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Awkward asexual dating and unworthy for therapy

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Dr. Kirk's book on grief

10:24 Am I aromantic, asexual or clueless?

31:10 2017 OPP

33:51 Co-hosts 3 favorite colors

40:21 Feeling unworthy for therapy

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Therapist has a Bad Boss

Dr Kirk reviews an ethical violation case.

00:00 What ethical standards are therapists held to?

26:22 A supervision ethical case brief

36:52 High-risk clients & the start of the therapeutic relationship

53:18 Inadequate supervision 

1:08:45 Client red flags

1:18:22 Safety planning & client suicide 

1:38:01 The court case

1:52:51 Dr. Kirk's ethical recommendation 

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TToB: Watching Seinfeld boosts lactation more than watching Oprah. Tough or Bluff???

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Emotional Support Animals and Curing Anxiety

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Is using a 'totem' counterproductive with anxiety?

10:47 Adopting a dog

26:56 2016 OPP 

28:41 Can I do exposure therapy myself?

45:57 Second guessing your own opinion

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OCD (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)

Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on OCD and the misconceptions.

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We Take the Big Five Personality Test (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto reveal their personality quirks.

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Erectile Dysfunction and Bad Therapist

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

00:00 Erectile dysfunction and sex therapy

31:08 2016 OPP

33:00 My therapist is in love with me, what should I do?

55:16 Taking responsibility for abuse

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Abuser Targets and Friend Breakups

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

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TToB: Worriers are more likely to get sick. Tough or Bluff???

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Depressed Husband vs Codependent Wife

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

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Butler Syndrome (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob discuss some butler syndrome and other deep topics.

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More Crying Together (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob process trauma.

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Nonviolent Communication

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dr A. Levine-Ward about nonviolent communication. Dr. Levine-Ward is a licensed counselor at Seattle Counseling and Wellness (https://www.seattlecounselingandwellness.com/) as well as Co-Director of Community Partnerships (https://www.seattlecounselingandwellness.com/trainings...

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The Tip of the Unethical Iceberg

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob discuss a case in which a counselor was sued for providing life coaching services.

00:00 An unethical trend & Cameo

02:51 Practicing therapy in a different state Overview of the case

10:38 Operating as a life coach and therapist 

24:43 The beginning of coaching sessions

28:00 What's the problem with a dual relationship?

40:57 Peer consultation and reporting ethical violations

1:06:32 Abrupt termination and abuse

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TToB: When considering revealing a secret, we overestimate the judgment from others. Tough or Bluff???

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Play Therapy

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Kimberly Bartlett, LICSW, RPT-S about play therapy. Bartlett can be found at Evergreen Play Therapy in Seattle (www.evergreenplaytherapy.com) or on Instagram at @evergreen_play_therapy.

00:00 Introducing Kimberly Bartlett & play therapy

03:39 What does play therapy look like?

20:06 How do play therapists avoid projection? 

25:04 What is the average course of p...

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What Is Love? (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob discuss what love means to them.

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Self-Care (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Bob talk about self-care and other personal things.

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Infidelity Myths

Dr Kirk was interviewed by Dr. Nazanin Moali on The Sexology Podcast regarding infidelity.

00:00 The Sexology podcast and Dr. Nazanin Moali

01:00 Common myths about infidelity

07:17 Nuances of navigating infidelity

16:31 Healing from infidelity 

18:05 Influences on cheating

25:23 How can we address vulnerabilities in the relationship? 

44:04 Looking for a guarantee 

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Interviewing My Sister (Chapter 2)

Dr Kirk interviews his sister.

00:00 Post-interview thoughts

11:42 Dr. Kirk's scar & various injuries

29:37 Family vacations

39:00 Memories of Grandpa Honda

49:36 Food in the Honda family

54:55 Church teachings

1:13:38 What does Colleen remember about watching TV? 

1:20:12 Movies, Christmas traditions, & laughter

1:48:24 Dr. Kirk's first job

1:56:55 How Colleen started a daycare & kid stories

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TToB: Creative people show more brain activity in their right hemisphere. Tough or Bluff???

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Interviewing My Sister (Chapter 1)

Dr Kirk interviews his sister.

00:00 What was it like growing up in the Honda family?

20:08 Is it surprising Dr. Kirk started podcasting?

30:14 What did Colleen think of Dr. Kirk becoming a therapist?

47:36 Were there favorites in the family? 

1:06:38 Did Dr. Kirk change after becoming a therapist? 

1:08:58 Growing up half Japanese 

1:16:45 What did Colleen listen to in high school? 

1:24:32 Dr. Kirk's rebellious phase&n...

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Procrastination (Follow Up) (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk reads follow-up emails to the procrastination deep dive.

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Procrastination (Deep Dive) (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Why do you procrastinate? How do you overcome procrastination? Dr. Kirk does a deep dive.

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Bob's Birthday Card and Short Questions

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob discuss his birthday card and answer patron questions.

00:00 Bob's birthday card

13:16 Would Bob and Dr. Kirk have been friends as kids?

19:12 When was the last time Bob cried?

34:21 Favorite and least favorite parts of podcasting

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Man or Bear

Dr Kirk interviews Kate Stewart, LMHC regarding the “Man or Bear” controversy. Kate Stewart is founder and CEO of Modern Therapy Seattle (https://www.moderntherapyseattle.com/kate-stewart) and offers classes on flirting at https://www.flirtingclasses.com.

00:00 Introducing Kate Stewart

01:05 Man or bear?

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TToB: Narcissistic traits are associated with a higher risk of heart failure. Tough or Bluff???

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The Dan Brophy Murder

Dr Kirk Honda analyzes the murderer of Dan Brophy.

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Narcissistic Emails #2 (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers emails.

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Narcissistic Emails #1 (2021 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers emails.

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