Monday, Nov 10, 1 pm Pacific.
Join Dr. Kirk live to ask your questions in the chat.
This stream is exclusive to our Patrons and YouTube Members. Thank you for your support!
(I think a link will show up on our Patreon page when it starts and/or you'll get an email just before the live stream starts.)
2025-11-06 16:00:12 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Is the enneagram personality test valid? Why is it so popular? Can it be used to help people improve their lives or is it just pseudoscience? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more in the mini deep dive into enneagram. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast
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Dr Kirk Honda presents his test for cultural appropriation to Humberto.
00:00 What is cultural appropriation?
10:25 Examples of appropriation
16:26 What is cultural appreciation?
39:28 Why are conversations important?
58:10 Is it appropriation?
1:39:30 The Great British Bake-Off Japanese week
1:52:37 Final word
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad.
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Email: 2025-11-04 12:00:11 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory.
00:00 Dr. Pascal Vrticka
01:04 Are dads 'secondary moms'?
02:13 Is the Triune Brain Model a good explanation of attachment?
09:13 Is synchrony better for attachment?
29:53 Is Oxytocin just the love hormone?
36:31 Is Polyvagal Theory supported by current literature?
45:31 Are there parenting hacks that work for everybody?
Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory.
00:00 Does disorganized attachment exist in adults?
08:12 How many types of attachment are there?
53:27 Is attachment good or bad?
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Become a patron: 2025-10-31 11:00:16 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Yuval Laor about why we evolved to have sexual fetishes.
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Email: 2025-10-30 11:00:08 +0000 UTC
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Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.
00:00 Do violent fantasies mean anything?
24:50 Recent celebrity losses
43:31 How did Rebecca develop self-care behaviors?
1:03:41 How can parents adjust to their children becoming more individuated?
1:16:24 How can parents navigate their own anxiety around the state of the world?
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2025-10-29 11:00:05 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about countertransference, or the feelings a therapist has about the client. (Intro)
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Email: 2025-10-28 11:00:06 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda interviews Gregg Spiridellis (founder of JibJab, etc.) about his AI tools for therapists and clients.
00:00 Introducing Gregg Spiridellis
04:19 What inspired Moments?
14:33 How private is my data?
25:40 What feedback have they received?
26:33 What is Moments for Therapists?
43:47 Could this app be useful?
52:25 Why are prompts so important?
58:28 What do you lose with AI?
Become a member: 2025-10-27 11:00:07 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk rants about internet mobs and Bob explores his trauma. (Intro)
00:00 Validation and hope01:34 Yay timestamps!
07:44 Does a victim of domestic abuse have anything to apologize for?
21:24 Does Dr. Kirk still care about Borderline?
28:34 What is the difference between disorganized attachment vs. Borderline?
39:29 Grieving a lifetime of fear
51:17 How does Bob continue on?
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas. (This is part 2 of a two-part series.)(Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.
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2025-10-23 11:00:05 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey.
00:00 What therapy is best for Borderline?
04:42 How can I address my own toxic behavior?
07:18 Drawing boundaries with in-laws
08:55 Thoughts on relationship OCD
11:45 How can schools pick a competent therapist?
18:44 What is the best approach when a friend self diagnoses?
27:39 Dr. Kirk's experience with roller coasters
31:45 Who is Dr. ...
2025-10-22 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Humberto about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc.
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Email: 2025-10-21 11:00:06 +0000 UTC
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I'm collabing with another podcaster -- we're gonna react to your mental health hot takes.
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2025-10-20 12:00:15 +0000 UTC View Post
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron questions.
00:00 An abusive relationship and affair
31:02 Was the pastor sexually abusive?
41:18 Is this a safe relationship or just less bad?
52:03 Is infidelity in an abusive relationship ok?
1:02:43 What does repair look like?
1:07:27 How can I continue to heal from my shame?
Become a member: 2025-10-20 11:00:16 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Grand jury results
12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book
31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk think was the perpetrator?
58:16 Why would parents abuse their children?
1:02:09 How does being falsely accused affect you?
1:07:28 Do psychologists assess suspects?
1:13:01 Are polygraphs legit?
1:24:31 Could more evidence have been found?
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Grand jury results
12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book
31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk think was the perpetrator?
58:16 Why would parents abuse their children?
1:02:09 How does being falsely accused affect you?
1:07:28 Do psychologists assess suspects?
1:13:01 Are polygraphs legit?
1:24:31 Could more evidence have been found? 2025-10-17 11:00:15 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Did an intruder do it?
26:41 Points of dispute
33:20 Potential intruder suspects
1:26:23 Jon Mark Karr's confession
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Become a patron: 2025-10-15 11:00:09 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Did an intruder do it?
26:41 Points of dispute
33:20 Potential intruder suspects
1:26:23 Jon Mark Karr's confession
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Become a patron: 2025-10-15 11:00:08 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Do you have recurring patterns in your relationships that are frustrating? Schema therapy might help. Dr. Kirk Honda talks for over four hours about the theory and how to use it in your life -- our core emotional needs, the schema that develop when some of our needs aren't met, how we habitually cope with those schema being triggered, and our overall personality modes that develop.
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2025-10-14 11:00:08 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Did the Ramseys do it?
04:03 Did Patsy do it?
43:31 Additional autopsy details
51:43 Did John do it?
1:02:52 Did Burke do it?
1:24:09 Where Dr. Kirk stands now
1:34:23 Interviews with Burke
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Did the Ramseys do it?
04:03 Did Patsy do it?
43:31 Additional autopsy details
51:43 Did John do it?
1:02:52 Did Burke do it?
1:24:09 Where Dr. Kirk stands now
1:34:23 Interviews with Burke
Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H...
Monday, Oct 13, 1 pm Pacific.
For YouTube Members and Patrons.
(I don't know how to share a link or how you will be able to access it. Patreon is not user friendly. I think a link will show up on our Patreon page when it starts or you'll get an email? Not sure. )
2025-10-11 20:25:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Autopsy details
35:50 Barbara Walters interview with the Ramseys
45:14 Detective Ardnt's account
57:46 Mystery DNA and additional evidence
1:24:51 Psychology of the audience
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2025-10-10 11:00:08 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.
00:00 Autopsy details
35:50 Barbara Walters interview with the Ramseys
45:14 Detective Ardnt's account
57:46 Mystery DNA and additional evidence
1:24:51 Psychology of the audience
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2025-10-10 11:00:08 +0000 UTC
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about infidelity in therapy
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