Get out your poster
or pen and paper. Time to fill in those Want/Will/Won’t lists!
You want a better sex life?
One of the most helpful exercises I do with students and clients is a Want/Will/Won’t ...
2016-02-25 20:19:50 +0000 UTC View Post
How do you know when your crush likes you: growing up in the 80s & 90s version.
2016-02-11 05:22:06 +0000 UTC View PostThis is a lot more work than I thought it would be but I love doing it because I get to learn about all the cool sex conferences happening around the world as well as the random inventions and things from history that do impact our sexualities today. Thank you all for giving me the opportunity to put this together and for supporting us on Patreon. You're awesome!
2016-02-02 07:04:09 +0000 UTC View PostThis week I hosted a Livestream. Maybe you stopped by to check it out. We couldn’t get the sound to work despite turning everything off and on again, ending one stream for another, checking system preferences, speakers etc. At first I thought it was a bummer. Then, bored with the sound of my own voice, I went to YouTube for some background music. With earbuds in I turned up the volume as loudly as I wanted and typed in the chat bar about the unfortunate lack of dialogue. It was at th...
2016-01-19 00:50:19 +0000 UTC View Post
I'm going live in 5 minutes
2016-01-17 19:52:41 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the second part of a blowjob series. I organized the episode so it focuses on the top 14 concerns people have about performing fellatio. My intent was, and is, to remove the barriers that get in the way of people even trying. Trying, practicing is really where skill comes from, right!?
One of the main concerns I decided to tackle is not knowing what to do. at. all. What happens during a blowjob? I understand the mystery and confusion. I've heard many stories of people lit...
2016-01-14 04:06:48 +0000 UTC View PostYou know what bugs me? Every time I’m having sex I start thinking about sex tips I can give you for supporting Sexplanations on Patreon. I start thinking about Patreon during sex! But that’s not the part that bugs me. What bugs me is that when I’m not having sex I can’t remember what was so innovative and cool in the heat of the moment and I don’t end up sending you anything at all. So your tip for the day is to get a washable marker and leave it by the bed, or wherever you h...
2016-01-13 04:56:37 +0000 UTC View PostThis is the first calendar month of 2016. If you have any suggestions on how it can be improved or what needs to be added in future months please let me know. Thanks!
2016-01-01 20:28:50 +0000 UTC View Post
http://www.poll-maker.com/poll530663xd44c4d24-22
To start off the new year I listed some topics that have been tumbling around in my head and thought you could help choose what gets prioritized. There's also a place to add your own responses and I hope that you all give some suggestions so that I can draw from those for February's ballot. HAPPY NEW YEAR!f
2015-12-31 22:19:41 +0000 UTC View Post
This is our third end of the year chat on Sexplanations. I'm so thankful for both of these guys and for all of you! The experience has been amazing!
2015-12-30 23:56:34 +0000 UTC View Post
If you're into this video you can thank yourself! $8+ patrons get a ballot each month to vote on the content they want to see prioritized. This month they voted for three topics that I hope to accomplish before 2016. Sex Toys was one, Unrequited Love the second, and the third I'll surprise you with, unless you were on the livestream in which case, hopefully I succeed at my mission.
Warmly,
Lindsey
2015-12-17 05:39:06 +0000 UTC View PostDear Care Package Recipients of 2015,
I'm experiencing a quandary. I have yet to send you anything for November and now December. I have all these ideas of course like VHS tapes of recorded lectures from my doctoral program, blow-job kits, props from the show, handwritten letters... but I'm not settling on anything as a GOOD idea. So this letter has two purposes. One, to determine what it is that you'd actually like me to send (books from my shelves, postcards from my upcoming junket, et...
2015-12-16 18:34:44 +0000 UTC View PostThese are written for partnered sex but you can do them solo too. I wrote them as short to-dos so you'd be able to check them off easily. They're also made to work for any sex/gender/budget/location/relationship dynamic. And remember for everything I suggest there is a difference between making a decision to do something and actually doing it.
1: Have sex in the mirror so you can see more of what is happening and not just rely on your skin to send messages to your brain...
2015-12-10 23:13:31 +0000 UTC View Post
There are so many words we use that have sexual meanings and negative connotations. Do you know the etymology of all the ones we list? Are you curious?
2015-11-26 05:22:07 +0000 UTC View Post
http://www.poll-maker.com/poll489176xfd52E3b2-20
Please let me know what thoughts you have for the rest of this year's videos. You can vote for more than one topic! Thanks!
2015-11-20 18:10:33 +0000 UTC View Post
https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/sexplanations
This is the last chance you have to respond to our Sexplanations survey before we analyze the results. Nick and Matt and I are going to hang out together tomorrow morning and read through all your thoughts about us and the show. I’m sooooo excited!!!! And yes, we'll be recording it ;o)
2015-11-20 06:07:29 +0000 UTC View Post
Thanks for your patience with this one. I tried to do something different. It wasn't what I had hoped but I'm still proud of myself for trying. Please leave lots of nice comments for Matt for all his extra work to annotate this all. What a guy!
2015-11-20 03:46:16 +0000 UTC View Post
https://hangouts.google.com/?action=call&id=ftun32rcnpp7lezh55ycfndvjma
2015-11-19 19:44:20 +0000 UTC View PostMatt and I are meeting tomorrow morning to do a re-work on what would have been today's episode. After that meeting I'd like to do a live stream. If all goes well that will be around 11 Mountain Time.
2015-11-19 06:12:27 +0000 UTC View PostI saved reading the comments on yesterdays video to do a live stream and read them with YOU! Unfortunately I had to take my morning and handle some odd life challenges. I'm still in the midst of them and wish with all my heart that instead I was live streaming with YOU. Please forgive me. I'm doing the best I can right now. I promise to make it up to you.
Hugs (because I need them too ;o)
Lindsey
2015-11-13 01:28:21 +0000 UTC View Post
Tomorrow morning I'll be online to read the comments as a group and hear your thoughts about this episode.
The failure of our system to inform people has led to some dangerous ideas about conception and contraception.
2015-11-05 04:43:06 +0000 UTC View Post
Thank you for supporting me on Patreon!!!!!
2015-10-29 20:59:50 +0000 UTC View Post
We’ll have a new Sexplanations tomorrow. It is a dense episode that needs more time. Meanwhile here’s a doeeyes episode for you related to sexuality. Sure, I talk about my braces and my travels but I also talk about what it’s like realizing that my field of sexology is plagued like many others, and society at large, with rampant racism. Oh, and I had the most emotional honor of all – speaking at the high school I not only attended but grew up at. I learned they no longer have sex educati...
2015-10-29 03:05:15 +0000 UTC View Post
I was able to sit on the red couch with transgender activist, author, and educator Jamison "James" Green. In you've missed Sexplanations' weekly episodes, I'll return to posting them on Patreon regularly. Thank you for supporting us!!! We're almost to 200,000 subscribers and $6,000 raised on Patreon!!
2015-10-23 01:35:13 +0000 UTC View Post
