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BLOG: Last night was incredible

Y’all, lastnight’s call was so important and beautiful. I want to thank everyone who joined and shared such vulnerable parts of your lives with us and the group. We are so grateful that you feel safe with us.

We are looking forward to next Thursday’s call at the same time. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you need support, advice, or just need to vent. We are all here for one another.


Should we start a secret message board so we can all check in with one ...

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VIRTUAL EVENT: Let’s talk SEX

Tonight is the night. 6pm PST!


Pour your wine, light your blunt, and get comfortable. Below is the link to tonight’s chat.


See you soon!


Topic: Dicktox Support Group - Abstaining with Intention


https://zoom.us/j/8765037940?pwd=NDViLzNaWDUrTWY3QWNuTVJWWkJsQT09

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VIRTUAL EVENT: May 6th DickTox Zoom Link

Hi Tribe!

Below is the link to our May 6th Dicktox support group call 😃

The call begins at 6pm PST and will go no longer than an hour. I hope you have the below questions answered as we will discuss them on the call. Don’t be shy. This is a safe space for us to talk and share.


Below is your first assignment in preparation for our May 6th call.

1) Write down why you are deciding or have decided to detox from sex.

2) Write down TWO...

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BLOG: 3 Day Check in

Hey y’all!


Checking in to see how everyone is doing. It’s Day 3 and I know some of you are thriving and some of y’all are getting hit up more than ever with that late night sex text. The universe will try and test you and I swear these men (and women) know when you’re putting them on pause.

Stay strong Tribe.

We’re 3 days away from our first Dicktox support check in call and I hope you’ve been thinking about the questions I asked you to write down on...

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BLOG: Milah's Birth

Hey Tribe!

May is maternal mental health month and for some reason lately, I've been deep-diving into my pregnancy, my birth, breastfeeding, and the first few years of motherhood. It's crazy how much a few years can change you. My pregnancy was pretty chill physically ( with the exception of preeclampsia at the end) . But, I hadn't realized I was likely deeply depressed during my pregnancy and after. I was in such a dark place personally and in my relationship that becoming depressed wa...

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BLOG: Dicktox DAY 1

Hi Tribe,

Welcome to May 1st and day 1 of your decision to choose yourself.

Congratulations!

You may have taken breaks from sex in the past unintentionally. Maybe you abstained intentionally but without real intention. This is your call to really use this time to be intentional with yourself and your vagina. Let’s all heal up some things so we can navigate in a more empowered way in regards to what we want, deserve, and accept.

Over the next 31 days, I want to encour...

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BLOG: Join the Dicktox with me!

It’s time to hit the reset button sis!

If you’ve been listening to the Pod for the last month then you know I’ve been on a dicktox. Yes, a detox from all sexual penetration. I want to continue this journey with my Good Moms Tribe as it has been such a healing process for me thus far in exploring my worth, energy exchange, and connecting back with self. Most of these niggas don’t deserve your beautiful pussy anyway boo. If you only waited 30 days or more before you gave them acc...

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EP. 161: Somebodie’s Fine Ass Co-Parent Feat. Felicia LaTour

This week we are joined by Mamapreneur and spiritual wellness coach, @felicialatour to discuss co-parenting, dating as a mother of two, and how she left the freelance world and manifested her dream career and KID FREE ZONE office @mindfulfee .

Felicia’s discloses her attachment style and how it cha...

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EP. 159: Dicktox > Detox

Let’s be real, sex impacts your decision-making!

It’s week 2 of Wellness April and we (or maybe just one of us) is abstaining from sex. Penetrative sex has the power to mask mediocre behavior as over-the-moon chivalry. Like you will literally start liking someone you had doubts about just because they pleased you in the bedroom. We ain’t doing that in 2021!

This is exactly why our DICKTOX is in motion & we are inviting you to join us!

On this week’s episode,...

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EP. 158: Healing Your Inner Child Feat. Devi Brown

Why is finding wholeness the fight of our lives in adulthood?

Welcome to episode 1 of Wellness April 🧘🏾‍♀️

This week, we are joined by the Chief Impact Officer @chopra , Author and advocate for women of color in wellness @devibrown 🤗

It’s no secret that parenting can be diffic...

