sexplanations

Hi from Lindsey Doe

I'm in Slovenia.

I've been sick for a month and going through some personal things but otherwise my time away from the interwebs has been really nurturing. I am thinking about the future but right now it is important to me to be in an off mode -- to reset until closer to December and then turn the system back on again. Not Sexplanations per se but Lindsey the who knows what.

The reason I'm checking back in right now is to say that I'm in Europe for the next few months in case ...

We reached another milestone together

Thank you for being a partner of sorts in all of this and for sharing Sexplanations with people who need sex positive education. I'm grateful for you.

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Here's the link: lovecrave.com/lindsey (discount will automatically apply) exp: 11/29 at midnight.

so this is happening

2 things. 

1. It looks like we're going to hit 1 million in the next day or two. 

2. I'm trying my hardest to be available for a livestream when it does.
Right now I'm aiming for a livestream on Friday around 2 pm EST but even things move faster the livestream will be sooner.

I hope that if you're hoping to be there, for any of my sexedutaining, you're able to. I have Spanish class at 7 pm EST so my plan is to be online until then answering questions, having ...

Saturday

I'm back in Mexico after almost a month of travel. It's been deliciously challenging.
As you may know, I announced on Twitter that I'll be wrapping things up at the end of the year. It feels like the right thing to do but there's still a lot of mystery. Like what do I do with all the unfinished scripts and ideas and collected research? Gah.
I'm sure that the next two months will be very telling and things will also find a way of sorting themselves out. In the meantime, my intention is...

reposting /Show Me!/ full video TW: sexuality and nudity and children

My intention for Sexplanations was to read and respond to a book called Show Me! (Zeig Mal!) which shows explicit photographs of sexuality of children and adults. I wanted to continue the discussion of how this type of education is used and often censored but part way through filming I realized that /I/ was not comfortable with the content. Some of the images did not read as consensual and by today's standards could constitute as child p0rnography. Granted, multiple lawsuits have deemed the b...

Unlisted video TW: nudity, sexuality among minors

My intention for Sexplanations was to read and respond to a book called Show Me! (Zeig Mal!) which shows explicit photographs of sexuality of children and adults. I wanted to continue the discussion of how this type of education is used and often censored but part way through filming I realized that /I/ was not comfortable with the content. Some of the images did not read as consensual and by today's standards could constitute as child p0rnography. Granted, multiple lawsuits have deemed the b...

ohhhhh

I'm sitting on my floor. A floor in Missoula, Montana. I've been here for most of the day trying to plot out the future, even just the next week. It's difficult. There are lots of variables and considerations. You're one of them.

My thinking is that I take the Sexplanations RV south again through Idaho, Nevada, and Southern California to cross the border into Tijuana and finish my migration home to Baja California Sur where I live now. Sexplanations will stop permanently or temporaril...

Next for Sexplanations?

A few years ago, I told myself that I would wrap up my work with Sexplanations by my 40th birthday (November 24, 2021). I made a list of must-do videos before then and gave myself some brain space to come up with an exit strategy. The videos will likely not get done by then (there's always more I want to do) and I may change my mind but this is where I'm at today.  Curious what you think,
Lindsey

YOU MAKE THIS POSSIBLE

I like you

NEW VIDEO!

An apology

A few days ago I received a very special email titled: "I was an idiot in 2017 who left a shit message on one of your videos and I want to say I'm sorry"

There was a screen capture of the above message with the original comment and an updated comment left on the LGBTQuestioning video and a thoughtful message expressing remorse and gratitude. 

I asked this person if...

Video preview

Hola friends,

I'm not sure how this video is going to land or if it should. I'd love feedback. Maybe it never gets published. It was still important for me to say these things. Curious about your thoughts. 

Warmly, 

Lindsey

I'm going to post the pedophilia video

If you're available to share your amazing feedback in the comments section I would love that. You all said so many really insightful and thoughtful things which expand the conversation and help us all to grow. Thanks for being part of my think tank and support network. I'm in awe of you. Truly. 

