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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 4 - Shooting)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Dating Jennifer Lopez & court history

03:12 1999 Nightclub shooting

22:14 Why did Mase retire in 1999? 

27:49 The trial

35:51 Fallout after the trial

43:42 Why would he change his name again? 

46:14 Acting & further court cases

49:57 Relationships & dating Cassie

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The Psychology of Diddy - (Chapter 3 - Beef)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 East v. West coast feud

13:53 Theories around Tupac's death

17:45 Theories around Biggie's death

26:55 How did Biggie's death affect Sean?

31:56 I'll Be Missing You rant

52:00 Party culture

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 3 - Beef)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 East v. West coast feud

13:53 Theories around Tupac's death

17:45 Theories around Biggie's death

26:55 How did Biggie's death affect Sean?

31:56 I'll Be Missing You rant

52:00 Party culture

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Malpractice Claim (Bob's First Episode) (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun} Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Bob Goettle about a malpractice claim.

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The Psychology of Diddy - (Chapter 2 - The Rise)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Sean Combs childhood

12:17 Starting in the music industry

15:32 Renaming himself Puff Daddy and rise in the industry

25:25 Biggy arrives on the scene

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 2 - The Rise)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Sean Combs childhood

12:17 Starting in the music industry

15:32 Renaming himself Puff Daddy and rise in the industry

25:25 Biggy arrives on the scene

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Sexual Attraction in Therapy (2015 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Paulette Perhach talk about sexual attraction in therapy.

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The Psychology of Diddy - (Chapter 1 - Top Monster)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Who is Sean Combs?

10:50 What are the allegations against him?

31:05 Estimated victims of famous perpetrators

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The Psychology of Diddy (Chapter 1 - Top Monster)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs.

00:00 Who is Sean Combs?

10:50 What are the allegations against him?

31:05 Estimated victims of famous perpetrators

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Suicide Leads to Counselor Lawsuit

Dr Kirk and Bob review a case in which a counselor is sued after a suicide.

00:00 Introducing the case

09:32 A stalemate in therapy & losing perspective

20:35 Transference with BPD clients

39:04 How can you approach suicidal gestures? 

49:44 Is having a safety plan enough?

55:14 Defining a gesture

59:20 Client suicide

1:02:19 Suing the counselor

1:04:07 Why are ethics cases compelling (or not)?

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Why Do People Join Cults? (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Alexandra Stein about why people join cults. She talks about her own experience in a cult.

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Empathy Confusion (Deep Dive, Chapter 4)

Dr Kirk lectures about empathy.

00:00 Empathy thread on Reddit 

08:08 What definition of empathy is being used? 

22:54 Do sadists have empathy?

25:13 Is empathy identification?

26:57 Dissecting Reddit's definitions of empathy

46:18 What does it mean to put yourself in someone else's shoes?

52:06 Why is understanding empathy important?

54:31 Misunderstanding empathy

59:01 Conclusion

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Social Media Ethics (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda provides a 4-hour training on the ethics of using social media.

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Ten Types of Empathy (Deep Dive, Chapter 3)

Dr Kirk lectures about empathy.

00:00 The types of empathy

02:01 Compassionate empathy 

04:51 Sympathy

07:20 Emotional vicarious empathy

11:24 Somatic empathy

13:24 Phenomenological empathy

21:18 Rapport empathy

26:59 Cognitive empathy

33:22 Background empathy

43:36 Defining the groups of empathy

46:22 Emotional availability empathy 

47:43 Attunement empathy

51:19 Delineating types of empathy

59:09 S...

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Interview with Pedophile-Father

Interview with Pedophile/Father

Dr Kirk Honda interviews a pedophile and father.

For more information on non-offending pedophiles: virped.org and mapsupport.club and mapresources.info.

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DBT Skill - Non-judgment (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] How can we refrain from destructive judgment? Bob presents another DBT skill with Dr. Kirk Honda.

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Borderline Personality (live stream lecture)

Dr Kirk Honda provides a lecture on borderline personality while livestreaming for HealthyGamer.

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Borderline Personality (live stream lecture)

Dr Kirk Honda provides a lecture on borderline personality while livestreaming for HealthyGamer.

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TToB: The first Tough or Bluff happened before Avatar, Up, and Despicable Me. Tough or Bluff???

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Cutting and Self Harm (Deep Dive)(2015 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda provides information and treatment guidelines on cutting, self-harm, and nonsuicidal self-injury.

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Email: 2024-12-31 12:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post

HealthyGamer, Beginnings, and License Reprimand

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dr Alok Kanojia (“Dr K”) from HealthyGamer about his career, the many achievements of the HealthyGamer team, and Dr K’s license reprimand.

00:00 Introducing Dr. K from HealthyGamer

00:54 Dr. K's experience with UnitedHealthcare

05:38 Why did Dr. K become a psychiatrist? 

11:54 Did Dr. K plan on becoming a content creator?

24:57 Reckful & Dr. K's reprimand

42:36 How do clinicians exist in a public world?

51:...

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United Insurance and Sex Questions

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails and talk about the recent United HealthCare debate.

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Dating Your Therapist (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Is it ever ok to date your therapist? Dr. Kirk Honda discusses the ethics and likely traumas.

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Sex Emails

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer emails regarding sex, including an email from a possible perpetrator.

00:00 Retroactive jealousy

12:10 Sexting boundaries

17:46 2023 OPP

19:24 Navigating libido

31:25 2023 OPP

32:15 TW SA Did I commit an evil act?

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TToB: 13% of Americans self-identify as pathological liars. Tough or Bluff???

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Coping with Alzheimer's (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun[ Dr. Kirk Honda talks about coping with Alzheimer's

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Bad Borderline Therapists

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Is it ethical to terminate for BPD symptoms?

23:03 2023 OPP

24:03 What is splitting?

32:32 Effective BPD treatment with comorbidities

41:44 NPD v. BPD v. Abuse

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Covert Narcissism, CPTSD, and Red Flags

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob talk about their covert narcissism and also explore CPTSD.

00:00 Why it's patron only

00:53 Clarifying C-PTSD

25:06 2023 OPP

26:51 Gifts for Bob

31:50 Stigma in the ICD-11 

46:37 2023 OPP

49:10 Are these big red flags?

1:11:20 Psych book recommendation & object relations theory

1:24:15 Covert narcissism

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Child Therapy Issues (2015 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks about child therapy issues

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Self-Malingering, Road Rage, and Other Topics

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Why would someone engage in catfishing?

13:04 Is it ethical to verbally take consent? 

25:24 Difficulty in therapy while intellectualizing

27:10 Assisted death and non-terminal diagnosis

37:24 Trauma from invasive procedures

40:23 Where does road rage come from?

48:41 Labeling someone as abusive in therapy

52:57 Interpreting self-malingerance

1:02:29 Responsibility trauma

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