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EP. 157: Financial $hame is a Liar Feat. The Budgetnista

Sis, it’s not a capability issues, it’s a confidence issue!

This is our final week of Money March and we are so excited to be joined by Tiffany @thebudgetnista !!! Join us as she shares her wealth and financial knowledge and debunks shame around finances!

Have you ever felt like you needed to check your bank account before swiping your card? How about dodging that bill collector for the 10th ti...

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BLOG: Full Moon in Libra

Hi Tribe,

It may already be night time where you are but I just wanted to check in an remind everyone that tonight is the Full Moon which is a great time to check in with self and manifest. I happen to be on my period and if you listened to our episode with Linda Garcia (@luzwarrior), then you know is an even more opportune time to connect with the moon and spirit!

This moon is said to be...

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EP. 155: If You Can’t Pay Ca$h, Your Can’t Afford It Feat. Erica’s Mama @reaannsilva

On this week’s Money March episode we are joined by....My mom Rea Ann Silva (Erica’s mom )! I have spoken about how much I look up to my mom as a single parent and entrepreneur (yup, she founded that pink sponge you see all over the internet @beautyblender ), so I was really excited to bring her on an...

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SEX POSITIONS 101: Feat @sexualessentials

On this week's Sex Positions 101 we are joined by our Resident Sexpert @sexualessentials, and she's pulling out the toys and the tricks. Learn the many ways you can incorporate a bondage bar in the bedroom. This bondage bar is amazing and can even fit in a carry-on suitcase for travel!!

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: Wealth Witch Feat. @Luzwarrior (Part 2)

If you listened to part one of our epsiode with @luzwarrior then you know she left us with a special message at the end that had us stunned and grateful! We kept the camera rolling (thank god) and continued to talk after what we thought was the end of the episode! Linda dropped even more gems and shared more about her journey in motherhood, why manifestation during your menstrual has a powerful and d...

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EP. 154: The Wealth Witch Feat @luzwarrior

It's week 2 of Money March and we are joined by Wealth Generator, Founder, Intuitive, and mama of two @luzwarrior ! This episode was so insightful as Luz breaks down how to choose stocks to invest in, how she went from investing 7k in one stock that is now worth over 400k, and a specific visualization she uses to manifest money 🤑

This guest collaboration is truly a product of our manifestat...

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VIRTUAL EVENT: Live smoke session link

Hey! it’s our 3 year anniversary and we’re having a 420 smoke session for the Podcast tonight.


Would love to have you there!

Starts at 6:30pmPST tonight.


Join Zoom Meeting


https://zoom.us/j/8765037940?pwd=aGd3cU9ERGNqSUsvdWR4aXFnZW5tQT09


Meeting ID: 876 503 7940


Passcode: 420mama

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[BONUS EPISODE] AFTER DARK: It’s Our Anniversary B!tches!

Happy 3 year anniversary to us!

This is a bonus episode for our tribe to show our appreciation for your support week after week!

We have cried, laughed, screamed, and even moaned on the podcast and you all get the raw unfiltered, and vulnerable version of them every single week!

In this episode, we reflect on moments where we’ve questioned their decisions and shrunk our intuitive voice because of societal pressures. 
Three years later the caterpillars have emerged out...

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VIRTUAL EVENT: Come smoke with us tomorrow night!

It’s our anniversary tomorrow night!

Yup we launched on International Woman’s Day and what better way to celebrate than an exclusive smoke sessions with our Tribe on Patreon. You all get FREE access to the event happening at 6:30pm PST.

Below are the details!

Bring your favorite strain, drink, or whatever puts you in the mood, and let’s have a session!


2021-03-08 03:46:46 +0000 UTC View Post

EP. 152: How To Set Your Kids Up with a Bag Feat. Earn Your Leisure

Today we are kicking off our Money March Series with the gentlemen of @earnyourleisure , @troymillings and @rashadbilal . In an attempt to give the tribe resources and tools to increase financial literacy, what better way to kick off this week than with EYL?

They've been described as the perfect fusion of when Wall Street meets the barbershop so don't worry this isn't your traditional conversation about money!

Get your notebooks ready and learn the basics to getting your finances...

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BLOG: Full Moon in Virgo

Hi Tribe,

Yesterday was the Full Moon in Virgo but the effect of the moon last for 3 days after. Below is a ritual we shared that I (Erica) am doing again tonight. I’ll hope you’ll join me.


