


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I had sex with Sauranus Jackson...kinda

Got your attention? Good! The subject line is true. Read below.


Hi friends! we partnered with sexy erotic app Dipsea to give our Tribe a free 30 day trial in honor of Mastubation May!

Dipsea has thousands of sexy stories narrated for you, or you and your partner to listen and get turned on to. It’s litera...

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EP. 163: Masturbation Matters Feat. Sexpert, Michelle Hope

This week we are joined by sexpert and social activist, @mhsexpert


Join us as we discuss:


•Whether sexperts have better sex 🧐

• How Masturbation and shame are linked šŸ¤žšŸ¾

•Shame around what ā€œPerfectā€ Pussy smells like. 

• Sexual activism āœŠšŸ½āœŠšŸ¾āœŠšŸæ

• Manifestation Masturbation šŸ’¦šŸ’«

• Being empowered women but still working on the art of not giving AF.

•Why teenagers need vibra...

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BLOG: Burn it

Don’t forget to burn your intentions from today’s call. Release it.


Love you šŸ¤Ž


P.s.

You can contact Bruna for her in person or virtual services at:

info@returntoself.me

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VIRTUAL EVENT: See you tonight!

Hi Tribe,


We are looking forward to our weekly call tonight at 6pm PST. I encourage you to bring your manifestation that you wrote down last week to this call as we will have a short meditation led by our guest, Bruna Nessif.

If you aren’t familiar with Bruna, she is an intuitive, mystic, reiki practitioner, and friend of the show! A few years ago she did an episode with us ...

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BLOG: 10 day Check in + Pussy Tips

Hey Tribe!


Checking in to see how everyone is feeling. We’re 10 days in and I can’t lie, I am HORNY! I’ve been using masturbation to take off the edge and it is working but I’d be lying if I said the feeling of a man groping my ass and slipping a.....okay lemme stop!


Anyway, during this time it would be a good time to get your vaginal health in order. I have suffered on an off from B.V. thanks to a one night stand. I’ll share that story this week o...

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Mama Cums First...Everyday

Happy Mother’s Day and Masturbation May!

It’s the perfect month to journey back to self and make solo pleasure a priority.

@sexualessentials AKA Samia has a Mother’s Day sale on her website and it’s bomb! Have you every heard of the Satisfyer?<...

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