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🐌 Snail Update 🐌

Look who just slithered on in! 😂 The wooden ones too! 

We're going to be packaging them up over the next few weeks 💛

I can't wait to see your photos on Discord when these start arriving! 

P.S. Lewis and I are now debating whether snails 'slither'. Lewis just said, 'I would say they crawl, but they don't have arms' 😂😂😂

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How to Tell People You're Autistic + Parenting Struggles | Autistic Advice #2

The 2nd exclusive advice video! More ramblings from me!

Earrings can be found here: https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1045161986/plumbob-earrings-all-colours-available?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_t...

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💜 Choose Next Month's Exclusive Video 💜

'Reacting to a mini-documentary about a school for autistic girls in the UK' won the latest reaction video poll! I've recorded it (I think I cried at least 3 times) and it'll be up in the next couple of weeks 🥰

If you have any other suggestions feel free to leave them in the comments below or share them on Discord! 🐌 If you saw something on a previous poll that you'd like back on next month's poll, just let me know 😊

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The Impact of Autism on Sex & Relationships | Reacting to Sex Educator Hannah Witton

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💛 Choose Next Month's Exclusive Video 💛

You chose 'The Impact of Autism on Sex & Relationships' for this month. It's currently being edited and will be uploaded next week 😁

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Choose the third episode of the Alltistic Podcast!

What should be talk about in December? 

If you have any questions or suggestions for the next poll, just let me know 💛🐌

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A few photos to go alongside the last exclusive podcast episode! 💛

First of all, we have that gorgeous piece of lettuce Lewis and I were served at a friend's wedding. Gotta love a good vegan option 🥬 Our son did get some lovely vegan nuggets and chips!

Secondly, the shoes my photographer insulted.

Thirdly, it me (and a little bit of Lewis).

Lewis and I with that lovely filing cabinet. That coat-hanger, though 😉

And finally, a couple of photos of our rings!

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The Alltistic Podcast Episode 2 - Our 'Anti-Social' Wedding Story!

You requested it in the poll, so here's the story of our weird little wedding, which took place in the cupboard under the stairs, in front of a beautiful (/s) filing cabinet. I'll share some photos soon in another post (including that lettuce from the other wedding 😂).

If you have any ideas for next time, comment below and I can include them in a future poll 💛

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SNAIL UPDATE 🐌🐌🐌🐌

Snails are in production!! Make sure your address is correct in settings 💛

I'll update you again when Lewis and I start packaging 🎁 

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Why are we so Lonely? + HELP THIS PERSON PICK A GUITAR + More | Autistic Advice

Thank you so much for all of your submissions for the Autistic Advice Patreon Series! 🎸

Here's the first 'episode'. As I said in the video, any that aren't included I have collated in a special spreadsheet. I'm excited to film November's soon 🐌 💛

If you have a problem/question/dilemma for a future episode, feel free to email it to advice@imautisticnowwhat.com with the word 'PATREON' in the subject line.

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SNAIL UPDATE 🐌🐌🐌

Just letting you know the plan regarding the snail badges!

I'll place the final order immediately after the 12th of November, once I know exactly how many we need  💛 That way we can be a little more eco-friendly and minimise any excess 🌍

Once they arrive with me, I'll be packing them up myself and posting via Royal Mail.

If you need to update your address and you can't figure out how to do so (I demonstrated it at the end of the announcement video), please send me...

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🐌 Names in Credits 🐌

A few people have emailed to ask that their Patreon username NOT be included in the credits of upcoming videos or have asked that I use a nickname instead. 

This is not a problem at all! If anyone else would like to opt-out, please let me know asap via messages 💛

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2nd Exclusive Video for October!!

I need your questions/dilemmas/problems for my first Patreon-exclusive agony-aunt style video. You can send them in via messages on here or email them to:

advice@imautisticnowwhat.com (be sure to put 'Patreon' in the subject line so I don't mix them up with the main channel submissions).

I'll keep you anonymous 🐌

You're also welcome to send in general Q&A questions if you'd prefer. Feel free to comment them here too.

Childhood photo for attention 😅

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What would you like to see as my next Patreon exclusive reaction video?

Each month, you'll get to choose the Patreon exclusive reaction video for the following month. If you have other suggestions, feel free to comment below or send them in via messages!

But out of the following options, which would you most like to see...

Please submit your votes ASAP, as I'm going to be recording the video soon 💛

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I AM AUTISM | A reaction to Autism Speaks!

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Choose the Next Episode of the Alltistic Podcast!

What shall we waffle about for an hour this time? Feel free to comment other suggestions too! 

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The Alltistic Podcast Episode 1 - How did Lewis & I Meet?

Lewis is back! We're telling the story of how we met in 2012 and eventually got our act together and became a couple in 2015. Get a cup of tea and enjoy the gossip with us! Hopefully this will provide you with a bit of context for future episodes.

Apologies for the fact that I speak a little more quietly than Lewis here. I was recovering from a cough and knew if I spoke too loudly, I'd go into a coughing fit 😅 Hopefully I won't still be ill for the next one. 

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