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Simple skills, powerful scenes

You don’t need complicated and advanced rope skills to have an amazing scene!   

The rope work in this BTS scene is easy and the only other this this requires is  an overhead hard point.  You could do something like this if you have  exposed beams or columns in your attic or basement.

BTS: Abella – Simple But Po...

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TheDuchy now offers Gift Codes!

TheDuchy now offers Gift Codes!

If there is someone in your life that is curious or would like to hone their rope skills, give them a gift membership to TheDuchy!

This is just the first iteration of the feature so we are offering two options at the moment:

$30 gives either 3 months of BTS or 6 months of the Tutorial level.

Ch...

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Wrapping yourself as a Gift!

For some of us, there is nothing so powerful as the gift of a partner that wants us--and wants us to take control of them.  There are thousands of ways that you can show this desire to your partner, but one way that can be a lot of fun around gift-giving holidays and birthdays is to wrap yourself up as a gift.

In this tutorial, we go through one way of doing this, adding layer after layer of easy bondage techniques that many people can self-tie.  Every layer works independentl...

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TheDuchy goes Multi-lingual

Shout out to all our friends for whom English is not the language they best understand!

A while ago I asked whether we should look in to going multi-lingual.  The vote was split between "don't bother, English is so common as a first or second language it shouldn't be necessary" and "it would definitely be helpful, but Google Translate is not good enough; translations need to be done by native speakers"

So after a bunch of research (thanks Kaysea!), some testing and some plann...

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Discord for BTS and Vid-level Members

Hi All,

I have added a new feature for BTS and Vid-level members.  If you have a Discord account, you can join TheDuchy server and have a more interactive place to ask questions or share successes ... or failures  ;)  

Links will be sent to new members after the first of each month.  If you are BTS or Vid and didn't get an invite, PM me and I will get you one.

I hope you find it a valuable new benefit!

Best,

Lazarus

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The Gravity Boot

The Gravity Boot is a Single Column tie for a person’s ankles with the unique property that the force comes out of the bottom of the foot directly in line with the ankle, instead of off to the side as with other Single Column techniques.

This is related to the Gravity Boot Single Column, but is different in that the...

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The Munter Body Cage

Introducing the Munter Body Cage … or perhaps the Munter Evening Dress … you decide what you want to call it!

This tutorial comes at the request of one of our members (Hi Mike!). The inspiration for it is an insanely sexy picture produced by Sylvanus Art: 2020-11-20 21:47:11 +0000 UTC View Post

BTS - Ana Foxxx - Fun with Single Columns

Something just for you BTS and Video-level members!

There is an amazing amount that you can do with nothing but Single Columns and something to anchor them to.  Here is a great example of that!

BTS: Ana Foxx - Fun with Single Columns 

Enjoy!

Lazarus

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Square Knot Single Column

Hi All,

When I did the shibari examples for the last few tutorials, I realized that I had never actually put out a tutorial on the Square Knot Single Column.  If you have ever heard a rigger say something like “Start with a 'Single Column'” and not qualify the name more specifically like “Lark’s Head Single Column”, this is probably what he or she was talking about.

This is p...

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Takezao Contest & BTS+2

Hello all you wonderful kinksters!

Grab your partners and your cameras! Today we launch two new contests, but focusing on using a single pole. It can be bamboo, pipe, whatever, but just a single pole. (We will do a contest for frames in a few weeks, so if you want to be planning for that and doing your shooting now, go for it!)

Translations? ... Also: WPML vs TranslatePress

I have been thinking for awhile about offering multiple languages on TheDuchy.  We have members from all over the globe.  Some of you have even asked about translations or have graciously offered to help do translations so that we can offer words from native speakers and are not at the mercy of AI.

So... What do you think?  Would this be of value to you or those you know?

Vote your thoughts ... and feel free to comment wildly as well!

(You can vote for more th...

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Horizontal Bamboo as a Hard Point + Bamboo Suspension Friction

How do you connect a Bamboo pole or a pipe to two overhead anchor points so that you can use it as a broad hard point for dynamic suspension?  Is there a suspension friction that works particularly well on broad hard points like bamboo/pipe/branch? 

Here are two new tutorials with 3 videos and 220 new pictures to get you set up for suspensions using horizontal poles of bamboo!

Hashira Shibari

O.M.G. This one took a LOT to put together. Hashira Shibari – tying your partner to vertical beam (post, pole, tree, whatever) – is a big topic! There are many, many concepts and possibilities to explore. It took hours of research and contemplation just to figure out how I wanted to present everything. But even though I could not do everything I wanted (I couldn’t shoot one of the videos I want to shoot because of COVID), what we have for you today can give you the keys to lite...

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Bondage Frames

  

Today’s tutorial covers a few ideas of several Frames that you can make by Lashing 2 or 3 bamboo poles together … and a few fun ideas of things you can do with your partner using that frame. I have also added a new tutorial to the View Post

Patreon Plugin Failure

Hi All,

It appears that Patreon is now working properly again!  

