Dr Kirk Honda talks about anger and rage.
00:00 How can I handle rage from healing parentification?
12:51 Movies & how can anger motivate you?
20:56 How can I express my anger & rage?
39:27 How can I work through the rage?
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Kirk and Bob answer patron questions
00:00 Why do people victim blame?
13:09 Should I have kids?
19:54 OPP
21:44 What are 5 damaging social constructs?
33:57 What is a lack of sense of self?
35:42 How can I manage relational traumas?
50:58 OPP
51:59 Why do I question my therapists?
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2023-12-25 15:00:10 +0000 UTC
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Bob and Kirk answer questions from patrons and YouTube members.
00:00 New PIS merch
00:45 Do you have advice for feeling self-conscious during sex?
10:45 Is "I'm sorry you feel that way" an apology?
14:00 OPP
15:29 Is VR therapy viable?
38:39 OPP 2
40:03 How can I tell if it's BPD or depression?
47:13 Are there alternatives for therapy?
52:42 Can you overcome perfectionism with gifts?
57:48 Is fear normal in therapy?
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2023-12-22 15:00:15 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda reacts to Colleen Ballinger’s 2nd apology video and answers patron emails.
00:00 Who is Colleen Balinger?
05:33 Colleen's apology
08:20 Allegations against Colleen
12:30 Specificity & sincerity
25:00 Offering a remedy
26:46 Colleen's therapy
28:09 Rating Colleen's apology
32:57 Lacking attunement in a large family
38:01 Dr. Kirk's tangents
47:53 Coming to terms with mortality
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2023-12-19 17:00:01 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about munchausen by proxy (factitious disorder) and the new HBO documentary, Mommy Dead and Dearest.
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[Rerun] What movies depict psychological disorders accurately? Dr. Kirk Honda can only find a small number of movies that are accurate, detailed enough, and not stigmatizing.
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2023-12-16 15:00:04 +0000 UTC
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Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.
00:00 Aggressive joking
24:49 OPP
27:27 Micromanaging in the workplace
48:45 Ashton Kutcher & Mila Kunis's apology
1:07:18 Canceling a friend
1:36:57 The dream Beatles collaboration
1:39:23 What kind of attachments do Jedi deny?
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2023-12-15 15:00:12 +0000 UTC
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Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.
00:00 Christmas & Rebecca's birthday
09:25 Gender reveal parties & ceremonies
31:14 Abortion & high-risk pregnancies
38:23 Therapists who tarot
55:41 OPP
57:14 Giving power of attorney
1:10:48 Ending the cycle of family trauma
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2023-12-13 15:00:02 +0000 UTC
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Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.
00:00 Holiday PIS merch
00:53 Friend sex & approval
20:16 Killers of the Flower Moon
46:46 OPP
48:05 Incels & misogynistic society
1:14:23 OPP 2
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2023-12-11 15:00:07 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the pros and cons of age gaps in romantic relationships.
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[Rerun] Is R Kelly a psychopath? Is he guilty? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more.
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.
00:00 The history of schizoid
01:34 Eugen Bleuler & Sigmund Freud
08:34 August Hoch
21:27 Clarence Farrar & 5 types of schizoid personalities
30:39 Melanie Klein & the paranoid schizoid
37:52 Ronald Fairbairn & Karen Horney
50:18 Schizoid in the DSM-1
55:19 Harry Guntrip & schizoid characteristics
1:09:56 Caffeine use disorder
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2023-12-08 15:00:10 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.
00:00 Typology of schizoid personality disorder
14:41 Prevalence of schizoid & awareness
25:44 A schizoid lifestyle & isolation
46:53 The course of schizoid personality disorder
53:21 Etiology of schizoid personality disorder
1:22:33 Adaptions leading to schizoid
1:44:05 How the system perpetuates the damage
1:51:54 Are schizoid individuals more likely to be bull...
2023-12-06 15:00:07 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.
00:00 Couples therapy with schizoid
15:17 Differentiating from psychopathy
34:59 Differentiating from schizotypal
59:30 Overlap with psychotic disorders
1:08:51 Differentiating from depression
1:15:04 Avoidant attachment style
1:18:47 Differentiating from paranoid personality disorder
1:20:53 Differentiating from avoidant personality disorder & fear
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2023-12-04 15:00:07 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the research, perspective, and treatment of jealousy.
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Humberto and I are working on a deep dive regarding modern Nazis.
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Paulette talk about hair pulling disorder
00:00 Intro
01:45 Trichotillomania & BFRB
16:08 What causes BFRB
18:01 Forms of treatment
21:18 Medications & side effects
23:53 Taking in those we love
26:01 CBT in a nutshell
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.
00:00 A covert schizoid
09:52 Personal relationships
26:33 Relationships at work
37:46 Summarizing a composite example
42:44 Simon & Garfunkel lyrics
45:48 Is it a disorder?
1:08:31 Being reclusive
1:23:06 Violent crimes
1:40:46 Differentiating autism & comorbidities
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.
00:00 A potential schizoid case
17:06 DSM-5 criteria for schizoid
23:58 Kirk's umbrella of schizoid presentation
25:37 Being a loner & loneliness
44:34 An internal fantasy life
52:29 Unconcerned about their image
54:28 Sensory detachment
1:14:05 Being unexpressive
1:14:48 A lack of drive or pleasure
1:17:02 Sex & asexuality
1:28:51 Odd communication<...
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