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The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey - (Chap 2 - Child Pageants)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Pageant interview

06:36 Ramsey family history
24:18 Check in with yourself 

27:35 The Ramsey's maintain their innocence 

36:26 Dr. Kirk's pageant opinions 

56:27 What does the research say?

1:47:47 Pageant Tough or Bluff?

1:55:48 What's covered next?


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The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey - (Chap 2 - Child Pageants)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Pageant interview

06:36 Ramsey family history
24:18 Check in with yourself 

27:35 The Ramsey's maintain their innocence 

36:26 Dr. Kirk's pageant opinions 

56:27 What does the research say?

1:47:47 Pageant Tough or Bluff?

1:55:48 What's covered next?


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Pursuer Distancer (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto give advice to a listener about their relationship.


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Email: 2025-10-07 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post

The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 1 - Background)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Setting the scene

15:22 The ransom note 
41:47 The 911 call

1:04:59 Finding JonBenét

1:31:47 The broken window

1:46:00 Why do holidays increase stress?

1:54:04 What is the impact of losing a child?


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The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 1 - Background)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Setting the scene

15:22 The ransom note 
41:47 The 911 call

1:04:59 Finding JonBenét

1:31:47 The broken window

1:46:00 Why do holidays increase stress?

1:54:04 What is the impact of losing a child?


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Leftover 17th Anniversary Questions #2

Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey.

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Email: 2025-10-03 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post

Psychodynamic Formulation (2012 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk provides an in-depth psychodynamic case formulation for Gloria of the famous Gloria Tapes. What defenses does she exhibit? How did her personality develop?


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Leftover 17th Anniversary Questions #1

Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey.

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Email: 2025-10-01 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post

Progress Makes Us Miserable - Dr Christopher Ryan (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Has civilization ruined our lives? Should we be living as hunter-gatherers? Is it against our evolution to have houses and cellphones? Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Christopher Ryan (author of Sex at Dawn) who answers these questions in his new book, Civilized to Death.


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Ned & Ariel Talk (Try Guys Drama)

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to the video of Ned and Ariel Fulmer talking about Ned’s infidelity scandal on the Try Guys YouTube channel.

00:00 Who are Ned and Ariel Fulmer? 

02:27 Rock Bottom with Ned Fulmer intro

07:01 Rating Ned's apology

08:57 The interview & forgiveness 

20:43 The road of infidelity 

55:38 Final thoughts


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Naive Boyfriends, Ex Dreams, and Butler Syndrome

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Is there a crash course to teach my boyfriend about relationships? 

07:25 Why do I keep dreaming about my ex?
26:01 How can I internalize my self worth?

30:17 Seeking a deeper therapeutic relationship 


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Personality Disorders - All 14 (Deep Dive) (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about personality disorders.




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Email: 2025-09-25 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post

Herpes Cheating, Israeli Expats, and Firing Political Clients

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

00:00 Rebecca's trash situation

08:06 How can I handle my boyfriend's ignorance around oral herpes?
23:20 Books about discernment counseling 

28:32 How can I help clients with discernment counseling?
46:43 How can I handle this restless situation as an Israeli expat? 

1:09:24 Is it common for therapists to join the profession to work on their own issues? 

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Narcissistic Parents (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about narcissistic parents.


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Thank you, Patrons!

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White Lie Diagnosing and Lazy Millennials

Bobisode! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Why do we treat everyone like a cashier? 

21:55 Do clinicians tell white lies about diagnosis? 

30:02 The landscape of borderline 

58:23 Am I falling behind in life? 

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Faith In God and Supporting Pedophile Cousin

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.

00:00 Why might people turn to God? 

13:38 Do people actually feel connected to their God? 
18:54 What is hentai? 

34:37 Can I still support my cousin?1:05:12 OPP

1:06:45 Movie trivia


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Case Management vs Therapy (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Michelle Finley about the difference and debate between case management and psychotherapy.


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Email: 2025-09-18 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post

Cat Eye Scratch, PETA Gifts, and Movie Ratings

Just a fun Humberto episode.

00:00 The cat scratch incident

13:58 OPP

22:16 Gifts for Berto

34:39 Movie ratings

55:01 Notable celebrity deaths


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The Psychology of Brock Turner (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about Brock Turner

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Online Streamer Bullied to Death and Stranger Danger

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.


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17th Anniversary Live Stream Tomorrow!

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AI Psychosis

Dr Kirk Honda discussed AI psychosis and using AI in therapy.

00:00 Is AI psychosis an accurate term?

18:44 Current problems with AI and companionship 

34:17 What does AI look like in therapy? 

43:29 Using AI with transference 


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Avoidant Personality Disorder (Chapter 2) (Deep Dive) (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] This is the first deep dive in the Loneliness Deep Dive Series.

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Email: 2025-09-11 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Licensed Revoked, Irish Narcissism, and Silly Trigger Warnings

Dr Kirk answers a bunch of patron emails.

00:00 Tatiana Zdyb's revoked license 

04:42 Why don't I miss people?

08:12 Why do I feel uneasy when things are going well? 

12:14 Does Dr. Kirk practice mentalization based therapy?

18:24 Is it possible to have an epidemic of narcissism?

25:44 How can I find support with a high support needs family member? 

31:45 How do trigger warnings benefit people? 


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Avoidant Personality Disorder (Chapter 1) (Deep Dive) (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] This is the first deep dive in the Loneliness Deep Dive Series.


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Email: 2025-09-09 11:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Your Limerence Questions

I'm working on a limerence deep dive.

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Touch in Therapy, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation, and Teen Incontinence

Bobcast! Patron emails!

00:00 When is physical touch in therapy OK?  

18:19 'Zoey' OPP

20:36 Is transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) a treatment for ADHD?

28:36 'Margaret' OPP 

30:08 Can trauma cause incontinence? 

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17th Anniversary Show Survey

Last chance to submit your questions/comments for us to read during our 17th Anniversary Live Stream (Sat, Sept 13). (Members/Patrons exclusive) Link to survey: https://forms.gle/RBoL9vDoz6CBtb3u9

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Ethics, Triangulation, and Child Pressure

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails.

00:00 Would it be unethical for Dr. Kirk's past therapists to listen to PIS?

09:03 What about past clients?

13:40 What's the difference between venting and triangulation? 

25:56 Is Dr. Kirk exasperated? 

31:16 Establishing an independent identity outside of competition 


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