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PIS Shame, Coach Scams, and Implanted Memories

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member emails.

00:00 Why am I embarrassed that I listen to PiS?

11:41 Are relationship retreats legit?

23:20 What is the difference between false memory syndrome and real traumatic events?

55:43 Is hypnosis legitimate? 

59:51 Can false memories traumatize you?

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Trauma and Transphobia

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails

00:00 Rebecca processes trauma

24:36 Merch for Rebecca

27:29 OPP 2023

29:22 How can I be a safe place for gender diverse students?

44:01 How can I help those that have been affected by a disaster? 

51:23 Where can anti-zionist Jews meet in Seattle?

55:26 How can I stay connected with my family when they don't accept my partner? 

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EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the trauma therapy EMDR.

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Murderer obsession, ethical dumping, and cheating therapists

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 How can I care for my partner's past disconnection? 

19:41 Local delicacies

29:33 Why do some people become obsessed with murderers?

37:48 Does therapy change friendships?

51:50 Is there a way to ethically dump a friend?

55:38 Should a therapist disclose if they've cheated?

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Minuchin and Structural Family Therapy (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on Salvador Minuchin and structural family therapy.

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Hope In Humanity and Analyzing Friends

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Pre-Superbowl football

04:05 Mindful parenting

10:03 A positive impact and work in therapy

15:03 Is redemption possible?

32:38 PIS role models

34:57 Could I have avoided a friend breakup?

51:31 Will I always analyze my friends?

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Clean Freaks, Narcissistic Victims, and Crappy Phobias

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member questions.

00:00 How can I be comfortable in a dirty space?

08:15 Is my friend respecting my boundaries?

25:35 Do anxious and avoidant attachment go together? 

32:47 Can narcissists be victims?

39:03 Can therapy help me with loneliness?

44:55 Being the productivity scapegoat 

1:03:43 Bathroom anxiety

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Nagy's Contextual Family Therapy (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)

Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on Nagy and contextual family therapy.

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Orgasm Gap and Unwanted Flaccidity

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Ewa Lichnowska (www.pleasurematterstherapy.com) about sexuality and sex therapy.

00:00 Introducing Ewa Lichnowska

04:48 Why did Ewa pursue sex therapy?

09:28 What is the orgasm gap?

31:08 The 5 gears of sex

42:50 Compassionate approaches to male sexuality

56:15 Myths about porn

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Couples Therapy (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob Goettle talk about couples therapy.

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Nice Sociopaths, Schizoid Parenting, and Andrew Tate

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member questions.

00:00 What do nice sociopaths look like?

18:50 Emotional attunement in parenting

24:42 Should a therapist disclose a chronic condition?

32:01 Can children be influenced by a schizoid parent?

36:49 Why does my boyfriend watch Andrew Tate?

44:38 What is impatience?

52:23 Can therapy help clients that self-diagnose? 

57:20 Dr. Kirk's musical recommendations

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David Lynch Movies

Dr Kirk and Humberto remember the work of David Lynch.

00:00 Overall best and worst David Lynch movies

20:58 OPP 2023

27:45 Humberto's birthday

42:27 OPP 2023

43:28 Twin Peaks

47:04 Rating the rest of David Lynch's movies

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15 Amateurish Things Therapists Say (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda reveals 15 amateurish things that therapists say.

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Dreams, Dyslexia, and Seattle Freeze

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron and member questions.

00:00 Dreams about PiS

09:04 Dr. Kirk's dyslexia journey

27:01 Strategically reading for graduate school

38:49 Seattle Freeze & generalizations

59:54 Understanding paranoid personality disorder

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Cognitive Processing Therapy (Deep Dive) (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda critiques cognitive processing therapy and other trauma therapies, along with talking about the This American Life episode that presented the therapy.

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Libido and Chappell Roan

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

00:00 Why do I have low libido? 

05:47 Handling a surprise pregnancy

13:42 Bad therapists & sex work in clinical therapy

40:41 Intimacy in long distance relationships

48:35 Chappell Roan's rise and setting boundaries

1:04:37 Why do clients terminate?

1:19:05 What trainings are helpful as a new clinician?

1:29:09 How can I start a support group?