Thanks for your patience and the words of support that many of you sent me!

Best,

Lazarus

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Takezao Shibari

  

Today’s tutorial covers a few ideas for bondage using a single pole of bamboo (or anything else). We cover a few ideas for a yoke and one for the elbows.

This is the next in a series of several posts on incorporating bamboo (sticks, poles, whatever..) into your bondage scenes:

  • Lashings – How to connect pieces of bamboo together to create frames of various types 
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Bamboo Bondage - Attaching

Today’s tutorial covers how to attach your partner to a pole or frame of bamboo (or anything else). I thought this was going to be an easy tutorial to build, but there are so many ways to do this, I ended up with a tutorial that includes 14 different techniques and including over 200 pictures. Oof.

This is the next in a series of several posts on incorporating bamboo (sticks, poles, whatever..) into your bondage scenes:

Franciscan Discipline & Contest Winner

Hi All!

Flogger Forge now features a new flogger plan: The Franciscan Discipline!

Also, I am thrilled to announce the winner of the Heartbreak Karada Photo Contest.  The top winner is "PREGNANT_Heartbreak_Karada" by Matic...

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Bamboo Bondage - Lashings

The next topic that you wonderful people voted for was Bamboo Bondage!

This topic will be covered with several posts:

  • Lashings - How to connect pieces of bamboo (sticks, poles, whatever..) together to create frames of various types  (<<we are here)
  • Attachments - How to connect to bamboo so that your rope doesn't slide.  How to connect a Single Column or Double...

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New Feature! Closed Captioning

Hello all you wonderful, creative, kinky people!

We are now offering Closed Captioning on almost all of our rope bondage tutorial videos. 

Approximately 4 days after a tutorial is published, CC is added.  This should be of help to those of you that would like to watch, but cannot have the sound up for whatever reason, or for our friends that cannot hear well or at all, or for people that can read english better than they can hear it.

I hope this is helpful!  R...

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Teardrop Hip Harness

  

Hi Everyone!

Time to show off those hips with the Teardrop Hip Harness!

This is a smooth and alluring design with several fun options: asymmetrical, teardrop on both side, woven on both side. Check it out!  Also, enter the Photo Contest to h...

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The Heartbreak Karada ⑤

Introducing the Heartbreak Karada

This lovely design came from Kaysea, one of our favorite innovative rope artists!  IT features two lovely heart patterns and many variations to explore.  

I'd love to see what you all do with this.  So would many oth...

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OK, *Now* you can switch if you wish (Tutorial Members)

First email had wrong code (::headdesk::)  the correct one is:  

Switch-Tutorials-by-June12

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OK, Now you can switch if you wish ... We tried last month but had some unanticipated issues with the coupon codes.  Those issues have now been resolved.

If you are happy with Patreon, you don't need to switch, but swit...

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Contest Winners!

Here are the winners of the Gingham Thigh-High and Doggy Style Harness contests!

Our members created some truly great images for these contests, but here are the ones that you voted as the best!

Congratu...

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Vote for your favorite photo! (Some great entries cam in over the weekend)

Hi All,

The final entries in our first set of photos contests have come in over the weekend.  There were some great new entries for both  Gingham Thigh-Highs and the  Doggy Style Harness!

Voting ends ...

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Let the beatings begin!

Flogger Forge is now fully live!     ... Hopefully this will be a big help to those of us that are still stuck at home!  

This has been a **busy** month and there is a lot of new material!  

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Add your entry to the photo contests on TheDuchy!

As some parts of the world begin to come out of deep freeze, many of you may be seeing your partners for the first time in many weeks.  I hope you have a great time reconnecting!

... With that in mind, we are still accepting entries for our first two photos contests through Sunday, 5/24!  If you would like to showcase your version of View Post

Switching issues

6/5 - Update - Switching to resume

OK!  It looks like we have the code working properly and have successfully tested the change with several people.  I will post a new message to each group with updated information on switching.  


5/17 - Update

Coupons continue to not operate properly.  According to support, everything is set up properly.  I have been going back and forth with them all week.  So no pr...

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Kara's Rebuke - Flogger Forge - TheDuchy

Boom!  The first entry in the Flogger Forge is ready!

Introducing Kara's Rebuke!

Over time, the Flogger Forge will grow to have sections where you can pick from a variety of Handles, Transition Knots, Endcap Knots, and Texture Knots for the ...

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Alternative to Patreon! Flogger Forge is coming! New options up for vote!

Hi Everyone!

I hope you and yours are safe and in good health.

The Flogger Forge is coming

As most of us are hunkered down—many of us away from the people we typically play with—the next tutorial I release will be something that we can do on our own: Rope Floggers! 

To give you a good foundation for this, I actually have to create about 12 tutorials; core knots and techniques that you can then assemble like Lego blocks to build what you want...

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