You are my Dessert Lover

I am pulled into a salty arroyo of life and death, Your hot rod burns into me, Undulating to some primordial rhythm of the dessert, Our bodies held together by breath and sand, we are gripped by life and swallowed up by the waiting Universe.

To you, my Patreons, I wish a hot, sweaty summer of underachieving, forgetting, doing it wrong, and being sloppy. All the the things we are not--let's be, how would that change our loving? I'm taking a clown class and seriously learning to do it wrong!

In Portland? Join me for Naked at My Age,  Aug 17, at the Echo Theatre. Here's my fall touring for my show: Vancouver Fringe, Los Angeles, Austin, and more. I love traveling and meeting audiences with this sex positive, 'can do' attitude. I sell Whore Hats and bumper stickers, "If my panties aren't WET, they don't come off!" in the lobby

Join me, Dear Patreons, in Nicaragua for Intimacy in Paradise workshops, one for women, one for couples. Yum, yum, yum!!! I'm on our mile-long, pristine beach with baby sea turtles. Come!

Sex is Political

Project 2025 is a war on LGBTQ+ folks and privacy:  This is an excellent piece from the New Republic about The Real Targets of Project 2025’s War on Porn. It’s not people watching porn online, which would be bad enough, it’s drag queens, trans people, LGBTQ+ library books, and more. 

Decriminalization adult/consensual Sex Work moves forward: Sex workers are tax paying citizens yet are denied housing, banking, and police protection. Support for the human rights of sex workers is growing world wide and promoted by Amnesty International, the World Health Organization, and Human Rights watch.

As reported in Scottish Daily Express, most Scots believe making sex work a crime, increases violence against sex workers drives their work underground making communities less safe. New York is passing a law, Stop Violence in the Sex Trades Act, which will allow sex workers to report crimes they see, or are victim to, without being arrested. This cooperation with police will help solve crimes sooner and save lives such as in the Gilgo Beach murders.

Is it OK to pay for sex? Here’s a great debate, Open to Debate