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 9)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Additional allegations against Diddy 

18:55 Tony Buzbee's involvement

29:19 Three thousand allegations & arrest

34:10 Potential other offenders

50:26 What factors let Diddy operate for so long?  

1:00:26 Does Diddy exhibit traits of the dark tetrad? 

1:16:43 Final words 

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 9)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Additional allegations against Diddy 

18:55 Tony Buzbee's involvement

29:19 Three thousand allegations & arrest

34:10 Potential other offenders

50:26 What factors let Diddy operate for so long?  

1:00:26 Does Diddy exhibit traits of the dark tetrad? 

1:16:43 Final words 

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 8)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 TW: Graphic crimes

00:43 Settling the lawsuit

03:31 Reviewing factors to the inflection point

13:35 Rodney Jones & additional lawsuits

31:56 Lawsuits against Cuba Gooding Jr.

36:12 Humberto's inflection point

39:37 CNN footage of Cassie's assault

45:52 Diddy's apology video

56:17 Further allegations against Diddy

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 8)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 TW: Graphic crimes

00:43 Settling the lawsuit

03:31 Reviewing factors to the inflection point

13:35 Rodney Jones & additional lawsuits

31:56 Lawsuits against Cuba Gooding Jr.

36:12 Humberto's inflection point

39:37 CNN footage of Cassie's assault

45:52 Diddy's apology video

56:17 Further allegations against Diddy

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 7)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 What is the turning point in society for predators?

02:55 Bill Cosby

11:18 Larry Nassar

18:26 Prompting the MeToo movement

21:52 Louis C.K.

40:37 Kevin Spacey

44:34 John Lasseter

47:39 Matt Lauer

52:34 Charlie Rose

53:13 Jeffrey Epstein

1:05:27 R. Kelly

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 7)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 What is the turning point in society for predators?

02:55 Bill Cosby

11:18 Larry Nassar

18:26 Prompting the MeToo movement

21:52 Louis C.K.

40:37 Kevin Spacey

44:34 John Lasseter

47:39 Matt Lauer

52:34 Charlie Rose

53:13 Jeffrey Epstein

1:05:27 R. Kelly

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Is Elon Musk a Nazi? - The Psychology of Elon Musk (Chap 17 - Nazi Salute)

Did Elon Musk give the Nazi salute? We continue our deep dive into his psychology.

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 6 - Cassie Drops a Bomb)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Allegation from Cindy Rueda

10:36 Kim Porter's death

18:55 Gina Huynh's allegations

38:54 Dating Yung Miami and Diana Tran

41:43 Cassie's career and history with Diddy

47:04 Cassie's lawsuit against Diddy

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The Psychology of Diddy - (Chapter 6 - Cassie Drops a Bomb)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Allegation from Cindy Rueda

10:36 Kim Porter's death

18:55 Gina Huynh's allegations

38:54 Dating Yung Miami and Diana Tran

41:43 Cassie's career and history with Diddy

47:04 Cassie's lawsuit against Diddy

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Psychopathy v Sociopathy, and Mass Shootings (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] What’s the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy?

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 5 - Eerie Compassion)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Get Him to the Greek & questionable movie scenes

25:17 Changing his name to Swag

29:08 Fighting Drake in 2014

37:03 Changing his name to Brother Love

39:47 Brief Vogue interview

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 5 - Eerie Compassion)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Get Him to the Greek & questionable movie scenes

25:17 Changing his name to Swag

29:08 Fighting Drake in 2014

37:03 Changing his name to Brother Love

39:47 Brief Vogue interview

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Victim Blaming (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Our legal system and society are broken and rape victims continue to be disbelieved, mistreated, and stigmatized. We review the new Netflix show Unbelievable. We also talk with Christy Forrester about her rape experience, her struggle with the legal system, and her path to advocacy and becoming a therapist.

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 4 - Shooting)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Dating Jennifer Lopez & court history

03:12 1999 Nightclub shooting

22:14 Why did Mase retire in 1999? 

27:49 The trial

35:51 Fallout after the trial

43:42 Why would he change his name again? 

46:14 Acting & further court cases

49:57 Relationships & dating Cassie

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