Before publishing

I would love your feedback. 

spectrum

I vaguely remember asking people with autism if they wanted to help me make an episode about sex on the spectrum but I can't remember where. Anyone remember? 

Preview

I made a video about 10 things sex taught me about Covid and included self-disclosure that last month I tested Covid positive. I'm curious what you think. 

Feeling better

My symptoms seem to only have lasted two days.
I'm feeling mostly great aside from a small cut on my foot from the reef and some holes in my hands from a puppy I'm fostering.

I'm working on episodes about 10 things sex taught me about covid, sexual ageism, and sexual rejection. Just because those are the closest to my heart right now. Fingering is on the list too and prostate massage.

Do any of you know how to find my instragram account? I had one that was sexplanations bu...

I have Covid.

Hola from Baja,

I have Covid.

I’m not sure how. The people I spend any unmasked time around all tested negative. As you probably already know, the virus is baffling.

Anyway symptoms started last Tuesday. I thought they were allergies. Then I thought it was a cold from walking around in flipflops in the rain all day. I went to get tested on Wednesday to be safe. Symptoms were gone by Thursday. The test came back positive on Saturday.

When I first got the results I...

Topics to cover in the next three months

Hello incredible human, 

What topics would you like me to cover in these first few months of 2021?
I have some lined up already but I'd love to read your suggestions and preferences.
Below I've made a list of what's on my mind. Please feel free to add your own ideas. I'll try to do as many as possible in one form or another.
Warmly,
Lindsey

Community help

Dear Sexpla(i)nauts,

I find myself thinking about you a lot. I write long messages to you then delete them and write new ones. I wonder how you’re doing and if any of you are interested in driving the RV around (instead of it being parked in snowy Montana). I wonder if you can help me with the book I’m writing and if that’s even appropriate to ask. It’s 2020 and my social schema is all misshapen. I’m not really sure how to engage right now.

To try, I’ve wrapped myself ...

Please share

Hi All, 

I'm writing from sunny Mexico where life is a postcard dream.
I have so much to tell you but today I have to keep it brief (working on a book writing deadline).  This video was really generously sponsored by Uqora so I'd like it to get as much traction as possible. If you feel comfortable sharing it that would be wonderful.
I appreciate you!!!!!

Sydney teaches me about her dating experiences

and yes she's a woman and yes she's attractive so this isn't relatable for everyone but I liked satisfying some of my curiosity

Sex & Covid video

plan questions

Hola Sexpla(i)nauts,

Time for some updates and questions from your internet sexologist. I love sharing my plans with you and getting your input. Of course no expectations. You’re not responsible for my course of action but it is wonderful to learn from you.

As you may know, I travelled north in the RV with 7 dogs to spend the summer in Missoula. Now I’m writing in ski pants to cope with snow and gearing up to head south. Before I head out there are some housekeeping things to ...

unlisted blurry video by dr. doe

HI! I again tried filming and editing by myself because the videographer is busy with his day job and well, covid. Unfortunately I bumped a dial on the camera and even with a phone call to reset everything the quality declined.
Not realizing how blurry it was, because of my little computer screen, I proceeded to edit it and now there's a finished product ... that's really challenging to watch if you're used to Lindsey with makeup in focus. This is Lindsey without makeup and without bra be...

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new experience

guess who hasn't ever operated her own fancy ass camera to film sexplanations? until today. 

and because everyone is tight on time and covid cautious etc. I not only got to record this episode, I got to humbly edit it. 

I've always had so much respect for my colleagues like Hannah and Shan and Laci and Reid and Ash ... who have done this for years but I'm really feeling it today. 

can you take a look and let me know if it's okay to put this out into the world?...

Tomorrow's Livestream

I'm leaning toward doing a livestream as tomorrow's Sexplanations' episode so I wanted to check-in with you on what times work best.

It may not happen but I'd like to have a well-planned option. 

What do you think?

Final version

Thank you for guiding me through this. I took your suggestions very seriously.
This episode was filmed on August 11, 2020. It was edited in three different ways before committing to this version. You helped tremendously in making me feel safe to publish it and in that way you helped the audience learn something very special. Thank you for being a beautiful part of my life. I cherish you!