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Minecraft Therapy (2015 Rerun)
Dr. Kirk Honda discusses Minecraft therapy
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2024-12-17 12:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostEmpathy and Psychopathy (Deep Dive, Chapter 2)
Dr Kirk applies the recent empathy lecture to someone with antisocial personality.
00:00 Misunderstanding ASPD
10:04 Is empathy necessary to be a good therapist?
21:43 Feeling and showing empathy
31:30 Empathy as a skill
40:01 ASPD in the clinical space
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Empathy (Deep Dive, Chapter 1)
Dr Kirk lectures about empathy.
00:00 What is empathy?
10:55 Etymology
16:01 The history in psychotherapy
26:34 Defining empathy
48:37 General typology
58:57 Therapeutical typology
1:12:15 Why does understanding empathy matter?
1:19:34 Empathy vs. sympathy
1:27:05 Compassion & other similar terminology.
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Sleep Deprivation (2015 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Kristin McGee about sleep deprivation and the difference between evening and morning people.
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Humberto's Friend Died
Humberto’s good friend died.
00:00 Humberto's friend Ron
15:20 Showing up authentically
23:01 When did Humberto find out?
28:23 Suffering from addiction & anticipatory grief
31:10 Parallel trauma brothers
1:06:47 Humberto's reflection
1:13:20 How we show it matters
1:32:45 Personal growth
1:42:28 Future loss
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TToB: American GenX-ers are lonelier than European GenX-ers. Tough or Bluff???
2024-12-10 15:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostToxic Masculinity Debate (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto discuss toxic masculinity
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2024-12-10 12:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostMy Experience With UnitedHealthcare
Regarding the recent killing of UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson, Dr Kirk Honda discusses his experiences with United and provides recommendations.
00:00 Dr. Kirk's experience with UniteHealthcare
17:14 Can we change the system?
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Bad Supervisors and Loving PIS
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Figuring out your style in therapy
03:55 I have a bad supervisor, what do I do?
08:36 Is it weird for my ex-therapist to be my supervisor?
16:56 2023 OPP
17:31 A follow up on therapist fraud
38:54 2023 OPP
40:02 Is it normal to meet Borderline clients' attachments in therapy?
42:37 Trauma & Humanistic psychology
52:03 Suffering from postpartum depression and anxiety
55:07 Seeing Borderli...
2024-12-06 12:00:06 +0000 UTC View PostWhy People Avoid Therapy (2014 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about why people avoid therapy
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Gaslighting vs Lying
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Organizing PiS
30:08 2022 OPP
31:40 Forensic psychology & awareness of gaslighting
37:55 Selective memory vs. gaslighting and patterns of abuse
50:30 2022 OPP
52:04 The misuse and overapplication of gaslighting
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<... 2024-12-04 12:00:10 +0000 UTC View PostTToB: Men experience workplace sexual harassment as much as women. Tough or Bluff???
2024-12-03 15:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostEthical dilemmas and dual relationships (2014 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with his students about ethical dilemmas and dual relationships.
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Misused Psychology Terms
Dr Kirk Honda discusses commonly misused psychological terms.
00:00 Criteria
24:21 Trigger
33:24 Trauma
49:03 OCD
50:01 Self-care and capitalism
56:45 Imposter syndrome
1:02:17 Bipolar
1:19:24 Narcissist
1:32:59 ADHD
1:34:01 Sociopath
1:44:30 Abuse
1:46:05 Grooming
1:53:26 Dissociation
1:55:43 Mania
1:57:01 Love bombing
2:06:52 Antisocial
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Abuse Signs, Therapy Careers, and Post Modernism
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 What is, and isn't, emotional abuse?
26:33 2022 OPP
28:30 What factors should I consider when choosing a program?
35:47 2022 OPP
36:32 The cost of a doctorate
39:51 What does it take to set yourself apart as a therapist?
49:15 Unfinished business in the family of origin
57:47 How do postmodern theories look in a clinical practice?
