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Questions for Jessie Gender

Digital Dialects is a Patreon podcast I host where I have conversations with other creators about creating and the ideas behind what they create. Patrons get the chance to submit audience questions that go straight to the guest!

The next digital dialects episode will feature Jessie Gender. I will be talking to her this Sunday. Post any questions you want me to ask Jessie in the comments of this post. View Post

On xenogenders and neopronouns

Dipped my toes into some meaningless twitter discourse and got inspired to make a short second channel video about it. it's available to you now, but it goes public tomorrow.

Fear not. I am not condemning xenogenders or neopronouns. As you'll hear in the video, my qualm is with the hypothetical idea of centering xenogenders in trans activism. I don't think xenogenders/neopronouns are politi...

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Town Hall - Saturday December 14th 4pm EST

I'm hosting the next Town Hall December 14th at 4pm Eastern Time.

Since there was such division on whether or not to talk about the election, I'm going to split the Town Hall into two sections.

The first half (about ~1hour), we'll have a shared space to discuss how we feel about the upcoming administration, practical strategies from your community on how we can stay strong, and general venting.

The second half, I'm just gonna open the floor to a general Q&A. You can dir...

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Peer Review w/ Tom Nicholas

Alright, I forgot to solicit audience questions for this. My bad asf guys. I was in the middle of an editing frenzy and it totally slipped from my mind. In any case, here's a cute convo. Here's the video version.

Also, I've been thinking of the future of Digital Dialects. At first I thought of this thing as a sort of "ethnogr...

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[EARLY ACCESS] TO BRAT VIDEO! + poll

Hi all,

Here's the link to the newest video. Let me know if you catch any mistakes please! um... don't share it. also don't click the sponsorship. It goes out to the public Thursday probably.

Thank you to all who attended the last Town Hall. It was really awesome to see how thoughtful and open to discussion everyone was. The next Town Hall will probably be mid-December. I'm thinking of...

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REMINDER: Town Hall Today! (Link)

Here's the Town Hall link:

https://brown.zoom.us/j/96103758183?pwd=4MbZ9UoRouX3WKQMtFEIRdBuMtOpzI.1 

Starts at 8pm EST.

In other news I uploaded another short second channel video:

https://youtu.be/0DT84vMDiy8?si=yTWU0TQJr4X9sgBI

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On the Election of a Fascist President (VIDEO)

Hey all,

I've been thinking about the election in the past week... obviously, and decided to just let off some steam and cohere some thoughts I'd been having about the state of the world.

https://youtu.be/vu6-Swoc198

Right now it's unlisted but it'll probably go public sometime this week. Wanted to send to you all early to hear your thoughts.

Cheers,

Alex

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Town Hall Discussion Questions and RSVP

Hey all! Just as a reminder, we're having a Town Hall on the subject of genAI in less than a week! NOV 14 at 8PM EST

Depending on turnout, we may just have an open discussion. If the turnout is higher than is feasible for that, then I will create sign ups for collective discussion sections.

It will help alot if you RSVP beforehand:

https://forms.gle/phzr2d4twF7hzYQB7

Here's some potential disc...

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Peer Review w/ Big Joel

Hi! Here's the chat I had with Big Joel. It was pretty neat. We talk about YouTubing, Foucault, Jubilee, and more.

Video verison here. 

Wait for video to process if it's not up yet.

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Updates to Zoom Town Hall Nov 14th

Hi all,

After some reflecting on what I want to get out of the Town Hall, and also the fact that people don't seem super interested in the $25 tier, I've decided to make the Town Hall a more open format.

At least for the first Town Hall, I've changed the format to this:

1. My initial thoughts

2. Discussion Sections -- open to all tiers, but limited spots, on a first come, first serve basis; depending on attendance, it may just be one section.

3...

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HELP ME! Town hall experiment and new tiers?

I'm thinking of starting a Zoom "town hall" Patreon benefit, but I need your help to decide what it should look like!

First...

There's a new $25 tier, which is currently live. Right now, the stand out benefit is the merch. You receive a merch item every three months for a YEAR, starting AFTER you spend 3 months on the tier. after a year you no longer receive merch... It starts with a sticker, then a mug, then a t-shirt and another t-shirt. I put this here for anyo...

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Some stills from filming yesterday!

Yesterday did some filming. Here's some ungraded pics...

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Questions for Big Joel?

In a week or so I will be talking with the YouTuber Big Joel on my podcast Digital Dialects.

If you have any questions you'd like him to answer, ask below!

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Peer Review w/ JREG

Hi all, here is that Digital Dialects episode with JREG. In between the recording (a few months ago) and now I neglected to upload it because of the moving process and looking for an apartment in NYC sucks and my life got whacky for a bit. Also there's some echo that I cannot fix, and I've been locked out of the account where the Zoom video is uploaded because the e-mail associated was destroyed by ...

