Dr Kirk is quoted in a HuffPo article about Adolescence (Netflix)
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Transference, Contraindication, and Sharing Art
Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 What does the end of a good therapeutic relationship look like?
04:44 Does there have to be conflict for progress in therapy?
15:22 Do I have to meet an ex-client to receive their feedback?
22:05 Is couples therapy contraindicated?
27:35 Can you guide the client into terminating?
31:18 Is there an ethical obligation to meet with this client?
40:58 Is it OK for clients to share art with their ther...
2025-04-04 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostNarrative Therapy (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about narrative therapy.
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2025-04-03 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostStop Having Sex With Clients
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca review ethical cases.
00:00 Intro
01:37 Can clients be friends with their therapists?
18:06 My therapist is pseudo-family
38:50 Having an affair with my ex-therapist
1:06:47 Lady Gaga & self-care
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Psychedelic Assisted Therapy (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Can psychedelics be used to help people? What’s the science? Expert and researcher, Elizabeth Nielson, explains the science and how we know what we know.
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2025-04-01 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostOscars, Alien Franchise, and Robert Crumb
Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about movies.
00:00 On Cinema at the Cinema journey
06:59 Oscar results & reactions
33:47 Why did Joker: Folie à Deux get bad reviews?
39:49 How do the Alien movies rank?
58:29 Crumb
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Loli Porn and Star Wars Poly
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron/member emails.
00:00 Intro
01:45 Does watching loli porn make me a pedophile?
42:56 Resonating with Star Wars
55:55 How much privacy is owed post-mortem?
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Piaget and Child Development (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about Jean Piaget and his research on child development.
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Therapist Unpopular Opinions
Dr Kirk and Bob discuss a Reddit thread regarding the unpopular opinions of therapists.
00:00 "I hate DBT"
05:22 "CEUs are a scam"
20:52 "Only serious rest cures burnout"
33:56 "Not every kid needs a 'fix'"
1:01:33 Bob's bathroom remodel update!
1:05:09 "Therapists should be in therapy"
1:05:30 "Money hoarding should be listed in the DSM"
1:09:06 "Neurodivergent is too broad a term"
1:12:25 "IFS is not rocket science...
2025-03-26 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View PostSuing a counselor (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Bob Goettle about a counselor who got sued successfully.
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Politically Problematic Friends, Toxic Masculinity, and Love Frugality
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron/member emails.
00:00 Humberto's thoughts on Emilia Perez
03:54 Deep dive relevancy
09:25 Can I be friends with different beliefs?
23:43 Dating and approaching with empathy
30:44 How has our society changed from domestic terrorism?
43:24 With age, do people get frugal with love?
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2025-03-24 11:00:11 +0000 UTC View PostAdam Nimoy's Life with a Vulcan Father
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Adam Nimoy about his new book about growing up with a distant, alcoholic father: Leonard Nimoy.
00:00 Introducing Adam Nimoy & "The Most Human: Reconciling with My Father"
16:07 Taking inventory & choosing happiness
25:05 The influence of Star Trek
42:36 Adam's key takeaways
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2025-03-21 11:00:13 +0000 UTC View PostMalpractice and Incompetence (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda presents a case of malpractice.
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2025-03-20 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View PostTherapy Termination, ACOA, and Couple Therapy
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 How important are goodbyes?
12:35 ACOA & butler syndrome fallibility
29:34 How do you know if a family is ready for couples therapy?
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Stanford Prison Experiment (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about the famous Stanford prison experiment of 1971.
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2025-03-18 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostMy License Complaint and Other Legal Matters
Dr Kirk Honda talks with Frances Schopick, JD, MSW about his license complaint and other legal matters. Disclaimers: This information in this presentation is for educational and informational purposes only. This presentation does not form an attorney/client relationship, or provide, constitute, or substitute for legal or clinical advice, advocacy, representation, supervision, or consultation. Do not form legal conclusions or policies based on this presentation. This information is not intende...
2025-03-17 11:00:10 +0000 UTC View PostLoving Therapists, Narcissistic Clients, and God Transference
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Can therapists tell their clients they love them?
21:36 Why isn't my therapist challenging me in therapy?
28:49 Treating narcissistic clients
45:31 What is transference in therapy?
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Grief Theory (Deep Dive) #2 (Your Emails) (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss.
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Reviewing Movies of 2024
Dr Kirk and Collin Miller review movies from 2024.
00:00 Calling in with Collin Miller
00:35 Second place films
24:11 Most controversial rankings
59:14 Movies at the bottom of the list
1:21:44 5 stars
1:27:11 6 stars
1:28:50 AI in films
1:42:21 7 stars
1:51:57 8 stars
2:04:24 Dr. Kirk's Number 1
2:07:25 Collin's Top 15
2:21:44 Collin's Number 1
2:26:38 Emilia Perez
2:30:05 The Tie-in Podcast (the_tie_in_podcas...
2025-03-12 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostGrief Theory (Deep Dive) #1 (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss.
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Bad Therapists and Eye Contact
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Eagles Super Bowl win
02:35 Can clients question their therapist?
33:08 Dr. Kirk's pet peeve of discernment counseling
40:02 Is eye contact in therapy important?
43:44 Am I abandoning my clients if I'm not being paid?
51:44 Addressing tough topics in therapy
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2025-03-10 11:00:13 +0000 UTC View PostPoly Pressure, Love Songs, and Spanish Shame
Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Kink pressure
19:40 What songs accurately depict love?
34:58 Alignment chart and shopping carts
45:10 "Pedo" guy
47:5 Expressing shame in Spanish
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10 Tips on Counseling Men (2015 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how to counsel men.
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2025-03-06 12:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostPedophile Questions, Validating Distortions, and AI Psychologists
Dr Kirk Honda responds to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Was he a pedophile or just immature?
21:37 Does Dr. Kirk validate falsehoods?
32:50 Where does Dr. Kirk draw the line?
36:39 AI Psychologists
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Repressed Memories (Deep Dive)(2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about repressed memories and the new Netflix documentary, The Keepers.
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Kirk's Climate Rage
Dr Kirk Honda rants and rages about climate change.
00:00 Does Dr. Kirk think that climate change is hopeless?
21:09 Predicted impacts of climate change
55:01 Lying & individual impact
1:05:23 Dr. Kirk's climate summary & hope
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Pedophile Kinks, Alpha Males, and Systems Theory
Dr Kirk Honda responds to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Are DDLG relationships potential treatment for MAPs?
26:12 Why is being an alpha male considered a good thing?
47:10 What do these bootcamps promise?
1:03:21 Could there be positive outcomes from these bootcamps?
1:28:18 Is family systems theory interchangeable with internal family systems?
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How to Fail as a Therapist (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how therapists fail their clients.
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Disney Kinks and Touch Fears
Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Is it normal to develop a kink in childhood?
22:41 Why are power fantasies appealing?
42:59 Is my affection towards my children appropriate?
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When Clients are Dangerous (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the new laws regarding duty to warn.
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