1:25:31 Do universities push an agenda?
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2024-11-29 12:00:09 +0000 UTC View PostErotic Transference and Dissociative Identity Disorder (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] What is it like to be attracted to your therapist? Can it help? Also, what does it feel like to have dissociative identity disorder? A listener tells us.
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2024-11-28 12:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostPatience, Breakup Songs, and Narcissism
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Dr. Kirk's clones & AI answers
08:27 Repeating yourself & Dr. Kirk's hearing
32:25 Dr. Kirk's breakup advice & playlist
42:32 2022 OPP
43:56 Are these red flags of narcissism?
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We’re closing our Facebook page
We’re closing our Facebook page on January 1st, 2025.
This decision is a part of my effort to prioritize a healthier work-life balance and to focus on the platforms where I can best connect with you.
Sorry about this. I hope you understand.
You can still find us on: 1) Instagram, 2) Patreon, 3) YouTube, and 4) our website.
I will also be ending the Tuesday Tough or Bluff on January 1st, for the same reasons.
This has been a tough decision for me, since I am ded...
2024-11-26 20:14:42 +0000 UTC View PostTToB: In South Seattle (south of downtown), Asian-Americans make up the largest racial group. Tough or Bluff???
2024-11-26 15:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostWhich Psychology Degree Should You Get? (Deep Dive)(2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Given all the misinformation on the internet, choosing the right degree can be nearly impossible. Dr. Kirk Honda provides a guide to choosing the right degree for you.
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2024-11-26 12:00:26 +0000 UTC View PostNarcissism and Yammering
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
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2024-11-25 12:00:09 +0000 UTC View PostWar and Love Bombing
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 How Dr. Kirk feels seen
03:45 Acknowledging atrocities and war
15:53 Is a life coach a substitute for a therapist?
20:47 Jealousy and paranoia in a relationship without therapy
30:15 Knowledge deficits in novice clinicians
46:01 Love-bombing deep dive & conceptualizing love
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2024-11-22 12:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostTherapist Complaints (2019 Rerun)
[Rerun] We discuss a listener's complaints about their therapist.
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My Mentor Died
Dr Kirk Honda talks about his mentor, Dr Paul David, dying by physician-assisted suicide. Afterwards, Kirk presents two archived interviews with Paul.
00:00 Who was Dr. Paul David
09:27 Interview from 2016
18:08 Empirical data that Dr. Paul was awesome
22:13 Dr. Paul's history
37:21 Starting at Antioch & seeing clients
1:09:20 Starting the marriage and family therapy program
1:21:01 What did Dr. Paul think of his legacy?
1:39:24 Dr. Pau...
2024-11-20 12:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostTToB: Half-Asian/Half-White people are perceived (by both full-Asians in China and full-Whites in the US) as more trustworthy, intelligent, and attractive. Tough or Bluff???
2024-11-19 15:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostBorderline, Narcissism, Avoidant, and Dependent (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob answer patron emails.
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2024-11-19 12:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostTough Rebeccasode
Rebeccasode! We talk about tough topics.
00:00 Feeling hopeless & exhausted
27:09 Has Rebecca seen Sense8?
30:46 TW: SA What are the consequences of being a victim of SA?
43:02 What should you do when someone tells you something traumatic?
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2024-11-18 12:00:09 +0000 UTC View PostProjective Identification and Corrective Experiences
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Projective identification
10:04 How do we know if we're distorting or not?
23:37 OPP 2022
25:02 Is projection a bad thing?
34:57 OPP 2022
37:50 Raising awareness of OCD
1:01:02 How did Dr. Kirk know a therapist wasn't a good fit?
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2024-11-15 12:00:12 +0000 UTC View PostGet a KIRKgram!
Since Cameo was impossibly glitchy, I figured out another way - through our website.
Link: https://psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgram
2024-11-14 20:14:08 +0000 UTC View Post