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Launching creative consulting program! (and updates)

Content Updates: Hello all! The script for the BRAT video is 99% complete, but I've decided to let it marinate a few days so I can come back to it with fresh eyes. I should be filming within the next few weeks, and from then it's quick to upload. Expect it in November. Hopefully the election does not destroy the country before then :/

New Tier: In other news, I am going to publish a new Patreon Tier for creative consulting. I've always loved giving people feed...

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Updates: Back on the grind soon

Hey all I'm in the process of moving since I've been "nomadic" for the past three months or so it's been hard to keep up with things like thank you notes, Patreon extras, digital dialects, etc.

I'm in the process of moving to NYC but once I get settled I'll be in full grind mode. Sorry for any delays.

Anyways does anyone have any leads on apartments in NYC, landlords don't really think YouTube is a job so I'm kinda cooked.

See you soon ✌️

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starting a second channel

Hello all,

I'm going to be starting a second channel that has more unscripted things because sometimes there are things i'd like to talk about but they don't warrant a fully produced 1+ hour video. I'd also like to post some 10 minute clips from digital dialects on there to promote the patreon. But digital dialects WILL remain a Patreon exclusive (as in, the full videos will be available here only).

If you want to subscribe so you can see things in the future it'll be here:

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Here's the video early lol

Here's the freaking video. It'll probably go live friday or something like that. but i like releasing to you all first since it helps me catch anything I missed and also you guys rock thanks for supporting me.

i almost go full liberal in this one. i hope you understand why.

ALSO DON'T CLICK THE SPONOSRSHIP THING OR SCAN TEH CODE UNTIL THE VIDEO COMES OUT PLEASE

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Questions for JREG

Digital dialects is Back. I forgot to post a Patreon post soliciting questions for Jreg. I am talking to him tomorrow. If you know him and want to get a question answered, ask below

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Just a couple stills from the upcoming video

just in case you wanna see what's going on with the hamilton video.

It's gonna come out like next week or the week after i think :s

anyone wanna be friends

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Post gay month updates

Hello hope you had a happy gay month. I’m currently editing the script for the next video. It’s going to be on Hamilton. this has been taking a while.

When researching for Hamilton I saw that Lin Manuel Miranda said that Sondheim (or someone else I forgot) gave the advise to not write about everything in Hamiltons life, but rather, “just write the parts that are a musical.” I need someone to tell me to “just write the parts that are a video essay.”

I’ve vomited so ...

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Peer Review with Khadija Mbowe

Here's the latest edition of your favorite Zoom call, Digital Dialects. Here me and Khadija talk about death, aliens, feminism, and MORE!

Click here for the video version

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Questions for Khadija Mbowe

I will be talking to Khadija Mbowe on Tuesday. If you have questions for them, drop them in the comments!

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Peer Review with Ro Ramdin

Here's the latest Digital Dialects with Ro Ramdin. We filmed only a few days before the bulk of the questions came in so I was only able to get one question in. Sorry, should've specified the recording date! Nevertheless, In this edition, we talk about the internet sludge, Evil, reading stuff, taquitos, and MORE!

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Just shipped books!!!

All those who asked for a book should have a message from me with their tracking numbers. There are still books available if people want them for the next time I ship them. Here's an updated list of what's available:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/book-give-away-103571868?utm_medium=clipb...

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well, here's the video... EARLY!

was able to scrape it together a few days before the deadline. enjoy the last three months of my life! On to other things now...

there is a sponsorship thing from 1:47-3:49. if you want to take the deal, make sure it's after the video is uploaded. it's actually a pretty good service, so check it out if you want.... but don't use my link.........

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Deleted Scene from Upcoming Video

Hi all,

This is a very short deleted scene from the upcoming video, provisionally titled, "A People's History of Gender Ideology".

It's a nice little sequence, depicting the way that, as a trans person, my relationship to my past is complicated. It didn't fit anywhere into the video, though I shot it while making it.

In one sense it's my experience of gender dysphoria, but in another sense, it's also a type of melancholic nostalgia. I've found it hard to articulate this fe...

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Peer Review w/ Lily Alexandre

Welcome to the next edition of digital dialects, where I talk with Lily Alexandre about video essays (of course), gender (duh), and Marxism (woo!)!!!! Such an interesting conversation, I'm excited to share it :)

There's parts in the episode where I show Lily my messy filming setup, where a beautiful cat interrupts us, and where she shows me her cool lights. If you prefer to watch and listen, i...

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Need one quote read done!!!

EDIT: PART IS NOW TAKEN ! Thank you all for being so generous :)

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Some stills from the upcoming video

Gender stuff!??!?!?

Coming in early May :3

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