Practice this in the full moon and/or 3 days after :

Light a candle that will be your dedicated manifestation candle.

Bless it with a prayer and think positive thoughts.

Line the rim of the candle with honey or a Shea butter. And gently blow on...

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VLOG: We took 7 kids to Colorado 😅

Once upon a time 4 baby mamas took all their kids to Colorado. It’s been a wild adventure with the traveling circus, but also pretty cool to be mommying AF. This is our first big trip with a group of kids and definitely worth seeing their smiling faces.


What is the most amount of kids you’ve been on a trip with?


7 may be the limit for us without a “Manny”. Yes a man who can help with kids and carry shit lol.

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EP. 150: Michael B Jordan was Meant to Love Erica

On this weeks episode we recap our Valentines Day show and all the extra AF Valentine’s Day IG stories we saw from celebs and not so famous people. Erica curses out Milah for making her delete her DM to Michael B Jordan  in 2019 because things could have turned out differently for him 😂

We also answer an advice question and receive an anonymous whorie involving an ex and a brother 👀

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EP. 149: Love’s a Bitch and Then you Die

Happy almost Valentine’ Day!

On this weeks episode we are joined by...no one. Yup, it’s time for a solo episode to discuss some sensitive topics.

Age is a point of focus and Erica stresses about gray baby hairs and the sudden fear that she must freeze her eggs. Jamilah talks about how “go with flow” she is in love and whether that flow will leave her single forever. She also shares more on her “bondship” with a fellow sex Podcaster and the healthy love she’s been ex...

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LIVE SHOW: Discount to our LIVE SHOW this weekend!!

Hi Tribe!

We are so excited about streaming our LIVE show this weekend! You guys really are the reason for so much of why we are able to continue Podcasting and creating and wanted to give you an exclusive discount!

Saturday is going to be the sexy Ladies Night we’ve all been needing (yes, the mens are invited as well and encouraged to join)!

Samia of Sexual Essentials will be joining us along with some other exciting special guests!


Date: Februa...

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EP. 148: Mama’s Got an Only Fans Too Feat. @mswrightsway

This week we are joined by bad ass mama and highly requested guest @mswrightsway !

Join us as Ashley shares her journey into living her life authentic AF. The mama of two talks about her journey to starting an Only Fans and shamelessly sharing her first-ever masturbation experience on the platform. Jamilah shares a secret anxiety and Ashley contimplates her asexuality despite being viewed as overtly sexual online.

Yup, basically this episode is raw and candid and is easily a top ...

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EP. 147: Jesus Loves Heathens Too Feat. Gettin’ Grown Podcast

This week we are joined by Jade & Keia of the @gettingrownpod!

Join us as we break the ice with a little game that reveals more about @jadeofalljades and @tykeianicole than we anticipated!

We also talk about how these ladies have been able to solidify their value systems while simultaneously embracing differences. Cuz that's what real friends do!

Keia talks about her relationship with God and we share stories about the division and togetherness that religion has caused ...

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BLOG: "Manifest That Shit" Full Moon Ceremony

Happy Full Moon Tribe!!

Last night we experienced the first full moon of the year, and celebrated with a small group of our tribe in a virtual ceremony led by Healer @jakevprieizt via zoom. 

The energy in the room was so amazing, we got the opportunity to manifest with our community and really harness our witchy divine Goddess energy in unison. 

As our podcast has grown we've really used the power of manifestation to materialize many of our goals, our guest and the...

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EP. 144: P.S. Your Mama Has a Past Feat. Natalie Alcala

Sorry Tribe!

We know we're late posting this visual episode! Better late than never cuz this one was a goodie!


2 weeks ago we were joined by @nataliealcala the founder of @fashionmamas ,the first and leading members community for diverse mothers in creative and dynamic industries.
We chat about the role drugs...

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BLOG: Love letters

A former lover has been writing me love letters everyday. Words used to be the way to my heart. My baby daddy used to write them. My young novice heart would pit patter receiving an email from him. He didn’t write in rhymes like this current former lover. He reserved those for records (yes he’s a rapper, but most of y’all know that by now).

I don’t care for words much anymore. Action is the way to my heart. However, my heart is temporarily closed until further notice. I know t...

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