[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about a listener who feels attached to her sexual abuser.
August 28, 2017
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about psychodynamic theory.
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 10, 2025
00:00 Obsessive and abusive love
15:33 Are these examples of limerence?
39:12 Stages of limerence
46:27 What is the cause of limerence?
1:01:27 Addiction Neurology
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 9, 2025
00:00 Erotomania
35:04 Sex crimes & stalking
1:00:33 Transference
1:09:08 Twin Flames and other concepts
1:14:02 Why is limerence a neglected topic?
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 8, 2025
00:00 Fictional examples of limerence
16:38 Somatic symptoms
38:27 History of limerence
1:00:23 Normal infatuation
1:01:16 Relationship-OCD
1:13:13 Borderline and preoccupied attachment
1:18:07 Prolonged grief
1:28:37 Love addiction
1:33:11 Obsessive Love Disorder
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda does a deep dive on therapist self-disclosure. November 6, 2017
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the Fyre Festival disaster and the psychology of its organizer, Billy McFarland. Is he a psychopath? Is he a victim of capitalism? Were we all subject to a mass delusion? February 6, 2019
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 3, 2025
00:00 Refining qualifiers & the cycle
16:08 Was Kendra displaying limerence?
27:03 Stalking
53:25 Compulsive checking
1:07:48 Astrology & tarot
1:10:56 Rumination & reassurance seeking
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence.
December 2, 2025
00:00 Limerence in the wild
17:33 Background anxiety
24:51 Continuous tension and hyper anxiety
36:47 Constant intrusion
46:51 Mood swings
1:05:58 Excessive longing
1:12:09 Denial
1:23:42 Anger at the limerent object
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 1, 2025
00:00 Intro
01:45 intrusive thoughts
23:12 Daydreaming & fantasy
1:02:39 Intense attention & sensitivity
1:04:34 What is Crystallization
1:14:12 Distorting interpretations of signals
1:43:01 Limerence for a therapist
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about domestic violence. May 30, 2016
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about domestic violence. February 24, 2016
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 26, 2025
00:00 Intro
05:37 The signs of experiencing limerence
18:22 The functional impact
28:53 How does limerence disrupt life?
46:43 How is it different from a crush?
1:06:43 Is it possible to have a healthy relationship?
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 25, 2025
00:00 Dr. Kirk's definition of limerence
09:14 Exploring terminology of limerence
12:30 What types of relationships involve limerence?
21:48 Clarifying the state of limerence
24:59 A 'bad' definition
31:05 Reacting to TikTok takes
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Dr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. November 24, 2025
00:00 What is limerence?
08:1 How did Dr. Kirk get here?
22:48 What does the current research and discourse look like?
48:02 An exercise for limerence
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Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 21, 2025
00:00 Intro
01:16 Self-care culture can cause undue pressure
03:42 Teachers should be banned from using mental health terms
11:04 Autistic individuals are frequently misdiagnosed with Borderline
18:04 Humor is the best coping mechanism
18:13 Those in the US are prone to exaggeration
19:27 Excessive screen time impacts our mental health
25:21 We don't ...
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about being afraid of your therapist. January 21, 2016
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Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 19, 2025
00:00 Intro
01:16 There should be therapy for friends
03:55 Therapists incentivise their clients to act immorally
04:41 Self improvement is a loop that leads to dissatisfaction
05:37 There is a lack of resilience of those born after 1990
12:09 Highlighting your inner child implies adults shouldn't act like that
13:36 Modalities of therapy are ju...
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto talk about sexual fantasies. November 2, 2018
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Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 17, 2025
00:00 Intro
03:21 Post-communist regimes breeds fearful avoidance
06:04 Patriarchy is the reason we say 'big egos'
11:05 First time clients should read a transference for dummies
14:32 More than one thing can be true at once
14:42 Catatonia is much more common than realized
15:27 Anxiously attached people have weaponized attachment theory
17:25 Mob think makes the...
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Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. November 14, 2025
00:00 Exposure with social anxiety
17:59 How do I be a good therapist and maintain balance?
31:20 OPP resentment
43:10 How do I handle my in-laws?
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The Patreon live stream on Monday did not work. Sorry about that. I think I figured out a solution.
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the NXIVM cult and the recent arrests of the leaders, Keith Raniere and Allison Mack. Is Raniere a psychopath? Was Allison Mack a victim of Stockholm syndrome? Why do people join cults? February 11, 2019
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Dr Kirk Honda, with Isaiah from the Therapy Today YouTube channel, reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 12, 2025
00:00 Introducing Isaiah
03:42 Are kinky people deranged?
06:00 Do new therapists just think it's cool?
11:14 What is limerence?
16:58 Why did Isaiah start TherapyToday channel
21:37 What does TherapyToday cover?
23:20 Is a good friend better than a therapist?
25:42 Does being an empath come from trauma?...
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[Rerun] Why did Ted Bundy kill? How did he become a sexual sadist and a psychopath? What do we know about his history that can explain his obsession? Dr. Kirk Honda explores these clinical questions with co-host Humberto. April 15, 2019.
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I hate Patreon's interface. I somehow figured it out last time, but alas, this time I failed. Sorry Patrons! I suck at live streaming.... or Patreon sucks at live streaming... someone sucks at live streaming and it's not you.
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Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. November 10, 2025
00:00 How does Bob handle unresolved feelings?
11:26 How does it feel for Bob to hear Dr. Kirk's anger?
33:58 Is it weird to grieve a therapist-client relationship?
41:05 Is it ok to take a break from therapy?
42:20 Do my partner and I need 3 therapists?
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Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about random things.
00:00 JonBenét Ramsey responses
09:39 Weapons & Kpop
25:13 28 Years Later
29:23 Wreck-It Ralph
31:52 One Battle After Another
46:21 Tron: Ares
52:30 Doctor Who
54:42 Kpop Demon Hunters
1:14:22 Existential threats & Dr. Kirk's apology
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