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Anger and Rage

Dr Kirk Honda talks about anger and rage.

00:00 How can I handle rage from healing parentification?

12:51 Movies & how can anger motivate you?

20:56 How can I express my anger & rage?

39:27 How can I work through the rage?

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TToB: In the US, the average length of a marriage is 2.5 years. Tough or Bluff???

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Happy Holidays, y'all!

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Victim blamers, capitalism rant, and other things

Kirk and Bob answer patron questions

00:00 Why do people victim blame?

13:09 Should I have kids?

19:54 OPP

21:44 What are 5 damaging social constructs?

33:57 What is a lack of sense of self?

35:42 How can I manage relational traumas?

50:58 OPP

51:59 Why do I question my therapists?

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Virginia Satir (2018 Rerun)

(Rerun) Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on Virginia Satir and her therapy model.

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Invisible Loyalties (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about Nagy's concept of invisible loyalties.

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Se*ual consumption, VR therapy, and narcissistic clients

Bob and Kirk answer questions from patrons and YouTube members.

00:00 New PIS merch

00:45 Do you have advice for feeling self-conscious during sex?

10:45 Is "I'm sorry you feel that way" an apology?

14:00 OPP

15:29 Is VR therapy viable?

38:39 OPP 2

40:03 How can I tell if it's BPD or depression?

47:13 Are there alternatives for therapy?

52:42 Can you overcome perfectionism with gifts?

57:48 Is fear normal in therapy?

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Colleen Ballinger's 2nd Apology and Patron Emails

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to Colleen Ballinger’s 2nd apology video and answers patron emails.

00:00 Who is Colleen Balinger?

05:33 Colleen's apology

08:20 Allegations against Colleen

12:30 Specificity & sincerity

25:00 Offering a remedy

26:46 Colleen's therapy

28:09 Rating Colleen's apology

32:57 Lacking attunement in a large family

38:01 Dr. Kirk's tangents

47:53 Coming to terms with mortality

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TToB: Couples who have friends who divorce have a 75% increased risk of divorcing themselves. Tough or Bluff???

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Grief poetry, hijacked baby pics, and high conflict divorce

Rebecca and Kirk answer patron emails.

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Munchausen By Proxy (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about munchausen by proxy (factitious disorder) and the new HBO documentary, Mommy Dead and Dearest.

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Movies with Accurate DSM Disorders (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] What movies depict psychological disorders accurately? Dr. Kirk Honda can only find a small number of movies that are accurate, detailed enough, and not stigmatizing.

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Aggressive Joking, Canceling Friends, and Nerd Stuff

Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.

00:00 Aggressive joking

24:49 OPP

27:27 Micromanaging in the workplace

48:45 Ashton Kutcher & Mila Kunis's apology

1:07:18 Canceling a friend

1:36:57 The dream Beatles collaboration

1:39:23 What kind of attachments do Jedi deny?

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Gender reveal parties, abortion, and parenting

Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

00:00 Christmas & Rebecca's birthday

09:25 Gender reveal parties & ceremonies

31:14 Abortion & high-risk pregnancies

38:23 Therapists who tarot

55:41 OPP

57:14 Giving power of attorney

1:10:48 Ending the cycle of family trauma

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TToB: Software developers have one of the highest divorce rates. Tough or Bluff???

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Friend Sex, Incels, and Killers of the Flower Moon

Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.

00:00 Holiday PIS merch

00:53 Friend sex & approval

20:16 Killers of the Flower Moon

46:46 OPP

48:05 Incels & misogynistic society

1:14:23 OPP 2

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Age Difference in Relationships (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the pros and cons of age gaps in romantic relationships.

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The Psychology of R Kelly (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Is R Kelly a psychopath? Is he guilty? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more.

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Schizoid Personality Disorder - Deep Dive (Chapter 6)

Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.

00:00 The history of schizoid

01:34 Eugen Bleuler & Sigmund Freud

08:34 August Hoch

21:27 Clarence Farrar & 5 types of schizoid personalities

30:39 Melanie Klein & the paranoid schizoid

37:52 Ronald Fairbairn & Karen Horney

50:18 Schizoid in the DSM-1

55:19 Harry Guntrip & schizoid characteristics

1:09:56 Caffeine use disorder

1:14:19 Internet ...

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Schizoid Personality Disorder - Deep Dive (Chapter 5)

Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.

00:00 Typology of schizoid personality disorder

14:41 Prevalence of schizoid & awareness

25:44 A schizoid lifestyle & isolation

46:53 The course of schizoid personality disorder

53:21 Etiology of schizoid personality disorder

1:22:33 Adaptions leading to schizoid

1:44:05 How the system perpetuates the damage

1:51:54 Are schizoid individuals more likely to be bull...

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TToB: The most common reason for divorce is money problems. Tough or Bluff???

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Schizoid Personality Disorder - Deep Dive (Chapter 4)

Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.

00:00 Couples therapy with schizoid

15:17 Differentiating from psychopathy

34:59 Differentiating from schizotypal

59:30 Overlap with psychotic disorders

1:08:51 Differentiating from depression

1:15:04 Avoidant attachment style

1:18:47 Differentiating from paranoid personality disorder

1:20:53 Differentiating from avoidant personality disorder & fear

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Jealousy (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the research, perspective, and treatment of jealousy.

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Patron Survey

Humberto and I are working on a deep dive regarding modern Nazis.

If you want to contribute your thoughts and experiences, please fill out this survey:

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Hair Pulling Disorder (2015 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Paulette talk about hair pulling disorder

00:00 Intro

01:45 Trichotillomania & BFRB

16:08 What causes BFRB

18:01 Forms of treatment

21:18 Medications & side effects

23:53 Taking in those we love

26:01 CBT in a nutshell

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Schizoid Personality Disorder - Deep Dive (Chapter 3)

Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.

00:00 A covert schizoid

09:52 Personal relationships

26:33 Relationships at work

37:46 Summarizing a composite example

42:44 Simon & Garfunkel lyrics

45:48 Is it a disorder?

1:08:31 Being reclusive

1:23:06 Violent crimes

1:40:46 Differentiating autism & comorbidities

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Schizoid Personality Disorder - Deep Dive (Chapter 2)

Dr Kirk Honda provides his deep dive on schizoid personality disorder.

00:00 A potential schizoid case

17:06 DSM-5 criteria for schizoid

23:58 Kirk's umbrella of schizoid presentation

25:37 Being a loner & loneliness

44:34 An internal fantasy life

52:29 Unconcerned about their image

54:28 Sensory detachment

1:14:05 Being unexpressive

1:14:48 A lack of drive or pleasure

1:17:02 Sex & asexuality

1:28:51 Odd communication<...

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TToB: Introverts are more susceptible to phishing email scams. Tough or Bluff???

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