Top or Bottom? Bottoms are shamed??
Added 2024-02-03 02:33:57 +0000 UTCwell this got emotional ...
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aww twins🥲 it’s such an interesting subject to explore that i didn’t realize was so emotionally charged for me! i’m glad you could resonate:)
Ash Sue
2024-02-12 17:11:48 +0000 UTCThank you for being so vulnerable, Ash 💕 I haven’t seen anyone speak about this so openly, and I really appreciate it! Much love from a bottom leaning switch who was also previously married to a man :)
Taline Angeleah
2024-02-12 00:05:05 +0000 UTCyes i’ve seen it a TON on lesbian tiktok and even instagram and youtube! everyone is so proud to be a top lol. which made me really try to be that for a while!
Ash Sue
2024-02-08 13:52:55 +0000 UTCi like hearing your thoughts and 1000% agree with what you said about how tops are worshipping their bottoms and then being prideful in the fact that they are, so what’s the shame in being the worshipped bottom?! it’s a weird thing from messaging on social media and transitioning to a lesbian dynamic from years of dating men. with men it’s expected, but with lesbians i feel like everyone praises being a top! so strange. we have been talking about it a lot more since this video actually, because i didn’t realize i had so many emotions bottled up about it until we started filming and talking about it!
Ash Sue
2024-02-08 13:51:44 +0000 UTCMaybe I’m interpreting the concept a little wrong because I havent seen much of that part of media. I will say I feel like gay men go through similar issues, where bottoms are shamed more and maybe labeled as ‘more gay’ with neg connotations since they’re the one always taking it. Which obviously isn’t fair either. This is an interesting topic overall tho I enjoyed this video 🫶🏼
Joy
2024-02-08 00:56:52 +0000 UTCI’m honestly surprised that bottoms are said to be ‘less than’ like Um hello? Especially from tops? Like the whole point of being a top is “worshiping” or wanting to please your partner right? Getting more sexual acts performed on you by somebody who prides themselves in giving those acts sounds great for both parties.. so where does the hate come from? Makes no sense to me. However, when ash got a lil emotional sharing her guilt ab struggling with the feeling of wondering if she’s returning the favor or giving enough back, I can understand the validity in that and how that can be an insecurity bc I feel that way at times too bc of course bottoms want to please their partners too and to be enough in that way! I guess the answer to that would just be being open and communication
Joy
2024-02-08 00:42:48 +0000 UTC
